I don't get onto this site too often, but this thread is about due for an update right?
So I had a talk with my lady friend a little while back because we were getting decently comfortable with one another. To my surprise, it really was because of a cleanliness issue! She was mainly worried that she wasn't clean enough for me all the time to go about my business down there. Don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful she was a little worried about being clean (more so then some girls may or may not be lol). But yeah, so I talked it over with her. Made sure to let her know I love to pleasure her, and that I do it because I enjoy it too, not like it's a duty or something. She is a lot more relaxed when I go down on her now, and seems to enjoy it much more knowing that I do it because I care too. Sometimes I'll see if she wants to hop into a shower together, just in case she still feels the need to. She is a very clean girl, so with or without the shower, she tastes great! Needless to say though, she let's me stay down there for days now =).
WHR43 - I love it when a girl uses her hands behind my head! Let's me know I am doing a good job and that she is enjoying it! Show me enthusiasm, and I'll return it double!
Anonymous - I'm sorry to hear you have that problem. Take it from me though, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. I can't speak for every guy, but if your guys head is down there, it is because we want to be! Try to sit back and relax, let us get to business, and enjoy the ride.
Thanks everyone for the outlet! At that time I just needed some way to let things out, and posting this thread did just that.
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CupofJoe
Over 90 days ago
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Wow, quite a bit of replies.
Rockstar - Thank you for sharing about your personal experience, I'm sure it isn't easy to do. It does seem that she has to be in the right mind set or maybe even have some alcohol for her to feel comfortable. We have just recently started to to get to know one another, I would say about 1 or 2 months. And don't worry, I'm not offended at all with the possibility that she just doesn't like that from me. I'll probably get around to talking to her about it, just not sure how to approach it (always the hardest part lol).
Shadowcat - Timing could be an issue, I could try teasing her a bit more. As for cleanliness, she does shower quite often... never really thought about it before. You may be onto something. And thank you for the offer haha.
LittleMiss - One time when she did let me go down on her, it was pretty much all over my mouth. She kissed me after, and actually said she kind of enjoyed tasting it (kind of being the key word, or she could be lying lol). But I prefer oral to be a two way street, everyone has fun =).
Littlebambi - That thought has crossed my mind too, b/c I could see how that could make a person squeamish with someone you are just getting to know. (But not necessarily our first times here though.) I don't want to ask too soon, b/c I don't want to freak her out. But with due time.
Curvygalore - I'll definitely give it a little time, thanks for the support!
Steve - Hope your situation is good/get's good. We just gotta work at it, right?
Kayte - Haha thanks for that. It's always great to hear those words "don't stop", great moral booster.
Thanks for all the input everyone! Not going to talk to her just yet about it, but when I do, I'll see if I can give an update. If anyone else has anything else to say, don't be afraid to say it!
Rockstar - Thank you for sharing about your personal experience, I'm sure it isn't easy to do. It does seem that she has to be in the right mind set or maybe even have some alcohol for her to feel comfortable. We have just recently started to to get to know one another, I would say about 1 or 2 months. And don't worry, I'm not offended at all with the possibility that she just doesn't like that from me. I'll probably get around to talking to her about it, just not sure how to approach it (always the hardest part lol).
Shadowcat - Timing could be an issue, I could try teasing her a bit more. As for cleanliness, she does shower quite often... never really thought about it before. You may be onto something. And thank you for the offer haha.
LittleMiss - One time when she did let me go down on her, it was pretty much all over my mouth. She kissed me after, and actually said she kind of enjoyed tasting it (kind of being the key word, or she could be lying lol). But I prefer oral to be a two way street, everyone has fun =).
Littlebambi - That thought has crossed my mind too, b/c I could see how that could make a person squeamish with someone you are just getting to know. (But not necessarily our first times here though.) I don't want to ask too soon, b/c I don't want to freak her out. But with due time.
Curvygalore - I'll definitely give it a little time, thanks for the support!
Steve - Hope your situation is good/get's good. We just gotta work at it, right?
Kayte - Haha thanks for that. It's always great to hear those words "don't stop", great moral booster.
Thanks for all the input everyone! Not going to talk to her just yet about it, but when I do, I'll see if I can give an update. If anyone else has anything else to say, don't be afraid to say it!
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Well, I wouldn't call her my girlfriend, per se, more along the lines of getting to know one another one. She has let me go down on her before, and I'm positive she enjoyed it. But for the most part, she seems to feel uncomfortable letting me go down.
And I figure this would be something a girl could relate to, so I posted it here. Advice from a girl or guy is welcome (hence the greeting to guys and gals in my first post), so if you have any input, feel free to share!
And I figure this would be something a girl could relate to, so I posted it here. Advice from a girl or guy is welcome (hence the greeting to guys and gals in my first post), so if you have any input, feel free to share!
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Ok guys and gals, new to the forum, and first post, so if I do anything wrong, please, give me a heads up and don't flame me.
First off, I enjoy going down on a woman. I could stay down there all day, knowing that she is enjoying me using my tongue to explore her. Don't ask me why, but there is just something about it. I don't understand why more guys don't like to, but I digress...
I am seeing this girl, and we've had sex quite a few times. She has let me go down on her I believe 3 times, and I am more then positive that she enjoyed it (from the audio and physical cues). But for the most part, she normally doesn't let me go down on her, or rather, tries to stop me, so I of course stop. I compliment her on her body when we are in bed, tell her how gorgeous she is, and even say how I like going down on her. I don't know what I am doing wrong! Any and all advice is welcome. (Another side note, she is always clean shaven, so that has to mean something right? It's practically an invite!)
First off, I enjoy going down on a woman. I could stay down there all day, knowing that she is enjoying me using my tongue to explore her. Don't ask me why, but there is just something about it. I don't understand why more guys don't like to, but I digress...
I am seeing this girl, and we've had sex quite a few times. She has let me go down on her I believe 3 times, and I am more then positive that she enjoyed it (from the audio and physical cues). But for the most part, she normally doesn't let me go down on her, or rather, tries to stop me, so I of course stop. I compliment her on her body when we are in bed, tell her how gorgeous she is, and even say how I like going down on her. I don't know what I am doing wrong! Any and all advice is welcome. (Another side note, she is always clean shaven, so that has to mean something right? It's practically an invite!)