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CliffordAClavin
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 52
United States

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It's definitely not for me. The couple of times someone's cum in my mouth I spit it out. I had a girlfriend who liked snowballing me and it was alright, but mainly I loved kissing her. The taste has never appealed to me.
Her choice and I won't judge her either way. What I like to see is firm ones free and flurried ones tamed. That said, all runners should tie those things down before someone loses an eye and if its down to just lounging around, with little to no activity, let the big dogs free.
Go out to a nice dinner and flash him.
Insert a wireless remote controlled vibrator and hand him the remote control just before the movie starts.
Go gambling with him and whisper to him just before placing the bet that if you win, he gets X tonight (your ass, you in the backseat naked, a threesome...)
Go for a nature walk with him and seduce him trailside.
Absolutely. Personally, I went through a phase where I preferred A and B cups, but even today I'm generally not all that turned on my the over single D crowd. A nice B or C is perfect for me. I don't care one way or the other about implants if they were done well. Most look fantastic, but I've also found most women with implants have either lost nipple sensitivity or have hyper-sensitive nipples. Neither of which is good.
Male cum: bleck. Awful stuff. Female cum: great while going down, but it's not like I'd buy a six pack of it for drinking after work. In the moment its awesome.

And the two times a guy came in my mouth I spit it out.
I've gotten several with my wife. Never anything inappropriate. Generally pretty enjoyable to just have your lover close while you're both completely relaxed.
What I do is the little everyday stuff that can make her life a little better. Making sure she has a bottle of wine opened when I know she's had a hard day at work, buying her a GPS when she was frustrated with getting lost after we moved, making sure she has a flashlight in her EMT jacket, and going to a Mexican food restaurant with her because it's what she wants (I hate Mexican food).
Being relatively new here, I do find the custom of thanking someone for adding you as a friend by posting a bunch of gifs to their wall is odd. While I'm not necessarily offended, it does feel like my personal space being decorated by some stranger I've only just met. It also seems like a rather public display of affection (orperversion). ;)
While I love the idea of DP'ing a woman, I can't help but notice that usually only one person is moving in the videos I've seen. How is the real thing? I'd think it would be hot, but how well does it work in the real world.
It's funny because there's more gay videos than turn me off than turn me on, but I'm bi-curious/bi. I don't like watching men kiss (or kissing men), I'm not a super big fan of oral (but it's ok), but I love ass play.

Yep, there's one in every crowd. Enjoy what you like, be true to yourself.
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Can you enjoy this and be straight or bi or what are people's thoughts. Also have you tried it or would like to try it?

Does eating broccoli make you a vegetarian? biggrin

I think you can play with your ass and prostate and be 100% straight. Your wife can play with your ass and prostate and you can be 100% straight. However, if your roommate from college is playing with your ass, you're probably not straight.

Yes, been there done that, it's a part of what my wife and I do as foreplay on a regular basis. Wouldn't give it up for the world.
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"Cooter" ??? the mind boggles... over on "ask the girls" the most amazing is "Leviticus" ...

as for "Maynard" .. I know nothing about men's thingies .. but "good stuff Maynard" has a double meaning ??? or have I just got a really dirty mind giggles..
I think it's a great name .... don't trade it.. biggrin

It definitely had more than one meaning, so you're on the right page... in this dirty book...
I've never had a woman squirt, but I think I'd like it. I have a friend who said she's had guys leave the room in disgust after it happened, so like many things in the bedroom, it's not for everyone.
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I wonder if it's a Brit thing?

Yes, we know how much you Brits love anything French.

The first girl I ever shaved was so exciting for her that she was literally dripping from the process. I shaved her, Brazilian style, and she said she was going to just shave my balls, but ended up taking everything off. I didn't mind. It felt great to be that naked.
When I was about 27 my girlfriend had a fantasy of me on top of her missionary and my best friend coming into the room unexpectedly, watching, then joining in by taking me from behind while I was in her. We often shared this fantasy and it evolved into her fucking me with a dildo while I was fucking her and her taking a dildo up her ass while I was fucking her (DP). We eventually broke up and not six months later I really did hook up with that friend. It was my first time with a guy and it was truly surreal. My only regret was that she hadn't been around when it happened. Otherwise, it was an awesome experience.

I'll write a story on that night eventually.
My first girlfriend in High School called mine Maynard. From some expression or commercial that said, "good stuff, Maynard." I haven't called it a name ever since.

Sadly, my wife and I both refer to her sex as her "Cooter". God only knows how that started, but after seven years, I don't see it ending.
It does nothing for me. I'd rather give her one last hard thrust and finish inside of her. Personally, I think it's a distraction to try to pull out at the last moment. Admittedly, I've only one it a couple times, mainly because it does nothing for me or my partners.
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Probably like many who've posted already, I started out dressing for a kick, a sexual buzz. Then a bf asked me to do it regularly, and then I got totally hooked. As time goes on, I find I need to dress more often and be in constant touch with my feminine side, while the sexual side of it, although still there, is often not as important as the feeling of calmness and joy from just being me. I suppose I'm heading for the trans end of the spectrum, and only regret that I'd not found it many years ago.

Having said all that, I totally understand that it's not for everyone, and that some guys don't want to risk or compromise their masculinity. That's fine, I have no issue with that. But please respect those of us who are equally happy in our sexuality and feel the need to show it by dressing both for pleasure or even to satisfy an inner need. And not all of us are queers, sissies or faggots. Some of us feel that life just gave us a shitty break. And we have feelings.

Agreed and really appreciate this post. My cross dressing has waxed and waned over time. To me , it seems to have some counterbalancing effect. The more hyper masculine the rest of my life, the more it comes out. The more balanced my life, the more it retreats. It was at its peak in my life when I was a cop. It was at its minimum when I was married to a she-devil who had me completely cowed. I'm not implying everyone else (or anyone else) responds like this, but now, later in life with it making a resurgence I'm definitely seeing a pattern.
Guess I've never frotted so I won't say anything negative. The fact that I enjoy "bottoming" with my wife from time to time, as well as topping her most of the time doesn't make her more masculine or me more femalinine. I'm versitile with my male partners too, despite prefering bottoming, and again, see this having nothing to do with masculinity or femininity.

Of course the lgbt community has always struggled to figure out where us bi guys belong. We pose a number of inconviences when it comes to categorization. So what's new?
It's the BFF part that gets me. If she's furious after she finds out, and she will find out, who will she turn to? You damaged the relationship with her two most important people in her life.

IMHO, start dating your wife. Rebuild that intimacy again. I've been through serious illness with a wife before and it changes everything. You become a caretaker, a role you didn't want and builds resentments over time; she became dependent, something that destroys the self esteem of every woman. You're not the same people you were before the illness and likely never will be again, but you're also not the same people you were with the illness. Take the time to get the new woman, your survivor wife, and try to fall in love again.
Thursday night when I gave her Valentine's gift early, Friday morning she took the strap on to me, Sunday we had a quickie in the morning. Given the path my last two marriages took by two years in and the fact that we've now been together for over seven years, I couldn't be happier. Finally found a keeper.