Where to start? My divorce is imminently final, I'm looking for my divorced man apartment, and trying to determine where life will take me next.   I'm an INTP if you like Meyer Briggs nomenclature ... very, very smart, with a wry sense of humor. I enjoy people but also need my down or quiet time with something to read or think about. I'm a data network engineer by trade (one of the nerds who understands how very large networks like the Internet move information from place to place), and work full-time remote.