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CurlyGirly
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
United States

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Quote by ginger86
cg and maz coming home


Thanks, Sweetie! I'm glad to be back!
Quote by wolverine15
A certain curly haired girl rejoining Lush, and making me smile every day. Yes haters I do smile.


This certainly cheered me up, but then again he always knows how to do that. Or piss me off a lot. He does that, too.
I prefer trimmed and not totally shaved. You know the whole not see the forest for the trees or more Lush appropriate...not see the cock and balls for the pubes or some other eloquent shit like that.

So my vote is trimmed.
Quote by blackpoolguy
Sorry if my spelling is not perfect just like I'm not perfect and the reason I don't post story's on here because people. Would just point out the bad grammar and layout finding it funny rather then being helpful and helping people like me who are not as educated as the more perfect writer's. On here


If you're going to be a frequent forum poster, I suggest you develop a thicker skin. At some point or another we all usually end of being a target in the forums because of something we said, how we said it, or the good old spelling/grammar. This is a story website, so people are usually pretty particular about spelling and grammar. Lastly, with the exception of one person on this thread, everyone else was being helpful and answered your original question; that's what I would suggest you focus on.

Happy posting!
Quote by blackpoolguy
Why do some guys on here seem to have loads of women adding them and other guys seem never to get noticed? What is the reason you add guys there must be a reason smile I prefer to chat with somebody before I add them rather then have a list of ppl I never chat to but that's just me


I assume, because they're sending loads of friend requests and not that women are seeking them out.

Since I've returned to Lush, I'm mostly just adding my old friends who I was close(ish) to. However, I've made it a point not to add any red AV's or blank random friend requests. Not that it's a perv-proof plan, but by doing that I seem to have many, many fewer black boxes with "Hey, I'm horny. Wanna help me with it? HeHe."
Quote by TheDevilsWeakness
Instead of pushing myself to do things outside of my comfort zone, I'll jump in headfirst and with enthusiasm.
I have the amazing ability to tolerate drunken assholes better when I'm drinking, instead of cutting them to pieces verbally.
I can handle being in contact with family members for long periods of time without the urge to tell them exactly what I think of them.
I have an overwhelming urge to cut off all my hair because it's in my face or I'm sitting on it or I've just closed a car door on it or some asshole thinks it's "fun" to play with.
I need to go to the washroom a lot more since I "broke the seal".
For some odd reason I find explosives a lot more fun while drinking. (Fireworks... not C4)
My 8 and 9 ball game improves immensely. So does my dart game, actually.

Once I've hit my limit and I'm falling down drunk, all the above is null and void and its a total free for all.
No one escapes unscathed, especially me.




As W15 was kind enough to point out, I seem to go to 11 when I'm drunk. Everything is just more amped up. I'm friendlier, touchier, snarkier, louder, blunter, hornier, and jokier (I would say I'm funnier, but not sure that anyone else would agree), and depending on the day way more maudlin (i.e., Sunday night and New Year's Eve).
Quote by blackpoolguy
OK your on lush and non of your friends know it and you start talking to this guy telling each other your fantasys and getting closer then he says a few things that arouse. Your suspicion and to your horror you find out he is one of your friends boyfriends do you tell her he is trying to cheat or just cut contact with him before he finds out who you are and say nothing?


Can you be a little clearer on the cheating? Is he just trying to cyber with me or is he attempting to arrange a hookup IRL?

I assume a large portion of the Lush population is here in secret (I was one of those), and their SO's are clueless about their accounts. A lot of people seem to use Lush to play our their fantasies and not "technically" cheat. Right or wrong, that's just the way it is, and I'm not going to argue that point.

Anyway, if he's just cybering, I wouldn't say anything to her. What kind of hypocrite would I be if I did tell her having had a secret Lush account of my own? If he's trying to hook up IRL, then I would find a way to let her know, because I'm sure I'm not the first woman he's tried to hook up with here. Either way, I would cut contact and block him.
Mostly in bed or home office. Recently, I've been at McDonald's or Starbucks quite a bit for free WiFi when I have extended time in between appointments.
You know, I don't really think it's like ordering a pizza. "I want a mistress, someone please send me one with extra pepperoni."

Like any other type of relationship, you need to get to know the person to see if you're the right fit for each other. If you're serious about a BDSM relationship, I suggest you go do some thorough reading in the BDSM forum. There is a ton of information/suggestions in there. The chat rooms might be helpful as well. If you're not serious, then I'm sure you'll find someone to do some BDSM roleplaying with you eventually. Like anything else in life, you get out of it what you put into it, and so far you're not putting in any effort at all.

Good luck with your search!
Driving home this afternoon I passed a bunch of red barns with barn quilts. For some reason, they make me smile.
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Thanks, And very well put, but I come off as cocky, which I don't really know how to put it? And what kinds of things during the initial conversation or opening lines be?


That right there is a turnoff when a guy approaches me. Cocky guys make me think they're overcompensating for something and usually make me want to punch them in the throat. Probably not the type of passion MOST guys are looking for. Love confident men, but cocky is a no go.

Good luck with your search!
Very comprehensive image gallery. Certainly gives you an idea what he's all about.
Dear Bitchface Bride,

Thank you for the honor of being one of 10, that's right TEN, bridesmaids at the most epic wedding ever. I know you mentioned it's because I hold a special place in your heart, so you can understand why I would be distressed that I can be so easily replaced. I'm curious how you know that many people you would want in your wedding? Anyway, I'm glad you'll be at least saddened that I'll just become another guest. I guess I should be relieved that I'll still be invited and expected to give you an expensive gift, but surely it's the least I can do for you and Jake after letting you down so heinously.


As far as your ground rules, I don't really wish to be at your beck and call or email you my itinerary for the next year as much fun as that sounds. While I understand that this is YOUR dream wedding, it's certainly not MY dream, so don't expect me to bankrupt myself flying around the country throwing you parties. I don't need until Wednesday to know that I'm not the right gal to fill one of ten hideous dresses you've chosen, but thanks again for honoring me.

Sincerely,
Not So Fucking Honored

P.S. Since I'll only be a "guest" maybe I can finally wear that $25 dress I got from Forever 21?
Honestly, I'm not quite sure, but I think a lot. I do know that my profile is complete bullshit right now. If you knew me before, then you know who I am!
Yes, I've been gone for about 5 or 6 months. However, I left because my real life was imploding and nothing at all to do with Lush except my lack of self control. I needed to focus on things in my real life and used Lush as a goal/reward when certain things were accomplished, then I thought I could sign back on.

I'm not a serial account deleter, and my user name has remained the same. I'm not hiding who I am/was; I just needed to do what was right for me at that time.