Very sexy pics on your timeline...and I love your screen name!
Get Back In My Life
Maroon 5
So here is my take…women are very specific about what turns them on visually and men are not so much. In other words…boobs in general…big, small, fake, real…makes no difference, many guys I know are just generally turned on by them. Some guys are turned on by a perfect body or the perfect ass and some guys like a more “real world” natural every day body. Men are generally, physically turned on by all of these things and none in particular.
Women are a bit more specific. Yes, a nice looking, well-built man is a turn on, but it is more than that. The look on his face, the look in his eyes, or the idea that he might touch us that is really the turn on. Not so much just his looks, but what we imagine we would enjoy doing with someone who looked like that.
Women, (me) are turned on by the way someone makes her feel…..and that includes the way they look but it also includes when they do certain things that make us feel good. If a man (or woman, because make no mistake, women are turned on by women too), looks at us a certain way and they have other physical attributes that we like to see, that affects us. If someone touches certain places like the small of your back as you enter a room or brushing hands when reaching for something, even if by accident it can send shivers down my spine and fill my mind with what else I’d like them to do. A simple act of brushing my hair off my shoulder has my head spinning sometimes. (right person, right circumstances)
Physically what does “turned on” mean? To me, it could mean a whole host of things but I think in short it is the feeling of adrenaline coursing through your body by a touch or a smile or a look from across the room by someone who is pleasing to our eyes. It is a high that we want more of right now! I feel warm inside, tingly all over, and yes, wet when someone is, says, or does something that sparks my libido into high gear.
That is just my take…we are women though and we are not all the same, thank heaven!
It isn't more intimate for me, but I have been in my relationship for a long time. I can see why someone in a new relationship might say that because some might think it takes a bit more trust to allow someone to go down on you than to have intercourse with you. Also, when you are new at receiving oral (as a woman) it takes a bit of letting go to allow yourself to enjoy it. Some women don't allow themselves to enjoy oral as they should and doing that takes trust which would require intimacy.
Chrissy 
