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Crazy_Girl
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
United States

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Quote by BethanyFrasier
I've known I am very bi-sexual all my life, so anyone who wants to be in a relationship with me, male or female, has to come to grips with sharing me with the other gender at some point, because I'm not going to give up sex with girls for any guy, and vice versa, so this has been my sexual pattern all my life. For years, I had a lesbian lover who had to share me with guys occasionally, and now I have 2 boyfriends who share me with other girls and other guys both. I try new things with all of them, but I have my preferences and my limits, and so do all my partners. As you can guess, I'm pretty open-minded sexually, so I've tried a lot of weird stuff, but I've found my comfort-zone, and everyone I'm involved with respects that.



It sounds like you have found some very open minded people around you and I love when real life works out like that. Thing is, how far would you go for your partner? Would you go out of your comfort zone to please them?
I think many marriages/relationships over the years go through different periods of exploration and broadening of your sexual tastes. Whether it is getting more comfortable with each other or finally shaking your inhibitions that were built over a lifetime, you find yourself at the brink of options you never thought you would be considering. What do you do???

So, for a woman, maybe you start to look at other women differently....consider the threesome he's been asking you about for so long. For men, maybe he really liked when you were playing with his ass during sex and he asked you to take it further, maybe strap something on and let him see what it really feels like?

Question is, ladies, do you strap one on and fuck him if he asks you to? Do you take that step and have the threesome that you are toying with in the back of your mind?

OR do you keep all of these types of desires in the fantasy realm?

What other things have been requested that finally made you draw the line...or explore further??


Lots of questions I know...but I am so curious what other's limits might be....
"She falls in love the way the wind blows" - Yes. and from experience I have learned to be very protective of my heart and not allow it to happen ever again.
One word is hard...I have several.

Happy

Sexy

Confident

(never was good at following rules! lol!)
Hubby loves tan lines...

When thinking of women, I like them too, very sexy. On a man, I could take it or leave it. It doesn't carry the same appeal on a man for me.
Seeing as we are considering a threesome, I would say yes because in that he will be with another woman. I don't think he would ever demand or ask to be with someone without me being there or involved somehow.

If he did ask this...I would have to question what is wrong with us that would make him want someone else and not include me? I would definitely take it personally and even if he never actually did it, I would second guess everything just by him asking. (yes, admittedly insecure here....)
Quote by brianlarry
Thanks gals, I appreciate the insights. BabyBlonde I hope you're right and I agree with 1nympholes, time for a serious discussion. I at least need her to know that if the situation ever presented itself that I would be ok with it.

Heck what gets me off is the thought of her with another girl. I don't even need to be there. I would love the details of course. Throwing in the threesome is just gravy!


Speaking from experience of being in the situation your wife is (being turned on by women, but never been with one), you are a good man. I like that you would let her be with another woman on her own first. Letting her explore this side of herself and share her experiences will surely lead to great sex at the very least. Then if it is a positive experience for her, she may want you to join them at one point.

Some men are so driven by the threesome side of things that they don't think about how much a woman is taking on to give their man that kind of fantasy. It is a good thing I think to let the woman be with someone else on her own and get all of her nervousness out of the way...define her own limits without the pressure of you being there. Then, if it feels right...a threesome could follow. ;)
I like what he likes....when he likes it....which is most often vaginal. When we have time to spend....he likes anal. I love both. smile
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Uh...??? WTF?????? Weirdest question I've read in my whole life


Really? That is the weirdest question? You mean you don't call yours Crow the Warrior King? lol!

https://youtu.be/Mg7RrLU3Uq8
Love outdoor sex...especially pool sex. The idea of someone watching both scares me to death and also excites the hell out of me. Love not having to hold back.
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Nice to meet you Chrissy. Love the honesty and integrity of your profile. You may be crazy, but I suspect it's the good kind.


Definitely the good kind!
Love it! Love the feeling I get knowing how I make him feel....and love to see and hear his reaction as I do it....love doing something that he loves so much.
I love all sorts but find myself wearing lace mostly and boy shorts or bikinis...

and here's a cleanse for those who needed it...


A mustache is a must for me, but not a beard. It doesn't have to be clean shaven, but I must see your face through it. Thick beards are not my thing. ..
I think I figured it out and yes it was on that settings screen. I just didn't notice the option when I was looking before. Thank you! smile