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Dancewithme
Over 90 days ago
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Well, the beautiful lady with him thinks he is nice, but we can all see he is very likely to be very naughty.
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Phys Ed......How to Keep A Perfect Bum, and Hot Thighs That Kill
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Being addicted to Lush. lol
Two important points I would say are:
1) Alcohol and nicotine are both extremely hard addictions to fight. Bless all of you who have recognize them for what they are and have successfully treated them for a large part of your life.
2) I am finding from hundreds of cases I know of, many so-called therapists are pretty good at diagnosis but fail to learn about techniques that help their patients with pragmatic solutions. Many disorders have effective ways for us to alter our behavior, and with practice can make our problems much easier to deal with.
For those of you with specific diagnoses that you think are reasonably accurate, there are some great books so help you recognize when you have your psychological challenge, and to do specific things to help yourself.
I wonder how many people cause problems for themselves AND OTHERS by being in states of denial.
Please learn to love and have faith in yourselves.
Two important points I would say are:
1) Alcohol and nicotine are both extremely hard addictions to fight. Bless all of you who have recognize them for what they are and have successfully treated them for a large part of your life.
2) I am finding from hundreds of cases I know of, many so-called therapists are pretty good at diagnosis but fail to learn about techniques that help their patients with pragmatic solutions. Many disorders have effective ways for us to alter our behavior, and with practice can make our problems much easier to deal with.
For those of you with specific diagnoses that you think are reasonably accurate, there are some great books so help you recognize when you have your psychological challenge, and to do specific things to help yourself.
I wonder how many people cause problems for themselves AND OTHERS by being in states of denial.
Please learn to love and have faith in yourselves.
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Quote by Metilda
There are a lot of kinky women on this site
But the responses might be from a few things...
For one, the women who go to 'ask the gals' aren't representative of the full variety of women on Lush. It's a much smaller number of participants.
Also, if you're asking about real life experiences and preferences you might hit the Fantsay-to-Reality wall...
Women and men - in general - tend to be different when it comes to kink and fantasies.
Women tend to explore concepts purely within the confines of fantasy without ever having the intent on following through with it. Or, without ever actually experiencing it in real life and honestly being just fine with that and not feeling like they're missing out.
Men - in general - seem to have more reality-based fantasies. If they fantasize it's because they're more likely to really want to DO that.
So therein, you'll find a lot of women who get off on ideas but don't want to experience it in real life - in real life it might not be hot or sexy to try out, it might be offensive or a major turn off.
For another, those who are willing to do things in real life, things like choking are a turn on in part because of the GUY. He's domineering, he's suave, he's SEXY. And well the reality might be that women are dating, married or are sexually involved with guys who aren't quite that. I love a lot of things that I actually WOULD want to experience in real life but my husband doesn't hold that type of mannerism, control, nor do I feel safe with him enough to let him do things like choke me.
And then there's the fact that there are a hell of a lot of stupid freaking questions in Ask the Gals subforum. I've really stopped stepping into that forum because the stupidity of a lot of that content from guys is just eye-roll worthy. What's WRONG with men around here? Asking if we put things into our pussies to get off, or if we get "squishy." (SQUISHY!?) I mean seriously? That shit is obnoxious. A lot of women are sort of sick of having to parse through that crap.
I will NOT talk seriously about sex with guys who think we're . . . god I don't even know what the right term is to sum it up . . . that we're sexually inhibited and underdeveloped and infantile in our thinking about it, or that gross terms like 'squishy' is going to get anyone to want to talk about sex with them. You know that type of stuff makes me question the AGE of members and I do not engage with anyone who sends out the vibe that they aren't old enough to be on this site.
All that being said - don't judge your story content based on the forum responses. That's not really reflective of people here on this site, what their sexual fantasy interests are, and what they'll find appealing.
If you want to get a better sense for how things are received then do some research. Look at stories that contain similar content / tags and see how they're rated and how many people have read them. Read the comments. Stuff like that - investigate.
This was brilliant Matilda, as your posts often are. Thank you for the critique. Wish I could do something about it now.
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Quote by ShyVixen
My eyes
"Mama she's makin eyes at me!" INCREDIBLE eyes angel.
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The best way to put it is when I am "inspired" by someone. The "someone" is always female in gender of the species homo sapiens. lol
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Quote by AmeliaLeigh
Strawberries and Sugar
Strawberries and real cream.....incredible!
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Deep blue shirt with white vertical stripes (2) on each short sleeve, and black, draw string shorts.
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Quote by Mari_25
He’s taken
Not with ardent male but with this lady, I'd love to. It is just that she is not that kind of lady. So I would never ask her to do what she is not comfortable with.1ddUnHU0CTx4hiUW
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I was at the Pell Center for Peace, sitting in one of the cooler rooms and going over my notes for a lecture I was about to give. I stepped out of the room, and a dear old friend was standing there waiting for me to leave, and told me, she just heard that "they have hit one of the twin towers in New York" and it is on fire!" This lady was as agitated as I have ever seen her. She had turned on the media in my lecture site, and as I ascended the stairs, I could hear someone crying. I entered and a lady who was the first to arrive for my lecture was sitting in front of a television and crying almost uncontrollably. I looked at the set and knew instantly what I was looking at. I even know who was likely to have done it, as that site had been hit not long before that. It was the first time since the Korean War that I have seen this nation fused as ONE behind our response. I doesn't happen often. But when the American people sense that they are under real threat, they unite. Few people can do that.
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"mother, teacher, writer"----how can anyone ask any more of one special, giving woman? That alone is a potent lineup!!
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Quote by LKG4MOs
I’ve read all the responses and can’t stop thinking about your delicious island idea.... Mmmmm
A real woman can do it by yourself, but a real man won’t let her
Bria?
I see! I guess he wouldn't!
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Quote by PrincessC
Mayo jars are made tight for a reason. Keeping men relevant.
You made me roar with this Princess!! Love your quick wit!
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Quote by FirstBlush
Would that someone could teach the Celts how not to blow a post-season series lead...
Broke my heart J.....
Hope that makes you feel better. We will have to talk it through. We have to re-sign Horford!! 
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That was an emotional response, not a scientific one, T. It was made during one of those moments I've been questioning the relevance of the straight woman in contemporary culture.
Thankfully, it was a fleeting moment. Neither side is going anywhere.
Indeed. I see your point now and you made me realize you are asking the same question I am only as a woman. But you and I could be relevant for each other in more than a utilitarian way?
You would make an amazing teacher. 
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Quote by She
'Catch' is not the word I would use in most cases, at least as far as my relationships go. I would probably just apologize for interrupting, and be gone.
I totally agree, and in fact, it has happened to me, and that is just what I did, and never turned back.
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Quote by Master_Jonathan
If I might chime in on this... as others have said, I am into the person whatever color their skin might be. I have dated black girls. I am married to a Hispanic woman. And I find Oriental women very hot as well. It depends on what is on the inside because you can put the prettiest, shiniest, most expensive wrapping paper around a rock and you still have a rock for a present!
Give me an intelligent, fun-loving, and adventuresome woman and I don't care what color her skin is or what her background might be. There are things far more important than skin color in a relationship.
My
Jonathan
Amen I say to you Master Jon! I could not have said it as well myself!
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Some beautiful responses. You are all so sweet to post! Thank you! I love it when a woman is good and thick and it has a lower pitched squish. mmmmm
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Quote by sweet_as_candy
It's a gorgeous look
Like your hair style in this avatar angel.
Thank you Candy!When I was young and single I used to spend all my money on trips to the beach, and classy clothing.
Esquire's "Good Groomers Guide "was great then. There were many great places to buy the clothes here too since a lot of the mills that makes shirts, pants, suits, etc., were right her, and great shoes and boots were made up in Maine.
We used to get fine leathers from Tuscany, the finest wools from England, and silk ties from Italy.
I wish I could name the names of who I bought from but I don't think that is allowed here. I was quite different from my students who went from late hippies to grunge and millennial outfits.
I was always trim then, and could wear shirts like you show, but they were not easy to fit, and I had no waist and broad shoulders.
I got some nice dates with women at the modeling school later, where I got a Uni job at 23. So we were very close in age. There was no need to be "woolfish" and "aggressive." Women were just getting more and more liberated then and life was a charm. I know the clothes had a lot to do with it. Sorry to brag, but this thread so captivates me!
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Whatever he feels more confident/comfortable wearing (obviously still caring about his appearance). I'm a sucker for good footwear.
Love this look
I do too. But I only wear it when I have a good or better tan. It is one of the handful of looks I think I can pull off.