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Any person that stops doing things he REALLY enjoys because his girlfriend says no (and I do not mean just one or two things, I mean, MANY things). As well, as makes many other drastic changes to his life.
For example, my friend Dan used to party a lot, play lots of sports and Xbox, and hung out of his friends virtually all day. Then Dan meet Anne, first thing to change was he completely stopped partying, for a while he used to ask her she'd say no, eventually she'd just look at him and that'd be his no, in the end he quit asking all together. After that, he quit hanging out with his friends, started spending all day with her, and doing the things that she enjoyed (IE: Going shoe shopping with her and her friends etc.). Now he lives with her and I do not think anyone has really talked to him in quite a while (well unless Anne is with him).
Now I am not saying it is bad to spend time with your girlfriend, but when you quit all your hobbies and quit hanging out with your friends, you are probably whipped.
I would not say I find it offensive, but if she just lays there completely unassertive it just feels like she isn't very... interested, I guess I'd say.