So far it has definitely been a fun summer!

I just returned from a nice two week vacation on Cape Cod. Lots of great sex with some old friends I haven't seen for some time - as well as making the acquaintance of a few new and young friends I was chatting up one of the lifeguards at the beach in Chatham, telling him I used to work there as a guard and instructor. He invited me to the July 4th beach party, and said I could bring my friend (Maureen) if she wanted to come. This guard's name is Brian, he's 19, and I quickly accepted his invitation as I looked him over and felt that old tingle in my crotch. The party was great - Brian was every inch what I expected, as was another guy who's name I think was Jerry. They spit-roasted me, and I told them that, when I was a guard, our parties were every bit as much fun! It was a great evening - fireworks in the sk, fireworks in my pussy and explosions in my mouth and vagina. Those 19 year old cocks - wow.

When I got home, I had dinner with my "elderly" friend, who really pressed me to tell him about my exploits in Chatham - he loves hearing my stories and imagining himself with me as a teenager. Anyway - he told me that he'd been faithful and had not masturbated since he last saw me - 2 weeks. He wanted to pick up the experiment.

Long story short -- 2 weeks had filled him up and really sensitized him - we went to his house and I sucked him off... he came pretty fast and a huge volume... biggest I remembered from him. We had a glass of wine, and then I did him cowgirl style. Then, of course, he asked for comparisons to my fun in Chatham - I told him everything, and pointed out that he felt every bit as good in me as my other friends did ( tiny white lies are harmless, right? - especially since he already knows he doesn't get as hard as he did as a 20 year old), We had sex one more time that night before sleeping - 3 times is not bad! We start the next part of the experiment this week. He bought some of that Semenex online, and we'll be "collecting data". Yummm.

More next time.

I have always enjoyed getting laid on my birthday.

But -- I also enjoy giving on someone else's birthday. When I was in college I had a number of close male friends - not really boyfriends but guys I fooled around with. I formed the "Blowjob on your Birthday Club" and have enrolled some of my best male friends. As far as I know, they all like their birthday presents. I hope to keep this club going for many many years. Tow of my charter member guys have gotten married - and both of their wives have let this tradition of giving continue - one of them has watched he hubby receive his gift. She suggested that I also "invert" the club for my birthday -- all the guys in the club who can come to my birthday get to "do" me, or get another bj. I'm thinking of proposing this for my next birthday.

I love birthdays.

I have never done an all-girl threesome, but it certainly sounds like sensuous fun. Most of mine have been MFM since I began occasionally doing these in my teens -- having two guys in absolutely wonderful -- they certainly keep me busy. As long as they keep me at the center of their attention, I could keep a good MFM going for many hours.....

I had a few FMF threesomes in college (with my roommate and several of the guys we both knew) and they were wonderful. I really got to like heaving my face and head down by the action between the guy and my roomie - I loved watching his cock plunge in and out ... and then cleaning her out and up when they finished.

But if I had to choose, I'd go for a nice MFM.

To be honest, even though a guy may think being in the "friend zone" is a second rate relationship, I've found that the depth of my friendship with guys who are in my friend zone is just incredible - we can talk about anything, share anything, go skinny dipping, talk about lovers, etc -- they are truly friends, and I know in my heart that some of these guys I will know and enjoy as friends when I'm 75 years old.

I've only brought a couple of friends out of the zone - and knowing its time is simple: I'd do something with them I'd never done, like a very deep French kiss, a very deliberate and sensual cock rub on the pants, anything like that that normally doesn't happen between "just friends"...

But be careful - it changes the whole dynamic: I'm no longer a good or best friend, I'm a girlfriend he has sex with, and may end up getting jealous of time I spend with other guys. And he is no longer a really great guy friend I can talk to - he's fucking me, I'm sucking him off, we're enjoying each other in a heavenly way ---- but, unless the committment is lifelong, boyfriends and girlfriends inevitable fall apart and break up.

And, once broken, it might be impossible to get back into the friend zone.

Personal experience: I've got about 7 guys in the friend zone - they all know each other, and we are all friends as a group. I had brief but intense flings with two of them, bringing them up into the sex zone. Both flings were great, but one ended as flings usually do with jealousy over time or someone else, or someone else comes along. The one with that guy actually put me and the guy into a vary different zone - we moved down from friend zone to just cordial after the breakup - we say hi but never do much more than that.

With the other guy, we managed to see what was happening and decided that our friendship had lasted for such a long time pre-fling, and we wanted it to be that way again. He's back in a "modified friend zone" - since we do know each other intimately, every now and then we'll "get together", but its no where near a FWB level - he's not a booty call for me, and I'm not one for him. If we find ourselves together somewhere for some reason, and there's not much else to do, we find something to do. But we're very careful. Getting back to that "friends until we're 75 " thing - when I look at him I know I want to have sex with him when we're older and hope we can at 75, but we'll just continue to be the best of friends.

Confusing I know - and probably playing with dynamite. But he's a friend I want to keep, and even though I enjoy sex with him when it happens, I enjoy all the other times of just being best friends even more.

I always consider it a total treat, but there are so many guys that just don't like getting cum in their mouths.

I was in high school the first time a friend went down "after the deed". We had been at a party, and I gave him a great bj, swallowing every drop and letting him see the mouthful.. I have always found that to be sexy. Anyway, on our way back for him to drop me at my house, we stopped at our local park and had a great fuck, and he filled me. I just had this urge of it "not being over", so I got up and started to put my vagina right over his face, and a little cum dripped out. He objected, and said it was gross. I sat on his chest and asked why he thought it was gross, and reminded him of how much of his cum I'd swallowed since I knew him. We chatted, and he calmed down about it. As I mentioned, I was sitting on his chest, and leaking cum onto him. I scooped some onto my finger, and licked it clean. I scooped another little bit, and asked him to try it - he said OK and I just rubbed it onto his lips. He licked and swallowed, and he looked surprised as he said it didn't taste as gross as he'd heard. So I scooped up quite a bit more, and put my fingers into his mouth, and watched his face as he swallowed. I asked if he'd like more, since I was sure there was a lot left inside me. He said OK, so I turned around, and we 69'd. He came in my mouth again, and I think it was the best 69 I'd ever had to that point.

I turned him on to his own cum, and after many of the bjs I gave him from that point, we snowballed and he was really into it.

Other guys since then, if they want to snowball after a bj, I'll ask them to go down on me after we've fucked -- it is really a nice feeling.

But I've been surprised my entire "sexual life" at how many guys have not done it, and how many are dead set against ever doing it.

I don't scream - I enjoy things quietly and intensely. I like my guys to be silent or, at least, not be screamers.

A few drinks and things are easier and friendlier ..... sometimes when I've had a few drinks I become a very serious predator...

I am normally a "moaner" - and a quiet sucker and swallower.

I prefer swallowing it to wearing it. And I can not understand why a guy would rather paint me as a target than enjoy the feeling of cumming into my mouth and watching me enjoy it.

I'll let a guy do it on a special occasion - and even have fun while watching the cum squirt - but if he insists on doing it, then he's going to have to find someone else to help him cum.

I used to be very faithful to my diary - it was personal and very private, and recorded pretty much everything, including some pictures of a few things I wanted to remember. That was college and the first year or two of grad school. I've looked back through it - like travelling back in time. One thing I definitely noticed was that in college, without a real boyfriend, my life read like a porn movie - so many ways to so many things with so many different people. And the pictures - memories. I'm going to a college reunion next year - a bunch of people who starred in my diary will be there. Should be fun......

Being naked at my office (which is often a lab) is not something I'd do. If I'm working from home on a report or a plan or something like that, naked is great. Sometimes I go bottomless if I'm in a teleconference.....

I often close my eyes and let aroma, sound and physical touch be a great deal of my stimulation. Sometimes a visual stimulus is too one-dimensional.

Of course, if I'm giving a friend a BJ, I love looking at his face and into his eyes.

They're all great the way they are - each one is perfectly handsome in his own way.

Greatly enjoy swallowing it. Each guy tastes a little different - and that's part of the fun. And its always sexy - when I was much younger, it sucking and swallowing was a "secret, naughty" thing I did with certain guys --- loved doing it.

B, C

Yes, I like them very much. Some of them are absolutely fascinating - and fun! They know how to treat a lady nicely, and know how to have a good time!

Yesterday afternoon in a friend's hottub. We were doing some work in his yard most of the day. After a long day of digging and planting, he suggested a nice warm hottub with wine and cheese and music. The hot water, bubbles and water jets were amazing. The wine was wonderful and the music was very relaxing. He got to enjoy one of my solo performances on the skin flute - which was also delicious.

I will answer my own question. I asked a friend at work ( who is a biologist) if she had any experience with these. Her answer was "yes, she had experience".

Based on what she said, and my own experiences, my friend and I are going to do an experiment.

She and a boyfriend were playing around making sexy videos and they both wanted him to shoot "porn video quality" cumshots. The increase in his cum volume was marginal, at best. They determined that the biggest factor in his cum volume was how long he went between orgasms - and she was talking many hours or days. The longer the gap, the bigger the load seemed to be. I have noticed the same thing with my friends - the longer the time between getting together, the more he would cum.

As far as taste - she said that she did notice that he tasted a little better, and that the supplement they were trying had a pineapple component (the enzyme bromelain) and some other unusual herbal additives. Then she and I both agreed that the biggest factor in quality ( taste, thickness, color, aroma ) was definitely associated with diet. Guys who drink a lot and smoke are not as tasty as those who don't -- and even guys that are normally delicious can change their "output quality" after a long weekend of smoking, drinking and junk food.

Bottom line: they are most likely a rip off in their claim to increase volume hundreds of percent. I've told my new older friend about this. He is going to buy a bottle anyway, since as he says " it won't hurt and it just might help ". He said that my "survey" - a friend at work and then my and her observations over various boyfriends - was interesting and compelling but certainly not valid science. (As a scientist, I had to agree). But he did believe the bit about taste. So, on top of him using his supplement, we are going to do a "controlled" experiment on him over the summer.

Its going to be a fun summer.

I am occasionally seeing an older guy (he is 65) who really intrigues me. He's actually a lot of fun, but is a little self-conscious about the treat he gives me at the end of a bj. He told me that when he was younger, he was a lot more "productive", but is embarrassed now.

I gave him a bj the other day. I totally enjoyed myself, as I always do with friends. He has a very nice cock. However, he was apologetic about how much he came. I did not act disappointed (I wasn't) but he has this opinion that I'm used to massive loads. I told him it doesn't really make a difference to me.

He told me he's going to send for one of those "enhancers" - I know of Baker's but as far as I know I have have never been with someone who uses it.

Has any of you been with a guy with a supplement-enhanced cumshot? Does it work, or is it marketing bs - will he be disappointed? He really wants to see me with a mouthful - which of course I would love - but it is not necessary at all. I'm working on his psyche and confidence, and he's intent on revitalizing his "firehose".

Please advise. Will he get a "boost" or will he get ripped-off?

Hey guys - I have met an older guy (he is 65) who really intrigues me. He's actually a lot of fun, but is a little self-confident about how the treat he gives me at the end of a bj.

I love giving them to friends, and I gave him one the other day. I totally enjoyed myself, as I always do with friends. He has a nice cock. However, he was apologetic about how much he came. I did not act disappointed (I wasn't) but he has this opinion that I'm used to massive loads (some guys have them, some don't).

He told me he's going to sent for one of those "enhancers" - I know of Baker's but have have never been with someone who uses it.

Have any of you tried it? Dows it work, or will he be very disappointed? He really wants to see me with a mouthful - which of course I would love - but it is not necessary at all.

Guys, please advise. Will he get a "boost"?

Charity fuck - yes. Several times for different reasons ..

Yes. We were driving back to my apartment in Boston - my sister was driving. I gave my boyfriend a bj to completion in the back seat as we drove along Rt 6 on Cape Cod. I used the "slow and quiet" suck and swallow technique, and my bf was very good at not moaning. It was great fun. Repeated a few times in other cars with other people driving, and did get caught once! lol

HYE accidentally sent the "wrong kind" of picture of yourself to a friend or relative?

Yes. On the way home from a ski trip in high school. With a boyfriend. A very discrete handjob under our blanket when we supposedly sleeping on the long busride. Very exciting - finger lickin' good!

HYE had sex with your S.O. while one of you was on the phone with parents?

West coast - that's where most of my Florida friends are.

SCUBA diving or skiing

Yes, when hiking & camping with some friends in Sussex County in northern New Jersey. Actually sheltered in it overnight during a violent thunderstorm - a better option than outdoors in tents.

HYE had sex with someone that you have no real romantic interest in just to pass the time?

Yes, and very often when I'm not home as well. I'm not huge up there, and I enjoy the feeling of freedom.

My boat - wheter its at sea underway or at the mooring. I love being aboard, and love being naked on it while sailing. That makes me happy.

Yes. I can smell the aroma of moistening humus and organic material, and of course we can smell the ozone generated by lightning that is close by.

I have swallowed since I was 16. I always do, unless there's a off-taste or my friends wants to do something different with it.

1. EVERY time I go through security at an airport, I'm pulled aside for "enhanced" check. EVERY TIME, Interesting because my job requires a security clearance.

2. I have a Ph.D. in chemistry and an MS in Applied Physics.

3. One of my favorite hobbies is giving blowjobs to good friends.