Growing up I was always spanked with a strap.  We had a babysitter who is hot.  The first time she spanked me I got hard. My mother had told her to use a strap so she did.  I heard her talking to a girlfriend on the phone and she admitted that when she spanked me she got wet and so she started wearing pads in her panties when I get spanked.  This kept up and she continued to be in my life until it got to the point when I became submissive.  She uses a strap for my weekly maintenance spankings and has also used a whip.  The strap gets me hard and I have to cum after I'm spanked.

First off I am bi-  One of my female friends asked me if I had any unfulfilled sexual fantasies and I told her I had three.  One is to dress as a woman which was taken care of by the girls.  The second was I wanted to suck a cock and the third was I wanted her to peg me.  I sucked a gay guy's cock and really liked it.  Had to take my time getting a lot of it in.  I'm "training" for the pegging by wearing different size butt plusga every day.  Its working.