I'm neutral about it. While being nicely trimmed is attractive, I find that guys overly obsessing with their appearance is is just offputting to me - in my opinion that slavishness to being neat and trimmed is almost feminine and I don't like effeminate guys.

On the other hand, there are men and women in the military who have codes of neatness and grooming. Granted, these don't include trimming pubic hair, but if the drive for grooming has roots in mikitary custom, I have no problem with it.

All that being said, I love a nice cock and male body, hairy or not.

I guess it depends on what you mean by playing. There are so many other things you can do with them in addition to fucking. I love fucking, so please take that as the first part of my answer. There are lots of times, however, when there might be a fun guy and cock around but there is no way to do anything but play. And aren't they just the most incredible things to play with?

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Some men are “growers” rather than “showers” so if women rely on what’s “showing” they are missing out on quite a few well-endowed “growers” 😉😘

Agreed! There are far more growers than showers. And, from my limited experience, the
"showers", while somewhat impressive, don't really get all that bigger. It really just means that their normally spongy and elastic penile tissue doesn't work like its supposed to. I'd much rather have a "grower" and have the fun of making it grow!

I lived with a guy just after college. We were FWBs, no real romantic ties. Just enjoyed sex. I love oral sex, and loved the taste of his cum. I would often give him a bj in the morning before we left for work, but have him cum in my lunch yogurt. I'd enjoy a secret sexy snack at work. It was great fun!

A few guys I know who I would love to roll around in the hay with - but we're friends, and I like their friendship, and having sex would change the friendship, maybe in a not-so-nice way. Over my short life, I've accumulated a few unrequited loves. I fuck them in my dreams, and enjoy their close and wonderful friendship in real life. Maybe someday when we're all old and wrinkled and in nursing homes together, but not now - life is too much fun to fuck up a good friendship. Finding a nice dick to fuck is easy - finding a true and loyal friend is not.

I can't think of full length porn movie lately that I've sat an watched all the way through. I'm usually doing "something" with a friend way before the movie ends. Sometimes trying to do what the porn stars are doing....

Its probably very wise to stick to this rule if you're in public life. My doctor won't be in an exam room with me without a nurse. Not that I would ever cause trouble, but I do know some very vindictive girls who wouldn't think twice about making up a story to harm a guy's reputation.

yuck.

Flirting is an artform, and lots of fun as long as you can keep things under control. Teasing can be mean and dangerous. I love to flirt. Teasing is left to situations where I want it to go further.

Liberal asshole and liar. No way.

When I was in middle school, a girlfriend and I used to hide and watch my older sister in high school with her various boyfriends on the beach. We watched making out, handjobs , blowjobs and fucking. Learned a lot. Told her about the spying when I was in college - she laughed, but said she would have "killed us" at the time.

Have done it only a few times, and a double or triple warm soapy enema is a must. I'm very tight down there, so only a few guys I know with "pencil dicks" are allowed in. If I know I'm going to hanging around with one of them, then I prep just in case. But not a big fan of anal in any case.

Don't want sissy guys. You can have them.

There was a time in college when I had to use a diaphragm - didn't want to, but had to for a few months. I didn't like it - it took away all the spontaneity I loved about college sex. Anyway, one guy I really liked had a great cock and I had loved fucking him for about two years, off and on. All of a sudden, after a few weekends together, he just didn't seem interested in getting into my vagina, but never turned down a handjob or blowjob. I asked - he said "It hurt". So, after convincing him to get inside me, I could tell he was less than enthusiastic in his normal wonderful pounding. Afterwards I checked, and he was bruised! The tip of his cock was actually bruised! Damn diaphragm!. His cock was (still is) about 7 inches, but we managed to keep his thrusts to about 5, at least until I could dump the diaphragm. Normally, 8 inches is comfortable, I start to feel too much pounding at around 9. Had one bf with a 9 - he had to hold back.

Have no idea what one is.

Mine can be prominent, so if you can see it, its not really showing off. I have one - so does every other girl. Mine just doesn't leave any doubt as to what you're seeing. I don't mind.

It is definitely true that most first impressions are made, at least in the social scene, visually. I see a guy at a bar, or he walks into a room, or even dancing with a girl, and I usually form an opinion of him, whether accurate or not. But what I do is usually based on the first impression. So if a guy gives a favorable first impression, I'll do something to get close to him, and hopefully draw him into some sort of conversation. Here's where it gets tricky, and I think its true for a lot of girls. I don't mind if he's a quiet guy - sometimes that's really nice. But if getting him to open up even just a little is like pulling teeth, red flags might go up. I don't want a conversation to be all about him - I want him to ttry and engage me, too. That's what guys do when they try to pick me up, and that's fun.

I agree with the girls above who prefer a guy on the quiet side - quiet and shy and unassuming is nice. Braggy and chatty and arrogant is a shut off.

I guess people will love what they like. I love giving blowjobs to friends, and love being eaten out. I've eaten a few pussies as well, and that is a different kind of fun - but really nice. I consider my mouth to be a sexual part of me, and anytime I can bring pleasure to a friend with my mouth, I love it.

My boobs are pretty small and don't provide full coverage like a pair of nice C cups. That being said, I love it when a friend wants to play. I don't know why he wouldn't rather be in my mouth or pussy, but sometimes a friend just wants boob! He can have everything he can get from me. Titty fucking me usually involves a lot of time in my mouth, though.

I am Irish, so naturally light skinned. I must have a bit of Spanish blood, though - I do get nicely tanned without burning too much. I share skin-type with my mother. When I was in high school, I went to the beach with my parents after a few weeks of gorgeous tanning weather. The beach we were on was in the Dominican Republic, and was clothing optional. My mom is not a prude at all, but my Dad is and asked that we all stay dressed. A few well-shaped young women walked by, exercising the no-clothes option. They were all topless and bouncing merrily as they walked down the beach. Two were gorgeous - tanned all over. The third was Irish or some northern European descendant - my Dad said "Wow - look at those high beams!"

I wasn't sure what he meant but I had a good idea. Mom dropped her bikini top for a second, and pointed out her bright white, milky smooth Irish breast surrounded by smooth tanned flesh. My Dad laughed and said he had to wear sunglasses around Mom when they were younger and she went topless after tanning - I suppose I have mini high beams with my small boobs. Anyway, thats how I learned about tan lines in person. I am a strong supporter of all-over tans and no "high beams". LOL.

I only recently found out that mmf and mfm are literally and really two different tyrpe of threesomes. I do not like if one of my guys in a threesome is bi and pays attention tothe other guy. I want all the attention, and will never invite a guy back into my fun if he goes for mmf. I have everything they both need and am more than happy to accomodate both at the same time - I'm counting on it. Please, no bi guys doing guys.

A few of my older guys (men 60+ years old) take either viagra or cialis. It does actually work wonders once in a while, but I think a lot of guys take them because of performance anxiety. Too many guys watch too much porn with guys having huge cocks that get super hard and stay hard for a long time. Thats what teenage guys are like, and I've found the hardness dropping off as the guys get older (usually). The worst thing is when a guy is afraid he won;t get hard and will disappoint me, which is just the beginning a trip into the rabbit hole of doubt and failure. I don't mind if they take the pill - but sometimes a nice long gentle screw with a semi-hard cock is nice. I've also surprised a few guys (old or young) by getting them to cum in my mouth when they aren't hard. A physiologist friend told me that erection is not necessary for orgasm in a guy - just a lot of playing and friction and attention.

I LOVE giving blowjobs, but not a big fan of throatfucks and choking. I like to be in control of the action when I'm sucking.

Yes, especially when I was much younger. I loved watching a cock shoot cum. As I got older, guys I hung with realized that I wanted to do the "work". But even now, sometimes I'm tired after a long day in the lab. My bf and I will go to bed, stay on our sides and individually masturbate. Like I said, I love watching - guys make it seem so easy when they stroke their own cocks. After my bf cums on his own belly, I usually clean him up with my tongue, or just lean over when he's cumming and take him into my mouth. . If he or I are apart on a trip, we set up a zoom call. I do myself while I watch him squirt on the video call. Awesome, but not as nice as in person.

I love hanging out with older men, and sleeping with a few of them once in a while. What attracts me to them is simply that they are interesting! If I'm alone in a club or someplace, I'm very likely to allow an older guy to sit next to me and chat. I realize that, of course, he's probably trying to get into my shorts just like younger guys, but older guys pursue their target with much more class! lol. Actually, once you get them talking, they are more likely to talk about interesting things than just about themselves, like younger guys. The ones I've taken to bed have mostly been amazing lovers. The first time I went with an older gentleman, he had these gorgeous eyes that I just figuratively fell into. And when we undressed, he had the nicest cock. It was not big, but just nice. As I played with it, I talked to him about it - I asked where it had been, how many pussies it had explored, how many mouths it had filled with cum. He enjoyed the "dirty talk" and gave me a rundown on his history. I gave him mine, as I told him I wanted him to "explore" me. He was a great "explorer" - gentle, considerate, very knowledgeable ( some of my 20 and 30 something friends should take lessons), and very aware of where I was in my sex space: what kind of touch I responded to, how close I was to my own orgasms, etc. I think it had been a while since he'd had sex, and a very long time since he'd had a blowjob. This was a few years ago, and we hung out quite a few times. He moved away - I think to move in with family. I considered flying out to visit him, but don't want to screw things up withhis daughter (I think he went to live her and her husband and kids).

So - in short - I'm attracted to older guys if I think they look interesting, and then are actually interesting when I chat with them. Nothing to do with their cocks, or their physique or their hair. There's just a certain way a guy will present himself - body language I guess - that makes me want to get to know him further. The real interesting part - at least one time - was convincing a guy that I was serious when I said yes to having dinner with him and not just playing him for a fool. I have a small stature - not tall, smallish breasts , but nice hips and figure overall - and I think my "innocent" appearance can be misleading.

I do if the need arises when I'm in there, but I make sure to wipe the walls and floor with a soapy sponge and lots of running water Even if it all theoretically goes down the drain, it rarely does, and can really get sniffy if its left for a while before washing. But yes - and it actually feels nice to just let go in the warm water. Like peeing in the ocean.

This afternoon at lunchtime. I have a few college friends and roommates coming to my place for St. Patrick's Day weekend - having a college reunion party. Three of our guests arrived on the train this morning, came to my place,and lo and behold, they were old fwb's and horny. So .... I let them feed me some of their Irish Creme for lunch and relieved their horniness, at least for the time being! Its going to be a wonderful weekend!

Its a nice goal and good for your overall health, just like seeing and touching breasts everyday is good for guys health and blood pressure, etc.

When I was in college, I tried to do this, but so often classwork and homework just got in the way. SOlved it by finding a study partner who wanted a study partner as well as a FWB. We'd study for an hour or so - homework, reading, etc - then take a break. I'd blow him and he'd eat me. This worked for about 3 days a week. The other days I supplemented with whoever was my boyfriend.

During college summers, I was a lifeguard on Cape Cod. The girl I lived with and I decided to do the one-a-day bj thing, and we had absolutely no trouble meeting the goal, between our male coworkers and guys we met.

Now, I'm still striving for that goal but I also have a real job, and sometimes the quest for paycheck and consulting $$ supersedes the quest for a cum snack. But on average I still get to suck my bf or other friend 3 or 4 times a week. If I ever get married and always have my husband at night or in the morning, he'll enjoy 1 a day if he wants it!

I fit best in B cup things. I used to think they were way too small, but have noticed that they're still pert and perky and firm, while other girls my age are starting to signs of sag and flop. I think I'll keep what I have and enjoy them to their fullest.

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is there a trick you use to avoid to taste it too much?

such as keeping the cum under the tongue would provide less taste, is that true or a myth?

I've heard about keeping it under the tongue, and my old roommate from college did that from what she's told me - loved the bj, but not the taste. I could never understand that though - if you're going to spit, then you're going to definitely taste it, probably more than swallowing.

Personally, I enjoy the taste and aroma, and love the intimacy of swallowing.