Unless you are a pro and expect money and gifts, I do not think men will get something from me that they would not get without the gifts.
I love sex and need it often. However, unless you are interesting, reasonably good looking and make me feel the best gift I could want is a night you. I doubt that any gift would change my conclusion about the man in question.
Now if we had a wonderful night and in the morning when I wake up and still have my sexual glow on and find an envelope with a gift certificate for Jimmy Chew, Tiffany or a weekend at my favorite SPA. Those things do not hurt your chances that there will be a fourth or fifth time for us.
Active Ink Slinger