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CliffordAClavin
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 52
United States
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I've been thinking about this myself lately. Also just tired of the maintenance or stubble if I get lazy. I know the spa where I get massages (upright place, no hanky-panky (unfortunately)) also does waxing, but I haven't asked if they'd do the male brazilian.
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Several times during long makeout sessions while in high school and college. Usually unintentional, just induced by grinding. Gawd I miss long grinding sessions.
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19 years ago I slept with one of my friends I'd known for eight years. He's still a good friend and we still hook up for sex a couple times a year.
Otherwise, no, I don't try to make FWBs out of friends.
Otherwise, no, I don't try to make FWBs out of friends.
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Doesn't matter from the perspective of the success of my relationship with the person. It only matters from the perspective of the risk for diseases. That said, if they've played safe and been tested, I'm perfectly comfortable with a partner who's had dramatically more or less experience than me. Heck, they just might have something to teach me. ;)
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I've tried the strap on with the wife. That just didn't work.
My condolences. It works wonders for me. Definitely in stiff competition with the real thing.
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The book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure is a great place to start exploring. Well written for the beginner with information that will also benefit those who've been playing for years. Highly recommended.
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Are you male or female? Male
How old are you? 47
How many times a week do you masturbate? 5+
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? Yes
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Yes
In the shower? No
In the bath? Rarely
Outdoors? Rarely
At work? Occasionally
Every room in the house? Yep
In a car while traveling... ? Not in years
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Rarely
A friend? Sometimes
A friend's spouse? No
A stranger? Yes
A student? N/A
A member of the same sex? Yes
A past lover? Yes
What position do you play in:
On your back? Yes
Standing? No
Kneeling? Not generally, but it's happened
Sitting? Yes
Lying on tummy? Rarely
How do you play:
With left hand? No
With right hand? Yes
With a toy? about a third of the time
With water from bath? No
Written erotica? Occasionally
Pictures? Frequently
Movie clips online? Frequently
Videos? Rarely
Something on TV? Rarely
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? Probably
Gay or lesbian sex? Sometimes
Group sex or orgies? No
Blow jobs/oral sex? No
Cumshots? NO
Anal? Frequently
Interracial? Occasionally
Age play? No
S&M? Occasionally
Role playing? No
Kinky? What does that even mean anymore
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? No
A chat room dialogue? No
Exchanged stories or pictures? Yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? Yes
Masturbated for a man/woman? Yes
Masturbated for the same sex? Yes
Masturbated in a group? Not as an adult
Masturbated for a photo? Yes
Masturbated for a webcam? No
Masturbated for a video? No
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? No
Insert something or play with your ass? Yes
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? No
Use pain as a method of playing? Rarely
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Not generally
When was the last time you masturbated? Yesterday
Are you wet or hard now? No
Are you going to masturbate now? No
Are you a masturbation addict? No
What is the most you have played in one day? 5
How old are you? 47
How many times a week do you masturbate? 5+
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? Yes
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Yes
In the shower? No
In the bath? Rarely
Outdoors? Rarely
At work? Occasionally
Every room in the house? Yep
In a car while traveling... ? Not in years
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Rarely
A friend? Sometimes
A friend's spouse? No
A stranger? Yes
A student? N/A
A member of the same sex? Yes
A past lover? Yes
What position do you play in:
On your back? Yes
Standing? No
Kneeling? Not generally, but it's happened
Sitting? Yes
Lying on tummy? Rarely
How do you play:
With left hand? No
With right hand? Yes
With a toy? about a third of the time
With water from bath? No
Written erotica? Occasionally
Pictures? Frequently
Movie clips online? Frequently
Videos? Rarely
Something on TV? Rarely
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? Probably
Gay or lesbian sex? Sometimes
Group sex or orgies? No
Blow jobs/oral sex? No
Cumshots? NO
Anal? Frequently
Interracial? Occasionally
Age play? No
S&M? Occasionally
Role playing? No
Kinky? What does that even mean anymore
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? No
A chat room dialogue? No
Exchanged stories or pictures? Yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? Yes
Masturbated for a man/woman? Yes
Masturbated for the same sex? Yes
Masturbated in a group? Not as an adult
Masturbated for a photo? Yes
Masturbated for a webcam? No
Masturbated for a video? No
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? No
Insert something or play with your ass? Yes
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? No
Use pain as a method of playing? Rarely
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Not generally
When was the last time you masturbated? Yesterday
Are you wet or hard now? No
Are you going to masturbate now? No
Are you a masturbation addict? No
What is the most you have played in one day? 5
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Nah, I think it's a bunch of romantic phooey. How many people here have dated 300 people or more? If you have, congratulations, you've dated % of the earths total population so you now can be confident that there is no one better matched for you in the world. Oh, wait, that's not a very representative sample. Bah, you get the point. To say there is only one person for each person is mathematically silly.
You find someone who doesn't drive you to drink, who can bring a smile out of you on a grey day, who knows how to rev your engine and you call it good. The rest is just Hollywood stuff.
You find someone who doesn't drive you to drink, who can bring a smile out of you on a grey day, who knows how to rev your engine and you call it good. The rest is just Hollywood stuff.
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Then again, have you seen the new Neuro Sonic energy drink bottles?
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I didn't mean for it to kick your butt. Sorry if you thought that.
I was just trying to add more perception to your thought on why so many who are bi-curious. There do seem a lot but many who list that aren't really just "curious" anymore. They have moved past it but can't quite own it yet. They need time before they can make that literal step.
I'm afraid to put it this way as some will try to say I am saying they have some kind of disease and I am not. If they did I would have the same disease. But it is kind of like an alcoholic. Many times an alcoholic can admit to themselves they are an alcoholic and even go to an AA meeting. But it takes months or weeks before they can stand up in a meeting and say it.
Everyone needs to work that out for themselves.
Or not. I think bisexuality is more complicated than categories or names. I have a coworker who was a lesbian until she was 37, met a guy and has now been married two year and calls herself straight. If I've been with both men and women for the last 20 years, but I'm currently monogamous to my wife, am I still bi? I have another coworker who was married for 20 years, got divorced, met a guy, and has been with him exclusively for four years. Is he gay?
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I'm not a big fan of head and it's been a very long time since I've had anal. The of anal is definitely a turn on and right now if I had the opportunity, that's where I'd go. But vaginas are wonderful things and I love them dearly. I say vag for the win.
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Ideally a landing strip and that's it, but at the very least trimmed up enough so I'm not flossing while I'm going down on her.
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I've had several memorable occasions outside. One was after getting rained on before starting to climb a 5.7 pitch with my girlfriend and having to wait for the rock to dry. We had amazing sex at the top of the pitch after setting up our top rope. We could look down onto Interstate 70, hundreds of feet below and see thousands of cars per hour driving past. The other was also near the interstate but in the dead of night. Same girlfriend tied me up to a tree and took me with a strap-on in an abandoned campground. It was a warm summer's night and the risk of getting caught doing something so made it some of the hottest sex I've ever had.
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While generally I'm an ass man, I have this strange thing for being attracted to noses. Melina Kanakaredes, Sarah Jessica Parker, Giada De Laurentiis, Ameesha Patel.... It's just something that draws my attention and holds it.
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My wife is a pleaser. Frankly, we both are despite the fact that most of our lives have been with people who took but seldom gave back. I can't tell you how much I appreciate a partner who will just do the simple stuff, like offer to get me a drink when she gets home and I'm already crashed out on the couch. Well, that eagerness to please goes into the bedroom, too. Her quick adaptation to my kinkier side emerged out of her excitement at the thought of making me happy. While she had never had so much as a finger up a man's ass before, now she wants a toy within reach so she can take me to that next level.
She's still a shy person in the bedroom, but she's opened new doors and become comfortable with what's inside. You're taking steps down the hallway, just take a look around, enjoy the scenery and realize that there's a very good chance no permanent injuries will come of all this. Continue to take pauses, talk about what freaks you out, and absorb the good stuff into your life and routine.
She's still a shy person in the bedroom, but she's opened new doors and become comfortable with what's inside. You're taking steps down the hallway, just take a look around, enjoy the scenery and realize that there's a very good chance no permanent injuries will come of all this. Continue to take pauses, talk about what freaks you out, and absorb the good stuff into your life and routine.
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I'm not sure on my record JO orgasms from my youth, but my record for sex was five times in a day. Recently I did five ejaculations in a day, four solo while the wife was away, then she came home thorny. Fnl was I tired!
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I'm not picky in real life, but if I were to look at a line up and choose my favorite a firm 32-34B would probably be my choice. In reality I've enjoyed almost every breast I've been around.
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Reminds me of an old joke.
A young man receives an angry visit from his girlfriend's father. The youngster answers the door and asks how he can be of service to him. The father tells him he's none to happy. He noticed that someone took a wee off his back porch and wrote his name in the snow. The youngster sheepishly confesses it was him and doesn't understand why he's so upset about it. The father explains that he has no problem with him taking a piss off his back porch and all, but he's quite upset that it was his daughter's handwriting.
A young man receives an angry visit from his girlfriend's father. The youngster answers the door and asks how he can be of service to him. The father tells him he's none to happy. He noticed that someone took a wee off his back porch and wrote his name in the snow. The youngster sheepishly confesses it was him and doesn't understand why he's so upset about it. The father explains that he has no problem with him taking a piss off his back porch and all, but he's quite upset that it was his daughter's handwriting.
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I've only done it a couple of times, both with my exwife after my divorce. Very hot. Dangerously so. It started out innocently enough while driving to a local place to go mountain biking. In the end, I left my bike in the car park and walked a few hundred yards up the hill to finish us both off. Thank god for hands free headsets.
The other time she was at work and had to go home 'sick' to finish herself off while I stayed on the phone.
The chemistry we had (have) was (is) just amazing. Thankfully she lives a two days drive from me now so that temptation is far enough to keep me faithful.
The other time she was at work and had to go home 'sick' to finish herself off while I stayed on the phone.
The chemistry we had (have) was (is) just amazing. Thankfully she lives a two days drive from me now so that temptation is far enough to keep me faithful.
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ROFLMAO, OMG! Can you imagine if it had gone in and wouldn't come out! Thank god you didn't slide down the banister for entry!
That would definitely top the most embarrassing moment ever. Right next to the front door, too. Not sure how I had the nerve to try it, but I recall numerous attempts on separate occasions.
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Sound advice, LASAR.
I've always been on the sexually adventurous side and tried to pull out the kinky and exploratory side out of all of my partners. While I've done things in the past that don't interest me anymore, I have no regrets. There's a handful of things that were only worth trying once, but many things that seemed before are now routine for me. My wife is not adventurous at all. Heck, when I ask her about her fantasies it's about as vanilla as it gets. But that doesn't mean I haven't normalized some things that are outside the mainstream. She feels lost 69'ing with me unless she has a toy to use in my ass, when she's on her period she pegs me instead, and once in a while she craves a weekend of debochery in a hotel that has to be satisfied even if it's just down the road.
Try to keep an open mind and let her play. Try to generate some ideas of your own. Keep the communication flowing and let her know when you need a break vs bringing everything to a halt. Sometimes you just need to wrap your head around new experiences just like catching your breath during a workout. Be kind to you.
I've always been on the sexually adventurous side and tried to pull out the kinky and exploratory side out of all of my partners. While I've done things in the past that don't interest me anymore, I have no regrets. There's a handful of things that were only worth trying once, but many things that seemed before are now routine for me. My wife is not adventurous at all. Heck, when I ask her about her fantasies it's about as vanilla as it gets. But that doesn't mean I haven't normalized some things that are outside the mainstream. She feels lost 69'ing with me unless she has a toy to use in my ass, when she's on her period she pegs me instead, and once in a while she craves a weekend of debochery in a hotel that has to be satisfied even if it's just down the road.
Try to keep an open mind and let her play. Try to generate some ideas of your own. Keep the communication flowing and let her know when you need a break vs bringing everything to a halt. Sometimes you just need to wrap your head around new experiences just like catching your breath during a workout. Be kind to you.
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1.5-2. I prefer women for relationships, like both for sex. Sex with either can vary from boring to mind-altering.
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When I was like 17 I started craving a cock. I prefer women 99% of the time but I love hooking up with an older man every once in awhile. Anyway I went through a phase where I had to stick something up my ass. I got creative. But the best thing I found was a hair straightener that I took off the clamp part so it was just the long dick like part. It was just like a dildo. I put a condom on it so it was more comfortable because it was metal. I started slow but by the end of the night I was sitting down with 1 leg in the air while I shoved it deep in me while I was masturbating. It felt so amazing to cum with that in me.
I was the same way around that time. There wasn't a shampoo bottle, d cell battery, candle or marker that I didn't try having up my ass at some point. I think the one that nearly killed me was the banister topper on the stairs. It was spade shaped and try as I might, I could never get it all the way in. It wasn't through a lack of trying.
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Despite years of getting massages for back issues, I've only recently found a massage therapist who likes finishing with a happy ending. Holy shit, I feel like an idiot for missing out on this for years. Beyond that, she's a body builder with a phenomenal body and does all her work in the nude and has no problem with touching. It's blissful.
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Women in nice suits. I love the fact that my job causes me to interact with a lot of female attorneys. It's just one of those perks of the job.
Also, accidental flashes of nice panties. Totally hot.
Good banter is a huge. Turn on, but it's not something that's going to give me instant wood. More of a slow burn kind of hotness.
Also, accidental flashes of nice panties. Totally hot.
Good banter is a huge. Turn on, but it's not something that's going to give me instant wood. More of a slow burn kind of hotness.
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For me it was just poor choices of where to park to make out that made things crazy. The number of times we were interrupted by the rap of a baton or flashlight on the car window had to be in the dozens. Thankfully the windows were fogged up enough to prevent them from getting too much of a show, but talk about distracting.
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Huge turn off. I've only been with two smokers in my life and really didn't like it.