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Dancing_Doll
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female
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Alpha Blonde
Nope, can't say that correlation holds true.
I'm a small girl, tight and extra juicy.
I'm a small girl, tight and extra juicy.
Alpha Blonde
This is exactly like something I would do...
You can see she can barely say, "I'm a judge at the sausage competition" with a straight face.
Bet she has an account on Lush...
You can see she can barely say, "I'm a judge at the sausage competition" with a straight face.
Bet she has an account on Lush...
Alpha Blonde
Yes, and I have gone to one before - but it was a pre-screened, high-end swinger's party.
A friend went to a more random swinger's club and wasn't that impressed with it.
None of us would be considered 'in the lifestyle'.
I think it's fun to check out, similar to going to a fetish party because you're curious what goes on there. Why not? Nobody forces you to do anything you're not comfortable with at these parties, and it's guaranteed to be more entertaining than your typical night at the same bar/club you always end up going to.
A friend went to a more random swinger's club and wasn't that impressed with it.
None of us would be considered 'in the lifestyle'.
I think it's fun to check out, similar to going to a fetish party because you're curious what goes on there. Why not? Nobody forces you to do anything you're not comfortable with at these parties, and it's guaranteed to be more entertaining than your typical night at the same bar/club you always end up going to.
Alpha Blonde
How hot is he?
If he's really hot, I'll watch. If he isn't, I couldn't care less.
If he's really hot, I'll watch. If he isn't, I couldn't care less.
Alpha Blonde
The size that when he's hard, you can use his dick as a towel rack and then you get a nice surprise when you reach for one when you're getting out of the shower.
And no, I'm not kidding.
And no, I'm not kidding.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by papochulo
The best lube I've used was Astroglide. It's very thick and stays lubricated a long time
True... the right lube is important, especially with a more well-endowed guy.
There are also special 'anal-lubes' out there too for anyone that is interested. They are usually thicker and messier but might be worth trying if regular lube seems too watery or insignificant.
FYI from Wikipedia:
Anal-specific Lubricants
Many lubricants are safe for anal sex, but there are products that are specifically marketed or designed to enhance enjoyment of anal sex. Often, this is simply a thicker gel rather than a liquid. This thicker consistency is preferred because it helps the lubricant stay in place. Some lubricants contain benzocaine, an anesthetic. However, the use of any numbing agent for anal penetration is not recommended as a lack of sensation makes accidental injury more likely. In addition, benzocaine can cause an allergic reaction in those with an allergy to PABA (4-Aminobenzoic acid). Some lubricants are conveniently packaged for ease of application. Many of these products such as Astroglide Shooters have been pulled from the market recently due to FDA Medical Device Requirements. Products containing benzocaine can numb all body parts with which they come in contact.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Sirene_Jaune
For me it's not the fact it goes in. I don't mind. It's the movement of going in and out especially as my significant other is rather well endowed and he gets bigger. Even when I'm relaxed and well lubed it is still painful.
So any suggestions guys?
For me, if a guy is on the very well-endowed side, anal probably isn't going to be on the menu.
I'd try it once - slowly with lots of lube - but I really think some guys are not meant to be inside an asshole. Those types are usually far and few between though, and mostly hang out on the internet, where we all know that legions of men with anaconda-sized dicks apparently reside.
I guess there are those 'buttplug trainers' that graduate up in size if it's that important, but if you're relaxed, deeply lubed and still unable to enjoy it after the first few minutes, I think it's just something to chalk up to the fact that an ass isn't a 'one-size-fits-all' orifice.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Tyking85
Hey Miss pretty Dancing_Doll - I'll be at Pravda Night club tonight!!! If you stop by, I'll buy you a few, and your sexy lil girlfriends too!
Hope you had fun last night! Haven't been there in a while.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by asleep
It may be a regional/country thing, too....and maybe a bit of age also. Now, that said...how does being called "Mz. Rachel" or "Miss Ashleigh" sound. I'm old as dirt...one of God's playmates, in fact...and I would likely use the Mz./Ms. or Miss when first addressing you. "Honey" will occasionally slip out, but only in a really friendly/playful situation and I kinda/sorta knew you. I guess "Babe/Baby" lost its appeal to me from all the fuel desk clerks using it...without really any friendly meaning in it....when I was a commercial truck driver.
So...bye BABY SPRITE...and if you happen to see them, give that BABY DOLL and MISS SUGAH CAT a big ole hug from me. (and we didn't even talk about "Sugar/Sugah")
Rick
I should clarify my original post... I am good with being called babe/baby by someone who is intimate with me (or is a friend). Strangers or casual acquaintances should just call me Ashleigh. No Ms. or Miss.... Just Ashleigh. Unless they need to get my attention, in which case, "excuse me, Miss. You dropped your scarf." is fine.
I'm thinking more of a boyfriend saying, "hey babe, how was your day" or "oh baby, I need to fuck that tight little pussy right now"... that kind of thing. I'm more used to those terms than a guy saying, "honey" or "sweetie". I've never been a fan of really cloying or sugary pet-names.
Context and intention has a lot to do with it. If it's an old person saying, "thanks, lovey" or "that's a beautiful necklace, dear", I think it's sweet. If it's some douchebag calling me 'babydoll' as I walk by on the street, it's lame.
My general feeling is... if you don't know the person very well, then just use their actual name.
Alpha Blonde
I have gone through this too. Definitely avoid the porn-name route or anything that sounds too made-up or sex-fused. I'd just go with a masculine normal sounding name and base it more on the style of your erotica. If you're more into romance-erotica, maybe you'd lean to more of a seductive/soap-opera type name, and if you write edgier/hardcore stuff, maybe you'd be better to keep it clean/crisp and strong.
If you want to be taken seriously with writing, you need a serious name. Even if you look at porn these days, everyone chooses real/normal names. Think Manuel Ferrara and Evan Stone rather than Ben Dover or Seymore Butts.
You may also want to go back in your family tree for a name that you can pull that will give you more of an attachment to it, and make it more personal for you.
If you want to be taken seriously with writing, you need a serious name. Even if you look at porn these days, everyone chooses real/normal names. Think Manuel Ferrara and Evan Stone rather than Ben Dover or Seymore Butts.
You may also want to go back in your family tree for a name that you can pull that will give you more of an attachment to it, and make it more personal for you.
Alpha Blonde
I like babe or baby (I don't mind them at all).
I think hearing "honey", "dear" or "sweetie" would make me feel like I was 50 yrs old and should be wearing an apron and baking a bundt cake in the kitchen.
Maybe it's a generational thing (or a marriage thing).
I think hearing "honey", "dear" or "sweetie" would make me feel like I was 50 yrs old and should be wearing an apron and baking a bundt cake in the kitchen.
Maybe it's a generational thing (or a marriage thing).
Alpha Blonde
I'm a moaner/talker, but occasional semi-screamer. Depends on the activity level. I have been responsible for noise complaints at hotels a couple of times.
Alpha Blonde
I think it's time to make shaving preference a clickable drop-down menu on our individual profiles. I think it's just as important as sexual orientation and relationship status, no?
As for my preferences with guys... once again - shaved or well-trimmed please.
As for my preferences with guys... once again - shaved or well-trimmed please.
Alpha Blonde
I think they do later in life. Age will catch up to everyone and when we're talking about people under 50, activity level, physical fitness level, energy and sexual compatibility are more likely to synch up enough to make a relationship work to some degree. That's to say nothing of the generational differences when it comes to how you see the world, or life experience.
The reality is that if you're significantly older and dating someone who is barely finished their teenage years, you're kind of a pervert. Sorry, I just don't see anything other than physical attraction and sex going on, no matter how much the guy wants to spin it that you are so 'mature' for your age at 19, and how you need a 'real man and not a boy'... This is just predatory word-candy.
Every girl feels more mature than she really is at 19. I thought I'd figured out life and knew it all! That special precocious arrogance of youth often leads certain girls to idealize an older guy because guys her own age are inexperienced and haven't figured out all the word-candy finessing to get and keep the attention of a younger girl.
Hook-ups and mini-relationships are fine if the younger girl is enjoying being with the older guy... but do these relationships last? Nah, not usually (unless you live in a small town with few dating options, no nightlife, or believe divorce is a sin no matter what). As you get older, energy levels change, interests switch and you may be hitting your sexual peak and psychological stride at 30yrs old while your man just wants to sit in his lazy-boy all weekend in his old-man's shirt and go to bed at 10pm. Either the younger girl compromises her youth and stays vaguely miserable or she jumps ship.
The reality is that if you're significantly older and dating someone who is barely finished their teenage years, you're kind of a pervert. Sorry, I just don't see anything other than physical attraction and sex going on, no matter how much the guy wants to spin it that you are so 'mature' for your age at 19, and how you need a 'real man and not a boy'... This is just predatory word-candy.
Every girl feels more mature than she really is at 19. I thought I'd figured out life and knew it all! That special precocious arrogance of youth often leads certain girls to idealize an older guy because guys her own age are inexperienced and haven't figured out all the word-candy finessing to get and keep the attention of a younger girl.
Hook-ups and mini-relationships are fine if the younger girl is enjoying being with the older guy... but do these relationships last? Nah, not usually (unless you live in a small town with few dating options, no nightlife, or believe divorce is a sin no matter what). As you get older, energy levels change, interests switch and you may be hitting your sexual peak and psychological stride at 30yrs old while your man just wants to sit in his lazy-boy all weekend in his old-man's shirt and go to bed at 10pm. Either the younger girl compromises her youth and stays vaguely miserable or she jumps ship.
Alpha Blonde
It would probably depend on the cash and 'star' potential of the production house. Girls like Jenna Haze, Sasha Grey and Jenna Jamieson have made huge marks in the industry, but they are few and far between.
At this point in life, I probably would say no, unless it was an unusual script/project, well-respected director, or compelling reason.
Never say Never.
At this point in life, I probably would say no, unless it was an unusual script/project, well-respected director, or compelling reason.
Never say Never.
Alpha Blonde
I miss my Golden Retriever, who was far more to me than just 'a dog'. I miss his face in the morning, his head tucked onto one of my shoulders and his paw on the other, my running mate, my forever furbaby that got me through many dark times in life. His absence leaves a hole in my heart that will never truly be filled. There's no person, place or thing I will ever miss more than him.
Alpha Blonde
I have had a few of these 'situations' over the years.
It's complicated though.
I wouldn't do it with a friend I valued that I wanted to continue being friends with in the long-term because these situations can be pretty unstable in general. I've never fallen for a fuckbuddy because typically if I'm looking at them as a fuckbuddy there are relevant reasons why I'd never want him to be my boyfriend, so I'm able to separate the two. Honestly... they tend to be really hot, dumb guys that are great in bed, but that I have no mental connection with. It usually starts well, then the guy gets clingy or starts liking me too much, then there is the awkward reassessment of the situation or I just pull away and annoy/frustrate him, then he gets pissed off, and then it's over. If I can string things along for a couple of months of fun/wild sex, then it's great. In my experience it usually trainwrecks pretty fast though, unless circumstance forces it to maintain a slower speed (ie. he's in another city or you both have busy life/travel schedules). As well, if it's just a sex thing, the novelty usually wears off and it gets boring, so I think fuckbuddies are best kept as a short-term deal.
It's complicated though.
I wouldn't do it with a friend I valued that I wanted to continue being friends with in the long-term because these situations can be pretty unstable in general. I've never fallen for a fuckbuddy because typically if I'm looking at them as a fuckbuddy there are relevant reasons why I'd never want him to be my boyfriend, so I'm able to separate the two. Honestly... they tend to be really hot, dumb guys that are great in bed, but that I have no mental connection with. It usually starts well, then the guy gets clingy or starts liking me too much, then there is the awkward reassessment of the situation or I just pull away and annoy/frustrate him, then he gets pissed off, and then it's over. If I can string things along for a couple of months of fun/wild sex, then it's great. In my experience it usually trainwrecks pretty fast though, unless circumstance forces it to maintain a slower speed (ie. he's in another city or you both have busy life/travel schedules). As well, if it's just a sex thing, the novelty usually wears off and it gets boring, so I think fuckbuddies are best kept as a short-term deal.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Donte
Very Sexy
Every security guy at an airport dream panties
Exactly. I learned that out the hard way - while wearing a pair with metal hardware once.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Jaymal
Ash, your birthday is on Groundhog Day!!! Does that mean you'll be celebrating over and over and over again?????
Everyday feels like a celebration of Dancing_Doll!
Which of course, is just as it should be...
Alpha Blonde
Quote by lafayettemister
I said it!!! Come on, give me my props! A significant other would be a loved one.
Sorry, I got distracted by the "I'd have no problem taking her down if she was a threat to my kids" bit.
Just kidding LM... I know you'd be a protective one to the entire core family.
Alpha Blonde
lol... I love how nobody in this thread has mentioned taking a bullet for their significant other yet. 
Protecting one's children/offspring is definitely an innate and biological trait in most people (well, other than the Casey Anthony types).
I'd do whatever was necessary to protect a loved one (could be a child, a dog, a parent, an S.O.)... anyone in my inner circle of mutual and reciprocal love and devotion. If the pain of losing them is something that would override my desire to live without them, then there's nothing I wouldn't do if I had the opportunity to save them.
Protecting one's children/offspring is definitely an innate and biological trait in most people (well, other than the Casey Anthony types).
I'd do whatever was necessary to protect a loved one (could be a child, a dog, a parent, an S.O.)... anyone in my inner circle of mutual and reciprocal love and devotion. If the pain of losing them is something that would override my desire to live without them, then there's nothing I wouldn't do if I had the opportunity to save them.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Magical_felix
It's not magic at all really... All it takes is one look at this trixie, seriously.
Awww...you guuuuys... *cute giggles*. I love all this bonding over dick size. It's like the Lush version of old-fashioned romance.
Alpha Blonde
Thank you beautiful and talented Lushies for all the sweet words and wonderful wishes! XO
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Nikki703
I really appreciate it when the guy can sign his name with his cum. Then I will always remember him
Mmm... that's my favourite kind of autograph.