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Just in case there's any other ladies to hook up my handle is:
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I'll give you mine as soon as you fix that blasted webcam of yours.
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Oh definitely the abusive guy. Who needs manners and chivalry when you can go out with a douchey & disrespectful wad of fuck?? I mean no self-respecting woman would ever put up with a guy that showed her the utmost respect. That's why it's called SELF-respect...we have enough for ourselves so other guys don't need to bother respecting us.
And as far as my best experience on a date? Well we went to McDonald's, and he got me the best meal the Dollar Menu could offer...and then he forgot his wallet, so I had to pay. After we got in MY car, he looked over at me and said, "You're cute. Let's fuck." And I was like, "Cool. Your place or mine?" He said my place because he lived with his mom, who locks him out if he stays out past his 10:00 pm curfew...so he ended up sleeping over because he knew she wouldn't let him in. And then we both got to my place, and stripped naked. He saw my boobies, so he came a little in his undies. But I have to give it to him, he was trying really hard not to, I saw it in his face. So then we finally got down to it...best 15.3 seconds of my life...well his life. One and a half pumps and he was done. He rolled over on his side, farted, and sucked his thumb...and about 5 seconds later I heard snoring. It was the cutest thing ever. The following morning (since he had to sleep over because mom locked him out) I woke him up with a BJ. And he said the sweetest words I've ever heard: "I'd return the favor baby, but I just don't do that." Of course it was just fine with me. I cooked him breakfast. It was intended for the both of us, but his appetite was ravenous after our rigorous lovemaking the previous night, so he didn't bother to leave any for me, which was so thoughtful because I was trying to lose weight. After that he asked me for my wi-fi password because he ran out of data on his cell phone. And he played on his phone for a while, totally ignoring me...and then I gave him a ride home. I thought everything was magical, but he never called back. But I call him every single day and send him text messages, but for some reason he hasn't received any of them. I assume this because he never responds. But I just know he's the one for me, so I'll let fate handle the rest. BEST. DATE. EVER!
And as far as my best experience on a date? Well we went to McDonald's, and he got me the best meal the Dollar Menu could offer...and then he forgot his wallet, so I had to pay. After we got in MY car, he looked over at me and said, "You're cute. Let's fuck." And I was like, "Cool. Your place or mine?" He said my place because he lived with his mom, who locks him out if he stays out past his 10:00 pm curfew...so he ended up sleeping over because he knew she wouldn't let him in. And then we both got to my place, and stripped naked. He saw my boobies, so he came a little in his undies. But I have to give it to him, he was trying really hard not to, I saw it in his face. So then we finally got down to it...best 15.3 seconds of my life...well his life. One and a half pumps and he was done. He rolled over on his side, farted, and sucked his thumb...and about 5 seconds later I heard snoring. It was the cutest thing ever. The following morning (since he had to sleep over because mom locked him out) I woke him up with a BJ. And he said the sweetest words I've ever heard: "I'd return the favor baby, but I just don't do that." Of course it was just fine with me. I cooked him breakfast. It was intended for the both of us, but his appetite was ravenous after our rigorous lovemaking the previous night, so he didn't bother to leave any for me, which was so thoughtful because I was trying to lose weight. After that he asked me for my wi-fi password because he ran out of data on his cell phone. And he played on his phone for a while, totally ignoring me...and then I gave him a ride home. I thought everything was magical, but he never called back. But I call him every single day and send him text messages, but for some reason he hasn't received any of them. I assume this because he never responds. But I just know he's the one for me, so I'll let fate handle the rest. BEST. DATE. EVER!
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Quote by BlackTalon
Well, I think I was trying to make 2 points with that geek story.
1) In a setting such as this where it is acceptable to do so, many will let themselves show the BDSM side more prevalently. Almost to the point that here, in this setting, it may appear to be all there is to them.
2)The geek in the story becomes the vanilla wannabe here. He learns the language and then tries to fit in. Some may be convincing, but us Jocks can generally spot em. (Jocks being anyone in the lifestyle with real-life experience) Sadly, many just finding this lifestyle may be fooled and get into bad situations, but I'm hoping there are more people out there looking out for that.
You need to keep in mind we cant SEE the geek here, if he has learned enough about the subject it may be tougher to figure out he isn't a jock.
Yes ...there is more to us than that. As BDSM encompasses such a wide range of topics concerning our relationships, conversations will always tend to lean that way for many of us. When here, people tend to talk about things they couldn't normally share with even their closest friends in real life.
For Me, it comes back to discussing English literature in a dungeon. Though there is more to Me than BDSM, My purpose being here is to discuss that side of Me. Sometimes it becomes therapeutic, other times it helps those new to the life learn new aspects or points of view. Sometimes I'm just the asshole pointing out which ones I see as fakes. lol
For you, the sole purpose of going into the BDSM chat room will be to discuss that side of you. But I know from experience that in the BDSM chat room here, you will find all sorts of conversations going on, and a great majority of them have nothing to do with BDSM. And that's not even remotely what I was talking about. I'm talking about the people OUTSIDE of the BDSM chat rooms. All they do, no matter the setting, is express their dominance or submissiveness...and nothing else. I've literally been in a chat room and a sub will come in saying, "Sub slut that needs to be punished." Likewise, I've seen so-called doms doing the same thing, but it'll be more along the lines of, "Master here looking for someone who wants to be dominated." Or something of that nature. And I understand that people come here to openly express that part of themselves, but it gets boring and repetitive if that's all you bring to the table. I have plenty of friends involved in this lifestyle, and the reason we remain friends is that they discuss it when the subject comes up, and they also give me lots of insight, and they do this all without having to proclaim it everywhere they go. I mean if you have to go around declaring your dominance, then what's the point?
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by BlackTalon
This may be a relative story--- In my school there was a geek..he knew every sports stat imaginable. He hung out with all the jocks and got along well, because he had something in common-a love of sports. With that said, he never talked about ANYTHING but sports with those people even though he had other interests as well. YES - there was more to him than just sports, but his main focus in that group was sharing a love of sports.
It just isn't natural to go to an art exhibit and discuss the wrestling match last night, you discuss art. The same applies here.. you don't generally go to a dungeon and discuss English literature. There are VERY few places in the world that many of us can find people to be ourselves around because of stereotypes. So when provided an opportunity to show what normally must remain hidden from view, most tend to really let it show.
I Myself am much more open publicly than is normal in this lifestyle. On occasion I'll take My slave in public on a leash, and even when "looking" normal in public, the relationship is unmistakeable when people see how W/we interact with each other. When getting her hair or nails done.. I am the one telling the salon tech how it will be done. As I said... most aren't that open with themselves, so places like this are the only places they can relax and be themselves, outside the privacy of their own homes.
OK, in your story the geek talked about sports when he was around the jocks. Just because he was knowledgeable of sports stats it didn't make him a jock. And when he wasn't around jocks, I'm assuming the sports talk dropped. Because he was multifaceted. What I was focusing on was those involved in the BDSM lifestyle who only seem to present or promote this side of themselves, regardless of the crowd. I like the geek in your story because although he was a geek, that wasn't all there was to him, which supports my opinion that those involved in BDSM should have more to them than just hey, I'm a dom/sub!
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
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I'm trying to see if most people are bi or bi curious. I Think the percentage is higher than what people would guess.
I understand, although I don't think you'll get much of a representative sample from a site like Lush, where most of us are sexually charged. Most people here will admit to being at the very least bi-curious, but you kind of have to wade through the bullshit, so to speak, because a great majority here are great pretenders. They claim to be bisexual or the like just to seem more appealing. Or maybe there are those that are genuinely bi-curious, who have these desires but have never acted on them. Good luck with your results, and hopefully people will give you honest responses.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I saw a biker slam into the back of a car...he flipped in the air, came down, and splatted onto the pavement. It was like seeing someone get drawn and quartered in one of those medieval movies, except without the horses. It was so unreal, and it happened so fast. I had nightmares for months.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I don't speak for all women, but I'm not particularly fond of being hit on. Perhaps because I bruise rather easily, so if someone took it upon themselves to hit on me, I'd show the marks right away, and they'd last for weeks...and being that I'm rather pale, that's just not very attractive. And plus, it's getting sunny out and I tan very nicely, so I'd be pretty peeved if someone came along and hit on me, ruining the overall effect of my beautiful tan.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I personally believe it's one of the most sensual things a guy can do. Mainly because most guys don't just go around eating their own cum (although a great deal do). But you know it's something he's doing just to please you. There's absolutely nothing a guy gets out of tasting his own cum other than it mingling with someone else's or being able to share it, all of which is done to arouse his partner. It's really, in MY opinion, one of the most selfless sex acts there is, and I guess that's why I find it so sensual.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
As Belle said, it's perfectly natural, whether it's online or not. But there should be that follow-up moment of retrospect where you realize that if you really do have something special going, then there's no need to feel threatened because you have nothing to worry about. Not all jealousy is bad, and there's actually such a thing as "healthy" jealousy. But you also have to make sure you're on the same page. If you haven't had that conversation (you know the one I'm talking about) then you're just acting based on assumptions. If you haven't literally sat down and declared your exclusivity, then he's fair game. No matter how close you think you are. No matter how many private and intimate conversations you've had. No matter how much it's seemingly implied. If a guy is exclusive with you, he'll let you know, and it WON'T be indirectly. So just because you're a guy's favorite and shiniest toy, it doesn't mean you're the only one. If this hasn't been discussed, and if he hasn't made it clear to you that you're the only one he's interested in, then you're probably not. And who knows, maybe you are, but since this is an online community not many people heed the fidelity stipulation because it's all in fun for some. Proceed with caution.