No thanks, not for me. I dont have a strap-on, and if I guy I liked revealed that he was interested in doing this, I'd suspect some sort of psyche and sexual identity problem. I have girlfriends who will gladly peg the shit out of him. Not me.

Normally, I despise it. I want that cum to be in my mouth on its way to my belly. Depending on the guy and the situation of the bj, sometimes a little squirt gets out ahead of time and hits my face - thats all part of the game and I can laugh at it. I just can't understand when a girl sucks a guy to near completion then closes her mouth tightly and lets him use her face as a target. I just don't get that.

But, to each her own! I don't like having my face shot at, but some girls just love it. Whatever.

If I'm out for a work lunch, I expect the senior person at the table to buy my drinks and my meal. If I'm out with friends, we either get separate tabs or just divide the total tab among us. If I'm with a guy, it depends on how I feel. If, after a while at the table with him and a few drinks, I offer to pay my own bill it often means he has to try harder to get into my pants. If he offers to pay and I let him with a "thank you", if he can read between the lines it often means he's going to get lucky.

Everything is a form of communication if you want it to be.

My family was never that wealthy, and when I was growing up certainly not wealthy enough for me to become a clothes hound with the latest and greatest fashions for school. I went to Catholic school, and since we all dressed alike, I and other girls from "less wealthy" families never had to compete. Some of the girls wore expensive shoes (why?) and a few, when we were older, wore high-end underwear and bras.

I loved not having to worry about thinking about what to wear. I had friends in public school who were obsessed with daily clothing. Too stressful.

If and when I have kids - off they go to Catholic school, or at least a school with uniforms. I love them.

I love flowers! If a guy brings me a couple of flowers before he picks me up, it means he was thinking about me and wanted to get me something nice. Just stop at the grocery store and grab a bouquet of cut flowers - only a few $$. I guess I can add "flowered" to "wined and dined": Guys that "wine, dine and flower" me are sure to be remembered nicely. I might even let them get into my flower and pollinate it ....

I kind of like it. Not many guys will do it, though. I've been in a few FMF and FMMF times with my roommate and guys we know. Some guys will gladly clean us up even after 2 or 3 deposits. I remember I got one guy to do it by starting to clean out my roommate, then let him finish.

Sex in cars is difficult - back seats are usually pretty tight, but I've been able to sit on a guys lap facing him and have some nice enjoyable fucks. Really getting pounded, when I'm very horny, usually involves pulling over and finding a spot in the grass or woods. With center consoles and bucket seats in the front, in some cars even giving a handjob can be a chore, but I manage. One boy I knew in high school had a vintage car from the 70's (rather, it belonged to his father) and it had a nice unbroken sofa-style seat both in front and back! We did a lot of things in that car! We both joined the 60 MPH club! And sometimes, if I was driving, I'd give him a handjob! That was fun!

Doesn't even simply saying that you enjoy inter-racial sex sort of mean that you're intentionally seeking out someone of a different race" Aren't we all in the human race? I've been with guys of many colors, but I don't recall going out on the hunt for a black guy or a yellow or brown guy..... They are what they are, and I enjoy them for the time I have with them.

All that being said, I haven't noticed any real difference among guys of different colors. I won't seek a particular out, nor will I turn one down based on the color. Now - if you are talking about personalities and manners, I have neither time nor patience for assholes and bigots, and they come in all colors.

I will admit, however - I did intentionally put moves on a black guy I knew - I wanted to see if the stories I'd heard were true. Turns out his cock was just about the same size as those of the other guys I had known by that time, and his cum tasted just the same. The stories are not are not true. There are cocks of various sizes attached to guys of all colors, some of whom are nice guys and gentlemen, and some of whom are insufferable assholes and bigots and racists.

If I'm sucking on a guy and he grabs me and starts face fucking - which I absolutely despise - I ask him nicely to stop, especially if he ever wants an encore bj. Now, I love giving bjs - on my terms - I consider them fun and a gift. Relax, you'll enjoy it the way I like to give it. If you want to face fuck someone, find someone who wants to treated like a piece of crap.

I have smallish breasts and often go braless. I can always count on my nipples to give me away. And I actually love the feeling of having my nipples moving around against the fabric of whatever I'm wearing -- and they do jiggle around nicely, and watching eyes zero in on them is fun. It turns me on!

My nipples. The first orgasm I ever had was when I was making out in eighth grade - the guy I was with was totally into playing with my boobs and nipples. Didn't take long - a little help from me on my little clit and I started shuddering and clenching - he thought I was in pain, until he saw the smile on my face. We became good make-out buddies....

More than a split second means the its totally planned. She actually took aim at you and ground herself in as close as possible. I know - I've done it. The dance floor is a great place for flirting. If the music is right and you like the company you're with, you can go out on the dance floor and in less than a minute, you can grind into a few hot guys and check their hard-ons, and you can set up some "accidental" gropes, too. Not that I have that much to grope, but watching a guy's reaction when he realizes that your boob just ground into his arm or chest tells a lot about a guy.

I'm fine either way, although at the very beginning of a relationship the lights are usually on.

But doing "whatever" in the total darkness of night is fun, too. I love it when I'm in bed, lights off, relaxing, and I feel my bf spooning me, his cock hardening and poking around my pussy, then entering and gently fucking me. What a great way to relax and go to sleep - with your freshly-fucked pussy full of fresh cum, and maybe even with his semi-hard cock still inside .... feels awesome.

From the other side, sometimes in the middle of the night I wake up and just want to do something...I slip under the covers in total darkness, find his cock, and gently suck it into my mouth. I gently suck, in a complete hands-off blowjob in total darkness, until I can feel his legs stiffen a little and know he's about to give me my middle of the night shot of love ... his cum floods into my mouth and I swallow it as it enters ... his cock never leaves the warm nest of my mouth as he shoots his cum into me. I feel him pulsing, then the pulsing slows down. I continue to suck, pulling the last drops out, all the while his cock has not left my mouth. Finally, he goes from semi-rigid to mostly flaccid, and I pull back, letting his cock drop back onto his belly. I emerge from the darkness under the covers, give a kiss good night, and cuddle up next to him. He whispers "thank you" as he turns of his side, spooning me, gently holding my breast as we drift off to sleep. All the while - total darkness, but oh so incredibly sexy.

Its best when inside me. On the kinky side, I will give my bf a handjob, letting him cum into a cup I fill with yogurt I bring to lunch. When I'm at the lunch table or at my desk, I get my spoon to the bottom of the cup and enjoy little samples of "him" at lunch.

I'm all about "stealth sex" - a skill I developed in middle school when parents and parents of friends were all over the place.

Hard to do on demand - at least for me, I need that pneumatic action of a nice cock sliding in and out, filling me with cock, cum and air. Again, for me, it seems worst - or best, depending on how you look at it - when I'm on all fours getting it doggy style.

My favorite "queef" story happened about 2 summers ago while camping. Each of the three couples had retired to our tents to "get busy". I was totally horny and went for it with a very aggressive doggy-style fuck, When Bob finished, he pulled out and the loudest queef I ever heard tweeted out from me, seemingly loud enough to move tent flaps. THinking nothing of it, Bob and I got back to it and, of course, ended up having another olympic-quality queef. The following morning, 2 pairs of eyes from the other girls were on me as I came out to grab some coffee and wash up. "Erin - you and Bob must have been really going crazy last night! Those were awesome queefs!"

Of course, I was embarrassed. But that night, again ..... Bob and I were center show.....

I love sex, and queefs are just one fun consequence.

Don't have a hubby, and if I did, my answers to all the subquestions would be "NO".

But I have several FWBs and a nice steady boyfriend who loves to play around like I do. In the case of my boyfriend,

1. Have you fantasised about watching your boyfriend fucking another woman? Yes
2. Do you want it to happen? I don't see the harm in it - we have an open romance.
3. Have it happened? Not yet.

Most - yes most - conservative people I know really don't give a shit what people do behind closed doors as long as its consensual and not or slavery or similar deviations.

I wonder why the word " " in my original answer has been lined out? Is Lush in favor of , not consider it a crime against nature, or are we just not allowed to say one of the new darling words of the woke morons in a negative way?

might have to write it as "ped-o-feel-ya" from now on?

--- just curious....

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Perversion is in the eye of the beholder, me thinks. While I agree with Icarus4 that I would only attach the term to some fairly extreme stuff, a religious conservative might consider anything other than intercourse between a man and woman married to one another to be a perversion with same sex couplings, esp. between men, probably being the height of perversion.

OK, but let's not get into religion and religious conservatives. I am a practicing Catholic, a conservative from a conservative family. And I think trying to look at and judge sexual pleasure through a conservative lens is wrong. Conservatives and religious people get the short end of the stick too often because many who claim to be liberals just don't understand how people can't think like they do. As I've mentioned in other questions - I am no stranger to most types of sex - love having sex, love giving blowjobs to friends just for the mutual pleasure, love being physically intimate. But I won't screw around with a married man. Don't ridicule people for a heterosexual and monogamous lifestyle, and don't assume they are somehow phobic about anything but a narrow moral consideration of life. Most - yes most - conservative people I know really don't give a shit what people do behind closed doors as long as its consensual and not or slavery or similar deviations.

I did. He was a single Dad due to his wife's passing away. He was father to one of my roommates in college. I was very good friends with him and his wife before she died, and she liked me a lot. About a year after she passed, I dropped in to say hi - had a few drinks - and we started "dating". He has actually been a superb "boyfriend" - very generous, a great lover, very in-tune to what makes a girl happy. My friend - his daughter - does NOT know, and I don't think she'd handle it too well.

For my first few, I engineered the whole thing, up to and including being "accidentally alone" with 2 guys I liked. Picking the right guys is key, of course - you have to trust them completely. BUT OMG - when the plan comes together and you are entertaining a pair of gorgeous guys and their cocks are both deep inside you - what a feeling!

I have been in a few MFMs where one of the guys starts it...

I definitely have one.

Definitely a science nerd here. 2 advanced degrees. and I love to fuck and suck.

Family friend. He and his family (parent's friends from college) were visiting us for a long weekend on Cape Cod. He is 5 years older than me. I was the one who started it - I could see "its outline" in his bathing suit (he was well-equipped) and wanted to see it. One thing led to another. I rode a lot of pipe during that visit! We continue to be FWBs when families get together to this day.

Yes. I asked him if he wanted help, but let him know I'd love to watch and enjoy the show. I realize men get horny too, and we're not always right there to take care of "things". I'm glad he (and other guys I know) are fully capable of doing things for themselves....

That being said - I love it when I can watch him masturbate. I love helping him clean up afterwords.

Good food with fun people. Perhaps sexy and intimate talk over a few glasses of wine. Being touched intimately, and making out with a guy I like. The sight of a beautiful pair of breasts on a beautiful woman. The sight and feel of a nice penis on a friend - the feel of the penis growing harder in my hand. The sight and aroma and taste of pre-cum, and the scent and taste of cum - if i've had some cum in my mouth, I get super horny and want more and more....

Yes, they certainly can. Compatibility happens between people's brains and minds and personalities, not only their genitals. I have a wonderful relationship with one of my Dad's college roommates - he's 27 years older than me. I can sit and talk with him and really communicate for hours and hours. I've fantasized about taking it down the sexual route - but he's also married, I like his wife and she likes me, and actually likes having me around. She's told me that I bring him out of his shell sometimes, and she love to have me visit . I've even gone with them on vacation - spent a few days with them. I'm good friends with their kids - my age. I love their Dad - he and I are very compatible - soulmates almost - I love the relationship the way it is and won't change it. I know, though, that sex with him would be a lot of fun, but would definitely change things and make it "weird". He's never pushed me, and I won't try to seduce him. But he's one of those people that you know you could comfortably spend your life with. Maybe things will change in the future with him - maybe someday I'll drop some hints about being physically intimate -- BUT -- being soulmates like we are now is wonderful - I think I have a more intimate relationship with him than I do with any of my BF's and FWBs. Cocks are a dime a dozen, but finding a real friend is priceless

Yes, I would! I've seen some You-tube vids where the painting is unbelievable! My figure is tiny and tight - I'm sure a good artist can paint "clothes" on me that would totally camouflage toplessness in many cases. I've seen some great paint jobs on models, never had it done to me. I'd love to try.

Its always fun. Whether accidental or planned - its fun for me.

They're called "hummers" for a reason. I love humming.