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Alpha Blonde
I like the retro look too. Very pin-up sexy!
While I am mainly a bikini girl, I've been coveting this white one piece since I saw her music video. It just looks very glam and sophisticated.
I also think it would look great on pretty much any sized girl.
While I am mainly a bikini girl, I've been coveting this white one piece since I saw her music video. It just looks very glam and sophisticated.
I also think it would look great on pretty much any sized girl.
Alpha Blonde
Actually I was hoping for less nudity in this thread. lol
I think there's a great naked/bikini thread in the sexy pics section. I wouldn't want to take away from that one.
I wanted this one to be a little lighter - more 'what would you actually wear to the beach (bikini or one-piece? board shorts or speedos?), coverups, flip flops' with some beach or vacation oriented pics thrown in as well. Just fun stuff.
I think there's a great naked/bikini thread in the sexy pics section. I wouldn't want to take away from that one.
I wanted this one to be a little lighter - more 'what would you actually wear to the beach (bikini or one-piece? board shorts or speedos?), coverups, flip flops' with some beach or vacation oriented pics thrown in as well. Just fun stuff.
Alpha Blonde
I'm in a relationship too and of all the things that offend me, this isn't one of them.
Truth be told, I have been known to look at dicks that don't belong to my bf. For example, when you watch porn, it's kind of hard to avoid them.
Sending unsolicited dick pics on Lush vs sending unsolicited dick pics through company email or on a website about shoes or protein shakes would hit me differently. Because of the sexual nature of the site, I assume there will be some nudity and dicks flying around. You just have to account for the fact that not everyone has manners or bothers to read profiles.
If that's the extent of my interaction with them, meh. At worst it's tacky. If he's got a weird one, then it can be funny. All in all, just something to delete or have a laugh over. Not worth any stress for me.
Truth be told, I have been known to look at dicks that don't belong to my bf. For example, when you watch porn, it's kind of hard to avoid them.
Sending unsolicited dick pics on Lush vs sending unsolicited dick pics through company email or on a website about shoes or protein shakes would hit me differently. Because of the sexual nature of the site, I assume there will be some nudity and dicks flying around. You just have to account for the fact that not everyone has manners or bothers to read profiles.
If that's the extent of my interaction with them, meh. At worst it's tacky. If he's got a weird one, then it can be funny. All in all, just something to delete or have a laugh over. Not worth any stress for me.
Alpha Blonde
I'll go with a nail polish comparison. Shandy in the winter and Crumpet in the summer.
I do use a bit of self-tanner through the winter sometimes so I can be a bit closer to Crumpet year round.
I can get a deeper tan on holidays or during the hot summer months, but I prefer to stay natural/sun-kissed. My days of SPF-4 and straight Hawaiian Tropic oil ended after university.
I do use a bit of self-tanner through the winter sometimes so I can be a bit closer to Crumpet year round.
I can get a deeper tan on holidays or during the hot summer months, but I prefer to stay natural/sun-kissed. My days of SPF-4 and straight Hawaiian Tropic oil ended after university.
Alpha Blonde
Grapefruit Mint Mojito!
I've never had it with grapefruit before - totally going to try this.
I've never had it with grapefruit before - totally going to try this.
Alpha Blonde
I like this bandeau for being active on the beach - you don't have to worry about strappy tan lines and this looks like it would stay put for swimming, volleyball etc.
I also really love white on the beach, although you have to be careful it's not see-through when wet, so test it before you jump in the pool. I learned this the hard way.
I also really love white on the beach, although you have to be careful it's not see-through when wet, so test it before you jump in the pool. I learned this the hard way.
Alpha Blonde
Brutal winter = Holiday Dreaming
What would you wear to the beach and what would you avoid?
Post pics of swimwear (bikinis, tankinis, one-piece, pin-up, board shorts, speedos?), beach looks, flip flops, sunny ocean spots, surfing, tropical drinks. Things that make you think of sunny skies and fun in the sun.
PS. No nudes please - there's a great thread for that in the sexy pics section. This thread is just about style, actual swimwear you would wear to the beach with some fun stuff. Basically like Pinterest. Thanks! x
What would you wear to the beach and what would you avoid?
Post pics of swimwear (bikinis, tankinis, one-piece, pin-up, board shorts, speedos?), beach looks, flip flops, sunny ocean spots, surfing, tropical drinks. Things that make you think of sunny skies and fun in the sun.
PS. No nudes please - there's a great thread for that in the sexy pics section. This thread is just about style, actual swimwear you would wear to the beach with some fun stuff. Basically like Pinterest. Thanks! x
Alpha Blonde
Quote by SereneProdigy
I'm also obsessed with fitness girls. The degree of that obsession might not be really healthy though.
I've used these before too for a few months at a time, but now I just have the bottles lined up because I got lazy about refilling them.
Someone was telling me the other day that certain vitamins are best taken at certain hours of the day (eg. certain vits are better taken at night to process while the body is at rest). I've genuinely never thought of this before - I just follow the label where it usually says 'take on empty stomach' or 'take a few hours before other meds'.
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PS : Those bottles are interesting! It's rare for me to drink water on the go as I have to go to the bathroom once every 15 minutes if I do (seriously), but this might be useful. Apparently drinking from plastic bottles can be dangerous. It's hard to see on the pictures, but are these 'colored bands' also foamed to protect the bottles? That would be awesome.
Where do you buy those?
They have a website mybkr.com where you can buy direct but they also sell at various dept stores, boutiques. You can look up store locations. They also sell a ton from online stores. Basically it's a glass bottle in a coloured silicone sleeve. You can remove the sleeve, but the silicone gives it a nice grip. You can also carry the bottle from the handle on the screw top lid. The nice thing about it is that the mouth of the bottle isn't huge like some water bottles are so there's no spillage or drips - which is especially nice at the gym if you're still in movement. It's seriously awesome - almost like the LELO of water bottles. lol And yes, admittedly I am a colour-aholic. Aesthetics do make me drink more water - I average about 6-8 bottles a day. When you really increase your water take, you will pee a lot, but after a few weeks you body gets used to it, adjusts and levels out. Water is so important to cleans the toxins and is so good for the skin too.
Also, part of each sale goes to charity (the Obakki Foundation and the Canary Foundation), which is always a plus.
They have a range of darker guy-colours and neutrals too. Even black.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by DainJay
To tack on to this, is there a point where abs, or muscles of any kind, are too defined and end up turning you off?
For me, yes. The 'arms as big as tree-trunks' or very bulky muscular guys are a turn off.
Alpha Blonde
Nope. I've done the sex after an argument or bad break-up but I've genuinely never had the urge to fuck the people that I legit hate.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by naughtynurse
So true!! The only nail polish I bought last month was a gift (I bought a selection of zoya for my girls)
I think I'm having withdraw.
Always check their Facebooks for the deals. Last week Zoya had a get any three polishes for free by just paying $12 shipping (so 3 for for $12). Of course, it was another US only thing. I nearly forgot to mention it to Sprite and she spanked me, so I figured I'd drop the BL sale news here. lol
Alpha Blonde
Quote by naughtynurse
This is not good for me. I joined a friend in "not buying anything extra for a month." Blah. What was I thinking
LOL... I know, but 50% off BL is a shopping emergency!
Alpha Blonde
Butter London Pitter Patter
PS. Heads-up - Butter London is having a 50% sale with some serious bargains until the 23rd: http://www.butterlondon.com/last_orders Shipping to US only though - *grumbles*
PS. Heads-up - Butter London is having a 50% sale with some serious bargains until the 23rd: http://www.butterlondon.com/last_orders Shipping to US only though - *grumbles*
Alpha Blonde
I like swimmer build/fit, - the abs don't have to be totally shredded or super defined. Although, not gonna lie... that's always nice too.
Alpha Blonde
Yay! Happy Birthday, Buz!
Hope you have a fantastic time - no doubt it will be a celebration to remember!
Ash x
Alpha Blonde
Here's a cool nail art tutorial that just came out from Butter London: Freebird Boho Nail Art... and yes, you heard right - they just released a glitter polish called 'Lushington'. 
This is a really pretty look though that isn't overly fussy. Love the neutrals.
This is a really pretty look though that isn't overly fussy. Love the neutrals.
Alpha Blonde
"If you take every single person killed in a terrorist act around the world in the last twenty years, and you add to that all the lives lost in the Middle East since 1967 -- the 6 Day War -- and you add to that every single American life lost in Vietnam, in Korea, and in every single American engagement since then -- Iraq, Afghanistan... If you take all those lives and you multiply by two, that's the number of children that die of malaria every single year."
Alpha Blonde
I kind of have a thing for gay male porn where one of the guys appears to be 'straight' and maybe there's a little reluctance involved at first or a gay-for-pay scenario and then as it progresses, he *really* gets into it and it just turns into hot, hard and dirty fucking. MMF threesomes can also be pretty hot to watch.
I don't watch it that regularly - but sometimes you want a little variety with your porn diet.
I don't watch it that regularly - but sometimes you want a little variety with your porn diet.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by dpw
Now I'm no expert on this but in the dark distant past I had this problem with a girlfriend. I was never too keen on the position, I'm still not, but she was. We got round the problem by her holding the headboard thus raising her torso. It worked but do you know why?
I'm thinking it's probably because raising the torso (or even slightly arching the back the way a cat would - only not as drastic) limits the depth of entry in this position. It's really the way you tootch your booty and how low your upper body gets. You can kind of 'cheat' this position if the guy has a large penis by tilting the pelvis at a slight upward angle.
For example: this position would *max* the depth of entry. It also gives the guy complete freedom to go as hard as he wants at a downward thrust which makes it more intense because you've got that downward momentum thing going.
If you keep your upper body higher or more level, without the downward arch and slightly tilt the pelvis (almost like you're doing a stomach crunch) it won't go as deep. Of course, don't do it too much, or he won't stay in - unless he's anaconda sized.
Not that I'm an expert either though... lol... just my experience.
Alpha Blonde
Guys, this is my very first comp win and I am HUGELY humbled because the talent was absolutely stacked! Everyone brought their A game to this one and the more stories I read, the more impressed I was with the creativity and skill set of soooo many Lush authors, many of whom I look up to as writers. I think the top twenty are all winners in my book.
Congrats to everyone that ran with the very tough challenge of writing to a limited word count. You all really seized the moment to knock it out of the park and I honestly think everyone that entered should be proud. *Raises a bottle of Jack Daniels* - thank you a million times over and much love. xx
Congrats to everyone that ran with the very tough challenge of writing to a limited word count. You all really seized the moment to knock it out of the park and I honestly think everyone that entered should be proud. *Raises a bottle of Jack Daniels* - thank you a million times over and much love. xx
Alpha Blonde
The banging at the end of your vagina is your cervix. When a guy is rather large, it will hit your cervix with each thrust, and it's not a nice feeling - it does hurt. I agree with Dani, I think he needs to use more shallow thrusts in that position or try one that prevents really deep penetration.
You should also make sure you're sufficiently aroused beforehand. The general consensus is that a woman's vagina is only 3 or 4 inches long and many use this as an argument for the benefits of a smaller dick. In actuality when a woman is aroused, her cervix lifts higher into her body. Many woman can accommodate 8+ inches. If you're not totally warmed up/aroused etc though that might explain why he's hurting you with deep entry. Make sure you have at least one orgasm beforehand and also use plenty of lube. Oh... and tell him to go slow or you can also take control in this position and back yourself onto his cock while he stays stationary so you're the one controlling the depth of the thrusting.
You just need to experiment with it a bit and see what works - you don't want to be doing anything that causes you discomfort.
You should also make sure you're sufficiently aroused beforehand. The general consensus is that a woman's vagina is only 3 or 4 inches long and many use this as an argument for the benefits of a smaller dick. In actuality when a woman is aroused, her cervix lifts higher into her body. Many woman can accommodate 8+ inches. If you're not totally warmed up/aroused etc though that might explain why he's hurting you with deep entry. Make sure you have at least one orgasm beforehand and also use plenty of lube. Oh... and tell him to go slow or you can also take control in this position and back yourself onto his cock while he stays stationary so you're the one controlling the depth of the thrusting.
You just need to experiment with it a bit and see what works - you don't want to be doing anything that causes you discomfort.
Alpha Blonde
This is a difficult one for me to answer. A big part of why I'm on Lush is to write. It's important to me. At the same time, I don't want to appear like I'm begging or pressuring people to read what I write. The 'shameless' self-promotion hits the nail on the head, in a lot of ways. It's difficult to be 'shameless' about it, even though in the industry you almost have to be (or have others doing it for you). It's still something I'm not always comfortable with.
Even on Twitter, I see endless author accounts who just tweet the same adverts for their eBooks over and over again, multiple times a day, every single day. Just adverts. Just retweets. And yes, they have thousands of followers. As a reader I find those sort of tactics to be a real put-off, so I don't get it. I don't like heavy-handed sales tactics with zero personal touch. When I see author accounts, I want to see that the person is putting in at least some effort to let people know who they are as well - their thoughts, interests - not always non-stop *BUY THIS!* and *READ THAT* spam-capades, like a PR-robot.
On Lush, I guess it's the fine line between promoting your writing and not appearing pushy about it. Let's be honest, if every person who wrote on this site used the All-Friends PM method every single time they posted something, our inboxes would be permanently flooded. Some writers here post multiple stories or poems a month. I think that's too much. I don't mind the PM-blasts on occasion - they often will remind me to read something I might not have noticed otherwise. At the same time, I have great respect for the *follow* button on Lush and assume that those that want to be notified when certain people post stories here will use that.
For my own promotion here, I pretty much just use my profile blog and my forum signature. I have sent an All-Friends message twice in my lifetime on Lush - both around the holidays (one year apart) to wish people well and to mention eBooks that I published that year (the 'follow' button doesn't cover eBooks). That's the system I'm most in favour of, but as I said - I don't mind if people use the occasional all-friends message if it's just once in a while for a big important story that you're proud of or a comp entry or if you haven't written in a while. If it's something that gets over-used or blasted for things like "hey, I posted a new pic of myself on my profile - comment on it!" or "here's a link to my weekly poem!" then yeah, it's annoying. It's definitely a fine balance.
Even on Twitter, I see endless author accounts who just tweet the same adverts for their eBooks over and over again, multiple times a day, every single day. Just adverts. Just retweets. And yes, they have thousands of followers. As a reader I find those sort of tactics to be a real put-off, so I don't get it. I don't like heavy-handed sales tactics with zero personal touch. When I see author accounts, I want to see that the person is putting in at least some effort to let people know who they are as well - their thoughts, interests - not always non-stop *BUY THIS!* and *READ THAT* spam-capades, like a PR-robot.
On Lush, I guess it's the fine line between promoting your writing and not appearing pushy about it. Let's be honest, if every person who wrote on this site used the All-Friends PM method every single time they posted something, our inboxes would be permanently flooded. Some writers here post multiple stories or poems a month. I think that's too much. I don't mind the PM-blasts on occasion - they often will remind me to read something I might not have noticed otherwise. At the same time, I have great respect for the *follow* button on Lush and assume that those that want to be notified when certain people post stories here will use that.
For my own promotion here, I pretty much just use my profile blog and my forum signature. I have sent an All-Friends message twice in my lifetime on Lush - both around the holidays (one year apart) to wish people well and to mention eBooks that I published that year (the 'follow' button doesn't cover eBooks). That's the system I'm most in favour of, but as I said - I don't mind if people use the occasional all-friends message if it's just once in a while for a big important story that you're proud of or a comp entry or if you haven't written in a while. If it's something that gets over-used or blasted for things like "hey, I posted a new pic of myself on my profile - comment on it!" or "here's a link to my weekly poem!" then yeah, it's annoying. It's definitely a fine balance.
Alpha Blonde
I'm wearing 'Improvisation' by SpaRitual. It's from their recent "Illuminate" collection, which is probably one of the nicest overall collections I've seen in a while. It's inspired by the artisan glassmakers of Italy and the polish is infused with recycled glass beads that really give it a special look. This is like a berry shade with has a strong purple/silver shimmer. Hard to describe exactly, but in person my nails look like handblown glass. I really like the SpaRitual brand and what they stand for - they are all about eco-consciousness, ethical living and the polish is cruelty-free and vegan. Some of their lines even have bamboo and real gold in it. It's not an overly expensive line either (cheaper than all the major Sephora brands) which is great.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by dpw
Is there room for one more at your table?
Maybe finish with Crepe Suzette or Charlotte Russe and a bottle of Crystal.
Nice! It's a date! Then we'll go pick up some hot men for post-dessert dessert.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Mazza
The IMs do disappear if you navigate to another page, unless you've already clicked on a new page, in which case, they will sometimes appear...
Like LM, I tend to keep two pages open so that I don't miss any BBs (not that I usually have tons at any given time, but it is one of my favourite ways of communicating as I Lush...)
I do this too - I still miss a lot of 'real-time' BBs because they'll appear on the first window I have open, which I don't always check regularly. I sometimes find them a few days later, but by then it seems weird to reply to a conversation someone was trying to have with me several days earlier.