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The real girl from Ipanema---no joke. She wrote and introduced the early great bossa nova songs.
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The real girl from Ipanema---no joke. She wrote and introduced the early great bossa nova songs.
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Here on the "south shore" it is called "tonic." Personally I call it toxic.
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
My uncle always tells me I belong in the 70's and early 80's, cuz girls went braless then and it was cool.
Who in his right mind wants you to wear a bra? It is still more than cool in my world!
While he is at it, why don't you tell him to go veil the Mona Lisa too!
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
My breasts... they have little grappling hooks that shoot out and drag every guy I meet to their doom!
Not me. Though they are succulent. Oops!
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Care for some crumpets with your tea? NO! I will not trade Trinket. We kinda like her around these parts.
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Quote by RavenStar
Many times. It's always a sort of relief to fall out of love when you can't have what you want. Then there's the memory of what could never be, a dull ache in the chest where before it was a tempest. And you move on, an extra mark on your weathered heart.
This somehow rang true with me. Thank you RavenStar.
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Of course it is as long as there is no "poisoning the well."
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Wow! This was fun and interesting to read!
I could not agree more sweetheart. I just did it myself. A fascinating question.
But I think sex starts with the mind. If it is closed or messed up, no matter what a guy does is going to change anything.
The guy needs to love you, trust you, and feel valued, out of and in bed.
By valued I mean that you make life different for the better for him, AND that he is allowed to make life better for you.
Generosity works two ways. If I give you something you really need, let us say a coat in a cold climate, I am being generous. If you use and treasure what I have given you and I see you wearing the coat one day, you have repaid me. Today, too many people do not have those feelings: Especially the receiving kind of generosity.
If your man does feel you are grateful for his best shot (assuming he is taking care of his health and it IS the best he can do), then he HAS to know that he fulfills your desires (note I did not say your EVERY desire here). But if he does NOT fulfill your desires, he will either gradually or suddenly NO LONGER DESIRE YOU.
To put it simply: LOVE him for what he does do to you from his heart, and from his soul, and mean it(!), and it is very likely he will gain confidence, feel valued, and want to be a better man for you without your even asking in many cases. You will see him doing things you never thought he would.
This is based on my OWN experience.
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I have always let anyone who knows me have their own private spaces. so they let me have mine. People know I come here and I tell them what the site is about. But I just don't naturally discuss details of a sexual nature with others anyway, so people have known me to be that way all my life anyway.
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
You want lighter? OK, who can answer my watermelon question that I posted in another forum? Do the white seeds become the dark seeds, or are they separate and distinct seed-races? :-)
The dark seeds become the white seeds????? Or does it matter as long as we know they taste lousy?
Oh, I just wanted to be the lucky chap who got to try to answer the lovely Bethany's question.
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Melbourne is a place down under.
Very cute outfit Orangelove.
Very cute outfit Orangelove.
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Very sad news about the loss of a legend.
God Bless.
Indeed. Truly one of the sexiest women I have ever seen.