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Something involving seafood: maple glazed salmon, spicy butterfly shrimp with lime, sushi rolls, lobster spoons, big fresh oysters on ice with all the tangy toppings...
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My mom recently got me hooked on Talenti Gelato.




These look really cute. And the flavours sound amazing. I had some coconut, ginger and lime ice-cream a few months ago (from one of those little ice-cream tubs) that was sooo delicious. I can't remember the brand though. I need to find it again. sad
Pretty much anything by SkinnyCow because they're all 140 cals but taste like full-fat treats.



But especially their ice-cream sandwiches... *drools*



Their fudgesicles are really amazing too.
As dpw said, the girls who do this go through verrry intensive cleaning regimens. I'm not sure about the antibiotics or post-cleaning habits, but it's still a no for me, even after douching. And realistically, it's probably unlikely that every time you have anal, the girl is going to have a proper enema and then a last minute anal douche. If you're preparing for a specific scene with close-ups, sure, but for random anal sex, probably not.

Just for the sake of swapping holes, a vaginal infection - even though it's treatable - isn't something I want to chance. If you're getting paid well to film a scene, risking a weeks course of antibiotics probably isn't as big of a deal. For the average woman, I guess I just don't see the point. The balance inside a healthy vagina isn't something you want to mess with, if you can help it.
I read this today and was kind of shocked to hear they're in talks to make a third Sex and the City movie. I have to say, I loved the series and the characters - I watched the whole thing on DVD after it was already off the air and thought it was great. I enjoyed the Candace Bushnell book as well. I was not a fan of the movies at all. The first one was moderately watchable but I thought the second movie was an abomination.

I felt like the series writing was crisp and everything was well-paced but the movies just seemed cheesy and not funny or clever at all. In fact, by the second movie, I was actually coming to loathe the characters I used to really like. The characters were written at their best as thirty-somethings but as the actresses aged and the characters antics didn't, they all just became annoying to me. Do you think there's anything left to say in a third film?



"I think there's one last chapter to tell': Sarah Jessica Parker reveals she's hoping to make Sex And The City 3 SOON"

The first big-screen adaptation was loved by fans worldwide, while the second was panned by critics.
But despite Sex And The City 2's poor reception, Sarah Jessica Parker has revealed she hasn't ruled out reprising her role as Carrie Bradshaw for a third movie in the franchise.

However, the 48-year-old actress added in the interview with InStyle magazine that the follow-up film would have to happen soon - before she's too old to break out the Manolo Blahniks again.

She said: 'A part of me thinks there is one last chapter to tell. But timing is a peculiar thing. It isn't a decision that can wait forever.'

What will happen? It remains to be seen what would happen with Carrie and Big in the third film

Sarah Jessica added that she didn't want the sequel to be left so long that she and her castmates would be left wearing 'muumuus' - a type of shapeless dress which hangs loosely from the shoulders - instead of the eye-catching fashions their characters are famous for.

The star's comments come after her co-star Kristin Davis - who plays prim and proper Charlotte in the TV series and spin-off films - admitted in December they were in 'discussion' about potentially making a third movie. She said: 'I don't think a third film is a pipe dream, there is discussion. People talk about it amongst the people who are the players, but I don't know if it will come together. It would be very exciting if it did.'

However, Cynthia Nixon, who plays Miranda, has been less enthusiastic about the possibility of getting back together with the old gang, which also includes Kim Cattrall as man-obsessed Samantha, ten years after the HBO show ended. Quizzed about a third film, Cynthia previously replied: 'I think it's fine to let it go.'

And Sex And The City author Candace Bushnell previously revealed she thinks Sarah Jessica is too old to reprise her role as Carrie once again.

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Oh yes. Love them. I have quite a large one across from my bed and enjoy watching when the position is right (esp. doggy style or cowgirl). I don't watch every time - you don't want to be constantly indulging the distraction and not being into the moment or focused on your partner, but yeah, the mirror does get used sometimes. It can be fun. smile
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I wouldn't be embarrassed at all. I've had colleagues bump into me while buying tampons, and wasn't the least bit embarrassed about it. That sort of thing doesn't phase me. We all wear undies and/or the occasional piece of lingerie.

And besides, like SeaSiren mentioned...underwear isn't the only thing available at VS. I've even shopped there with my mother. There's never been any element of embarrassment there for me.


Same. None of that kind of thing bothers me at all.

The VS bags are nice too - definitely something to enjoy walking around with as far as carrier bags go. Plus, as others have said, they sell clothing and perfumes/lotions as well. The bras and panties they sell aren't particularly scandalous anyway.
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I always thought Pamela Anderson was quite a gorgeous lady in her youth.





Oops, and not to threadjack, but I *have* to mention how beautiful I think Pam looks even now because I am loving the bold haircut on her. I absolutely agree - I think she was a hottie when she arrived on the scene, but I think she still looks fantastic at her age.





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Also, I think there's something fairly hypocrite in the way we grant such women an iconic status. More often than not, these women are a representation of what the overall population wants to consider hot, rather than a representation of hotness per say.


To me Marilyn Monroe was iconic because she was the original blueprint for the coquettish blonde bombshell. She set the standard. There are reasons why she has been copied over and over again for generations - to name a few: Madonna, Anna Nicole, Pamela Anderson, Christina Aguilera, Lindsay Lohan. Her 'look' or image has been borrowed at times by celebs from Gwen Stefani, Scarlet Johanson, Paris Hilton, Angelina Jolie to even Rachel McAdams. All the women I named are beautiful but there is something iconic and unique about Marilyn's combination of glamour, sexuality, vulnerability and innocence that has made her a household name and still a glamour-icon to be emulated and borrowed from today. She's still appearing in Chanel No. 5 ads. It's crazy when you think about it. Beauty is bit easier - there are endless beautiful and/or hot women past and present, but it's kind of like looking at the Mona Lisa and trying to understand what makes the painting special.



Here's a 'modernized' Marilyn with dark hair - if this person existed today - even without the icon-factor, she would still be absolutely stunning - even by today's standards.

I tried this product over the holidays called "Glitter A Peel" by Nail Pattern Boldness (it's an indie brand - available on Llarowe or Etsy). Basically it's a basecoat that peels off - ideal for glitters. It's not a glue - it looks/acts like a normal clear basecoat and goes on nice and smooth. If you like glitters on occasion but hate the foil method, the idea of using a glue base or scrubbing your nails with acetone, this stuff is awesome. Perfect for a night out and then peel it off in the morning. There's no damage to the nails either and it's also really inexpensive - $8. I don't wear a ton of glitter, but happy to have this on hand for when I do.



Glitter A Peel by Nail Pattern Boldness
Probably watermelon.

Mangoes are high up there though, along with ripe peaches.

Really, I love all fruits. smile
Sometimes, yes. Not always - as other said, it depends on where I'm going. Sometimes I'll even have a vibe (a small one) in my purse.

I've also taken *all* of my sex toys (and outfits) in a suitcase on a weekend trip before - but that weekend had a dirty agenda. It would have made for an interesting story if they had to open my suitcase at the airport.
Is anyone else obsessed with bkr (pronounced 'beaker') water bottles? I think they're only available in North America at the moment but they've become a total staple for me - in the gym bag, at work, sitting by my computer, when I go to the beach, wherever.

I always have a couple of bottles in the fridge (home filtered water) and just swap them out as I drink them or refill them from water coolers when I run out. Water always tastes better out of glass - no nasty chemicals leaching out of plastic. They're re-useable so it's eco-friendly and they come in the most yummy range of silicone sleeve colours.

I also like them because if you entertain at dinner parties, group weekends or outdoor/pool parties in the summer, you can assign a different coloured bottle to each person. Even if you're all drinking alcohol, eventually people are going to want water. It's an easy way for people to remember where they left their bottle without mix-ups or added clean-up.

I drink *a lot* of water and I know many people find it a challenge to get those 8-9 glasses in a day but I find pretty candy-coloured bottles do the trick for me. For those that drink juices, iced tea and soda but want to cut the pounds - don't drink your calories (biggest and easiest-to-fix mistake). Enjoy real food and drop the sugary calorie-laden drinks - even little changes like this can make a difference.

Have you jumped on the glass water bottle train? I know LifeFactory makes them as well, but I prefer the bkr design.

If not, share some of your favourite healthy obsessions - yoga mats, surf boards, exercise gear, athletic wear, juicers.

What works for you and inspires you to lead a healthier life?



I put an early vote down for Marilyn Monroe.

I imagined all the polled women on that list in a room together and which one I would likely spend the night stealing glances at. It was an easy win for Ms. Monroe. To me, it goes beyond looks. Even among the iconic beauties, she was special.
I have been yes - sometimes a light pat down (no sexual overtones), but once in Chicago I had a more in depth one. Basically I was wearing this g-string with a metal/crystal heart that holds the strings together in the back. This beeped and while I explained it to them, they had to do a more thorough pat down. They gave me the option of going to a 'back room' or having it done in this taped off chair thing to the side that was slightly more private but not by much. It was just off to the right of the line of people coming through. I opted for the semi-public search because going to a back room would make me feel like a drug smuggler or something.

They called for a female guard and there was some winking, nodding and elbowing of each other by the other male workers as this female agent came up to me. She was young and attractive and looked a little flustered as she walked over. I felt like it was some big inside joke about girl on girl action among all the agents. It was just the vibe I got. A few of them stared and watched as though we were about to film a softcore porn or something.

The agent was very professional however - she swiped down the front of my jeans and down the back so she could see the metal heart thing. The rest was a thorough pat-down. She went under my shirt just under the wire of my bra, front and back. I didn't feel like it was anything sexual or inappropriate at all by her - more just the bystanders being entertained. I guess they don't get out much.
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I got this Betsey Johnson watch for Christmas and I really love it. I'm into the big chunky watches right now.


I love that watch so much! I'm a huge fan of Betsey Johnson. That's some good gift giving! smile
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I've been playing with my new nail polish that I got for Christmas. This is that Avon Magic Wand stuff. Doesn't work as well as I'd hoped, but still pretty cool...




Oooh, it's pretty! I like it. Is it the magnet nails? I haven't tried that kind of polish.
No, I mostly just make them up in my head. On occasion they're loosely based on myself, a person I know or a friend but that's about it. It can be frustrating later though, if I'm looking for a photo for a book cover or poster. It's not always easy to match up a photo to what you've envisioned in your mind after-the-fact - especially when your photo selection is limited to shutterstock, for example.
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Well, sometimes certain groups are like that.

In the close circle of real life friends I have, which numbers 13

2 Straight men (myself and one other)
1 Gay man
3 Bi-men

1 Straight woman
2 Lesbian women
4 Bi-women

So in our little group, 3 of 13 are straight - and one 1 of 7 of the women - that's 86% of the women I call close friends being at least bi.

You can't take society as a whole and plunk their numbers into a sub-set, such as we have here. It falls apart.

Until proven otherwise, I trust what the person puts in their profile as truth.


Same here. In my circle of real life friends the ratio is probably 80:20 bisexual to straight. In these cases - the 'bisexual' bit just means they've at least fooled around with a girl before - not necessarily had full relationships with both genders.

As for profiles here - it doesn't matter that much to me, but I probably wouldn't bother getting too chummy with someone if there were red flags. I'm not interested in cyber or anything, so as far as casual chat and laughs, I base it more on the vibe I get from them and whether there's something in common. I'm friends with both guys and girls here, so if you remove the cyber-element, it doesn't matter as much.

I'll admit that I do stay away from the bitchy "NO MEN" profiles that usually feature bikini/nude selfies ripped from amateur porn sites and overly sexed up profiles. I think I do have a decent "that's not a real girl" radar so I tend to keep those people at arm's length - but they're typically looking for sex-chat, so it's an obvious mismatch anyway.
If the reader already knows that anal is on the way, you can just use 'hole'.

If she's begging him to "fuck my ass", then for the actual description, you can just proceed to something like "he spread her cheeks apart and slowly eased the length of his shaft into her tight little hole."

Sometimes it feels like a nicer read if you separate the 'ass' and the 'hole' bit. Just going straight for 'asshole' isn't a bad idea though - depending on the style of the story.

As Wilful said - I also use 'knot', or occasionally 'star', but usually with some kind of descriptive reference like "tight little", "pulsing", "tender", "resistant", "slippery", "well-lubed" etc.

You might be referring to it more than once, so it's good to vary it up a bit. As long as it fits with the general tone of the story, it's all good.
As far as cheating on a spouse or committed relationship, which scenario do you find more upsetting?

*This is assuming that you aren't in an open relationship to begin with*

Scenario One: Your husband/wife went to Vegas with some friends. You find out through a mutual friend that after a drunken party night, they had sex with someone. You learn that no numbers were exchanged nor did they spend much time socializing with this person on the night in question - it was a one-night stand. The person they hooked up with didn't stay the night after the deed was done. A condom was used, but they did physically fuck someone else and betray your trust, drunk or not. You are shocked to hear this, because other than this episode, your relationship is great. Assume that this is a first time occurrence of physical cheating.

Scenario Two: Your husband/wife starts spending an exorbitant amount of time online and seems to be secretly texting and having prolonged cell or /cam calls with someone for at least six months. They have claimed that it's all work related or they're just texting a friend. Later, after a bit of digging around, you find out that they are in a long distance online relationship with someone they claim to be in love with and committed to. According to their alternate ego social media, they are a couple. They are obviously talking daily, cybering, having phone sex etc, but from what you can see they've never consummated any of it in person. It's clear, however, that they are very emotionally involved and infatuated with this person. Assume that this is a first time occurrence of emotional cheating.

Could you forgive one scenario, but not the other? Which one do you feel is the greater violation of your commitment?


ps. Guys can answer too. smile
I wear the Lululemon sports bras. Admittedly, I am not very large chested though.

You can check them out here - they have three levels of support and go up to E cup size. You might be good with a 'high support' sports bra. I like the quality of them and they move with your body well, especially for running, tennis and general cardio.
Ok, I'm going to sound like I'm making huge generalizations with this one - but I think being hairy is an attractive thing among certain European countries?? Note that I didn't say *all*. But... when I go to an international beach, I often see a lot of hairy euro guys and their women seem totally fine with it. Cut to the typical North American crowd and the guys are all nearly hairless and in longer board shorts on the beach scene or they just have a light smattering on chest/arms/legs. So... it could be cultural too, hence there will always be many women who appreciate that 'manly man' natural look, so your friend shouldn't worry too much.

I have many male friends who have done the shaving/waxing thing. I have on occasion brushed against them when they're shirtless (in a non-sexual way) and was surprised by how prickly some of them are, particularly the ones that are doing *a lot* of shaving to be smooth. It makes me wonder whether it would be somewhat abrasive to get that full-body exfoliation during morning sex. There are obviously negatives to shaving.

If he's self-conscious about it, he could try sugaring/waxing and I believe they have some manscaping techniques now which will weed the hair so there's still some there but so it's not at full sasquatch level. Cutting down on it might make all the difference. There's also laser hair removal or things like that No-No (which I can't vouch for, but it seems popular) on the market.

Personally I prefer smooth-chested to just a light smattering. Back hair bothers me more than chest. That's just my personal preference and what I'm used to, and it's possibly culturally influenced as well. I'm sure there are plenty that love a hairy guy, so he shouldn't stress too much if he wants to stay natural. At the very least, I think having well trimmed pubes is mandatory in this day and age though.
Someone who is great in bed.

Passion, creativity and the ability to express that passion is very important to me. 'Bad in bed' could mean premature ejaculator, impotent, lack of sex drive, inability to let go, conservative sexual morality, sexually selfish and not caring about mutual pleasure.

A sense of humour is important to me, but I don't need a full fledged comedian jokester type who can't get it up or who is done and snoring in under 5 minutes.
I do like them. Placement is not that important - back, over the shoulder, arms, thigh, ribs. It's just about the quality of the design for me.

I dislike toons and new school character stuff on guys though - that has the potential to be a turn-off for me.