I'm very into intelligent, sensual conversations. If I send you a message, it means I’ve really checked out your profile and I like something on there. No, I won’t ask you for your pic in the first message and no I won’t send you dick pics in the first message either. Yes, I’m happy to share a pic of me with you if we click. I’m just looking to connect with someone on an intellectual/sensual level. Not looking for hookups. Ps: I’m black + married, and I love reading. Hoping some connections here become good friends.

Things I’m not into or crazy about:

• or family trysts - but no judgement

• Receiving nude pics right after I say hello. Not that I don’t think you’re beautiful, I just want to get to know you first, then pics afterwards :)

Send me a message if this resonates xo