Looking out my window at the storm, and thinking about the summer and warmth and soft air - and sex on the beach, sex in my friend's boat. Sex!

Giving a blowjob is the farthest thing from formality - it is simply a wonderful gift between friends. It is simple, gentle and intimate. When I have a friend's penis in my mouth, I'm happy and I know what I'm doing gives him great pleasure. Its a gift that's easy to give. For me, it is not a transactional sex act - it is a gift of pleasure carved out in time that he and I can both enjoy. I'll be with friend at the movies, and might do it. Watching a movie or a game on tv - sometimes his penis just comes out of his pants or robe and finds its way into my mouth - and we both continue to enjoy our time. Its a wonderful stress-reliever, such as when we're at parents' house or some other place where we can't always have a normal sensual life.

There is no way its a formality during sex. That's the crap you see in porno.

I had a wonderful relationship with a guy in high school and college. We are still very good friends. When we were a "couple", we did pretty much everything but actual intercourse. He just explained that women in his family had a history of difficult and dangerous childbirth, so actually penetrating me and possible getting me pregnant sort of scared him at the time. So we developed a wonderful sexual friendship based on oral and manual sex.

He's married now, and has gotten over his fear of fucking: he and his wife have 2 children with at least 1 more planned. I am very friendly with his wife, who has told me that he's definitely gotten over his fear of intercourse - but he waited until after they married.

Some guys squirt cum like a mini firehose, so the lack of "evidence" in me or on me would tell the story. However, a few guys I know will occasionally cum only a few drops, or maybe one tiny spurt. This usually happens if it has been a day and/or night of sex and cumming for him - his "cum glands" only have so much backup juice and it takes time to resupply. So if he's in me and goes "all orgasmic", I might not be able to distinguish between his precum and my own pussy juices and a tiny amount of cum. If I'm sucking on him and he cums in my mouth - different story. Precum and cum feel and taste different, and I can feel the subtle changes in cock hardness and texture when its in my mouth.

So I guess it is possible for a guy to fake an orgasm and not get caught.

I tasted a friend's who is nursing her baby. Its warm, and very sweet. I took it direct from her breast, so I got the milk from the source. I understand that it starts to change flavor profile if it isn't kept refrigerator and/or used right away. So, I got it from the baby's (and husband's !!) perspective - its delicious. My friends husband told me, the day I sampled it, that the milk squirts all over (all over him) when his wife has an orgasm..... kind of neat!!!

I think its easier said than done, at least in my experience. The whole purpose of the FB or FWB is to be casual, no ties but pretty much sex at your convenience. It works great for a while. The FWB has to be on a very thin line between long term emotional attachments or simple transactional sex. I suppose the FWB is transactional to a certain degree: we'll grab a snack, maybe hang out, then I'll do you if you do me, say thanks and split. Very neat, tidy, confined. However, I've had 2 FWBs turn into best friends - the benefits are still there but they have started to mean more than a simple sexual transaction - they are turning into some sort of relationship. With both of these guys - who know each other and know they are both with me - I can see being friends for the rest of my life. We have started to develop a basis for strong friendships. Not romance, I don't think, but definitely friendships. I miss each of them when they are away somewhere. My other FWBs - not the same. If they leave "my circle", I'll miss their cocks and their mouths, but not them or their personalities or their friendship.

Send him to a marksmanship class, or spend a lot of time honing in his aiming skills. Unless my shoe is someplace very strange, I can't imagine a guy intentionally cumming in it. But I'd certainly remember him and the encounter every time I wore those shoes....

Thinking back into my sexual memory, I think Saturdays and New Years Eve. My thoughts are that most of the time If I went out with friends, if it was on Saturday, the chances are hat some time of sex happened, even just heavy making out.

However, thinking back to when I was too young to mention on Lush, I got laid and gave oral every single New Years Eve.

I think it all depends on the pleasure I would be seeking, and who it is attached to.

If its meant as a sort of signal to "Get ready", I'm OK with it. But any guy that knows me and the way I like to blow knows that I'm not about to pull away. Guys who hold my ears or head and get forceful and push themselves into my mouth while holding my head find out how much I don't like that.

No, not at all. I don't like being roughed around and I don't like being tied and feeling helpless. Guys that try it are instantly cut short, and told to cut the crap or leave. I don't put up with it.

For the sex that always seems to pride itself on map reading and direction skills, there are a lot of guys who think that if they just bump into a girl "down there" and push, the gates of love will magically open. Not true, guys. When I was in high school, I and the guys I knew were learning our way and were pretty careful - and actually one of my friends said that watching his cock disappear inside me was almost as sexy as being in there. He loved taking time and aiming.....

Cut to college and all the guys who were supposedly grown up and smart - I've actually had some pain inflicted on me by a very hard and horny guy pushing hard and fast to get in, thinking that the forceful entry was somehow sexy. Believe me - I remembered the pain longer than I remembered the pleasure.

I almost always have my hand "down there" to held the cock find its way home. Maybe my pussy is small or tight or I just present myself differently, but I find a helping hand is nice.

It isn't going to poison you, or turn you gay. You like that I drink and swallow it - you should at least be unafraid to taste it.

7 inches bottoms out in me. When I was a freshman, I briefly used a diaphragm for birth control when I was having some problems with the pill. I had used it with a couple of guys, who could tell it was in me. I had just met a new guy, and the first time we had sex, I wore it, and he came out of it bruised I felt so bad. I measured him and he was about 7 1/2 inches. I guess either the other two guys werent that big (I think they were), but the new bf really seemed to know how to fuck like a pro - he seemed to really get in deeper than the rest! I told my doctor about him and bruising, and she congratulated me for finding someone who knew how to "get it done" (her words). She gave me a new scrip for the pill, which worked a lot better and more conveniently. My boobs even got a little bigger for a while.

Back to the point - for me, it seems anyone bigger than 7 inches is probably going to hit my cervix. Probably explains why the occasional "large guys" I knew in college were uncomfortable once in a while.

Yes. A few times because the timing or place was was wrong. But more significantly, and the time I'll never forget, is when a really good guy friend and I were together in his office for some reason and had been drinking. A little too much drinking. He is (still is) a very special and very wonderful friend. I've always wondered what sex with him would be like, but knew in the back of my mind that it might wreck the friendship. So we had never crossed more than an occasional flirty line.

But the night in question, flirting happened and then we all have experienced it - that deep longing look into someones eyes and BANG, you kissing them. Almost everyone I know has had it happen, even married people to non-spouses. Anyway - he and I kissed, his hands wandered under my blouse and felt so nice as he took my tits in hand and opened my blouse. Like an automaton, I had him unzipped, cock out and in my hand.... then a moment of "oh shit ... we have to stop..." It was tough, but we did stop. His cock is lovely, and I'll never forget that I held it in my hand ... but if we were going to remain friends, I had to turn it down. He had this pleading look in his eyes, and I suppose he was willing to cross the line -- but we stopped it, and are still good friends, but now we have an amusing story to tell ourselves.

I did feel sorry for him, though - and I encouraged him and watched him jerk off from the other side of the couch. At least I got to see him "in action".

Still the best of friends, and non-lovers, although with a hint of intimacy... "Remember that night you held my boobs and I watched you jerk off".... Interesting and still just friends with a slightly intimate story to tell.

Yes, totally. I never want to turn my bf away, at least not for anything but a really good reason. Just last week, I was very busy writing my part of a paper for research team I belong to. Our adviser wanted all drafts from everyone in early the next morning. Naturally, the night before, my bf starts getting horny (maybe because he wanted to distract me?) and started walking around the apartment, stroking himself, putting his cock on my shoulder as I typed, etc -- just being a dick, but a nice, hard, delicious one that I really wanted to enjoy. I stopped typing for a second, looked at him and told him to bring "it" over to me when he was ready to cum. In about 5 minutes, he came back, dripping. I turned my swivel chair, took his cock into my mouth and sucked him off. Hmmmm. A little stolen pleasure was great. The bf thanked me, brought me a glass of ice water, and then, about a half hour later - came back with another hardon. I just had to suck him off again. I had to check my writing because I was getting very distracted.

But in general, I'm always ready, willing and able to take as much time as needed for wonderful sex.

If it isn't going to squirted into my mouth or vagina, I lie watching the guy ejaculate. That being said, I don't like it on my face. I have no problems with it on my belly, or the small of my back, or my boobs. One the boobs is kind of fun. Just not the face. But the question is - why would the guys like to cum out in the clod dry air instead of the nice warm moist slippery places our phenomenal female bodies provide naturally for them?

Thats a good question for the guys. Why do some of YOU prefer to squirt onto us rather than into us?

Not a prerequisite for a relationship, of course, but I enjoy it when I've given a friend a nice blowjob and he does not recoil at the thought of kissing me. Even better, a few guys I know are actually willing and maybe happy to share their cum from my mouth - or eat it from my boobs or vagina. Those guys have earned spots on the "definitely do them again list".

One of my favorite aunts talks to me about sex once in a while, especially if she's had a little liquid encouragement. Its actually kind of sweet - she sharing her experiences and giving advice. If the stuff she's revealed to me about hereelf is true, I'm very impressed about her love life and things and people she did. Back to the point - turns out my uncle (her husband) is now 70 and apparently doesn't get too hard anymore. My aunt loves cuddling with him, and has consigned her "hard banging super fucks" (her words) with my uncle to the past. She won't cheat on him. But she has been surprised that, even when sort of soft or maybe semi hard, she can suck him to a nice orgasm and he still cums quite nicely. Something to keep in mind for lovers with erection difficulties - the blood might not be filling the penis, but the nerves are all still quite well and capable of delivering an orgasm.

There is a certain hotness about the guy who is off limits. But, no, I will never go with a married man. I don't ever want to be a home wrecker. I've heard so many stories from older married guys at clubs trying to score with me - "My just doesn't do sex anymore", "The wife is frigid", "The wife is a bitch and uses sex to control me, " etc etc etc.

Bottom line - most of the time those stories are just bullshit, and I won't be the reason a marriage breaks up.

I will not be "the other woman".

When my bf is on the phone, especially with his parents, I'll get him hard and ride his cock or suck him off. I get a huge kick out of it. Of course, he retaliates and does the same to me, particularly if I'm on with my mom. He'll either start eating me, or rubbing his cock around my face, then finding whatever was he can to get it into my vagina (I make it easy for him, though. lol. If my mom calls or I call her, and he's around, I'll slip out of my jeans and panties.

I have an absolute major crush on an older man. He is one of my Dad's roommates from college. He also dated my mom briefly in college. His friend group from college has stayed pretty tight, and all the children (of which I am one) are friends and get to hang out when the group has a party, like on St Patricks Day or Christmas, etc. There have been a many hookups over the years between some of the kids (personally taking part in of 2 of them), but I have an absolute major crush on a guy who was my Dad's roommate and who dated my Mom. Trouble is, his wife is awesome and loves me like another daughter. They have had me at their house a lot (I went to college near where they live and would go there for long weekends, etc. They've taken me on weekend getaways with them.) His wife says that he;s always in a better mood when I'm around. He and I can sit and talk about just about anything. He's never seen me naked (almost a few times) and I've never seen him naked, but I've dreamed about it. I've dreamed about all kinds of sex with him - and I usually wake up from those dreams soaking wet and have to masturbate. I was even with a bf at one point and had my dream, woke up so horny that my bf didn't know what hit him - but the whole time the bf was doing me, i was thinking of my Dad's roommate.

Unrequited love, lust, whatever. If he ever becomes available, I'm making a serious move for him, and I'm not sure what my folks will think about that. But I won't be a home wrecker - I'll wait. And masturbate. And fuck and suck guys my own age for the time being.

When I was in high school, my bf and I went to a theme park. It was a great time, and as afternoon turned into evening, we were both getting a little horny - we had just started dating about 2 weeks earlier, and were in the "jump my bones at every chance" mode. At one point while kissing, I knew my nipples were poking like spitzer bullets and I had no problem feeling his hardon just standing next to him.

The line for the ferris wheel was short, so I told him we'd jump into a car by ourselves and be able to make out "and stuff" for maybe five minutes. We got in, and once the car had rotated just past eye level, we started going at it. The cars stopped for about 30 to 45 seconds in each position to load and secure new riders. By the time the car was at the top, his cock was in my mouth and precum was running like a faucet. He filled my mouth and I swallowed just at the car came down to the 9:00 oclock position. It was a great, lusty, quick teenage blowjob - and I remember it vividly.

The car rotated down and then the ride actually started - I left my head in his lap and his cock in my mouth while it deflated - left it there for most of the ride.

When the ride finished, some of the kids we were with came up and gave us a "hard time" because apparently we were sort of visible if people looked closely. I became "cool" in the eyes of the friends who were there and saw.

I've always admired ferris wheels, and have given a few bjs and handjobs on them since. But that first one was special.

It sure isn't the guy's fault. If he happens to be small, I keep my assessment to myself and have as much fun with him as I can. I was attracted to him before I saw his cock, and that's why I would just "carry on" and not do anything to stupidly bruise an ego. He probably knows that he's on the small side without me saying anything - I know enough mean girls who WOULD say something hurtful, and probably dump him.

From a different perspective, as a few other girls here have stated, a small cock is really easy and fun to suck! As for vaginal sex, if he knows how to use it, I don't need to have my cervix rammed. And anal - if I do it (not a huge fan) - it doesn't have to be long at all, no longer than a finger.

When I encounter a small cock on one of my guys, I try to enjoy it and let the guy know that no matter how big he is, I'm having a great time.

I'm a person that really needs and enjoys some alone time. If I'm home and not in my lab, I spend most of the day at least topless, preferably naked. I make all my phone calls naked, and if it has to be a video call, I probably just put a loose shit on. If its summer and I have the chance to take out my parents' boat, I sail naked. I sail out of a little town south of Boston. Once you get out past 3 or 4 miles from the shore, its amazing how many other topless or naked people you see.

I just love the "me time" - no one to answer to or explain anything to.

no, not at all.

I won't say that I'm and exhibitionist, but I'm not shy either. If I want some guy or girl to my private parts, then they will be visible. I'm very good at engineering the accidental "nip slips" or or downblouse looks or wardrobe malfunctions. Its like fishing in a stocked trout pond.

I got every one that I wanted. The number doesn't matter.

I think its an incredibly sexy thing to do. A few guys I know have been willing to try, and two have really enjoyed it to the point of making it a part of getting their bj from me. I'm thrilled! I love the back and forth tongue dance in his cum. And I love watching him swallow some of his load.

I've doubled up with a girlfriend a few times to do a double blowjob with some guys we know, and that snoball ends up being between her and me, and that is incredible sexy, too, and often gets the hard again almost instantly.

I have no interest in seeing two guys do it.

Let me say, as a girl, you guys are worrying about something very unimportant. First of all, having been responsible for a great number of ejaculations from a decent number of guys, there are very few - and I mean very few - guys who have the firehose. Most guys do a few spirts, some shoot farther than others. But most of the firehoses you see in porn are fake. As I'm thinking about it, and all the blowjobs and handjobs I've given , I can remember maybe one or two that standout as huge loads. Most guys do a teaspoon or two, tops, But thats OK. But the guy that stands over his girlfriend and literally covers her tits or back or face with what appears to be a cup of cum? Really. Sorry, no. I have found the biggest variable to be how long its been since the last time you came, and how long you have been "hard" in your current situation. The same guy can vary 50 to 100% under those conditions. My own bf, when he's gone on a trip and is celibate (and I mean he intentionally does not erk off or anything) for a week or so - when he comes home and I "greet" him, he cums a lot, and the orgasm is intense. The afternoon quickie that you squeeze in at lunchtime when you have 10 minutes - or the bj on mom's couch when no one is around - not a huge load usually.

Bottom line - there is no judgement connected to your cum volume, the speed of the spirts, the distance they travel or how many there are

As far as I am concerned, with my bf, and all the guys before him and those who will probably follow him, he is spending his time paying attention to me, entering me, loving me and giving me his entire amount of semen to do with what I want. He doesn't hold anything back - I get him in totality.

Enjoy your girl guilt free and free of fear. If she truly has a problem with the "size" of your load, dump her, she's better suited to be a porn start than girlfriend.