straight.

I went to one with friends from work one afternoon. I wasn't impressed - the girls were skinny and looking abused, and were really just moving around, shaking their stuff in a sad, sorry way. I felt sorry for them, because it looked like this was all they were able to do.
One of my friends said we should come back later that night - after dinner - when the "headliners" were there. What a difference - the girls were gorgeous, personable and I couldn't take my eyes off of some of them! We all (3 guys, 3 girls in the group) got lap dances, and Oh My God - wow. I had four of the most beautiful breasts I had ever seen gyrating around in front of my face during my lap dances. These "headliners" turned the whole experience into something fun and memorable. And I was amazed at how easily a few of them could pick up dollar bills from the stage without using their hands! lol.
I know that guys love to cum as often as they can, and we girls who are lucky enough to have great friends should realize this. If I had a guy friend - even if he wasn't a "boyfriend" - with two broken arms, I could only imagine how he wanted so badly to do something he couldn't possibly do. If there were no girlfriend involved, I would definitely get around to offering at least a handjob. I would hope the poor guy was getting some release from his girlfriend if he had one.
Gave my first one to a boy who lived down the street when I was quite a bit younger. I loved it. We had both been to a couple of parties at an older girls house, where she staged some sexy games when she knew her parents weren't home. One of them was to pair up with a guy and see how far he could shoot his cum while we stroked him. I had seen a cock, but never saw one cum. "Partners" were chosen by spinning a bottle. I "won" my childhood friend from a few doors over. It was a little awkward, and he did most of the stroking, and ejaculated nicely. The hostess put tape on the floor to determine a winner. I know we didn't win, but I had a lot of fun. A few days after the party, I walked home from school with him, and we decided to "do it again". That was like fifteen years ago, and we've been "good friends" since. His cock has grown, he shot a bit more cum in his teens and early twenties than he does now, but he still puts it out there. We don't live too close anymore, and I only see him a few times a year - but every year he gets at least one handjob from me (and some blowjobs, too - we're both fond of me giving him blowjobs).
I've had a few guys with condoms. It all feels fine to me, but every single one of them has said "bare back" is just sooooooo much better. I don't normally use them for sex, and have never used them for handjobs or blowjobs. (A college friend insisted that anytime she could come in contact with cum, the guy had to wear a comdom. I knew one of the guys who said her handjobs were great, but she didn't have too many boyfriends until she got over the fear of touching cum.).
In my early days of sucking, the first few times ended in a mess to cleanup, but then I swallowed one, and realized that as long as I was careful, there was nothing to clean up. I started really enjoying it, and started to really like the flavor and texture of most of "my guys". I love the fact thats its a very private and personal thing when I accept cum into my mouth and swallowing it is that last bit of intimacy. When sitting in the school cafeteria or in class or even around town, and seeing someone I've sucked and swallowed, I get a personal thrill and a warm feeling. There's something a lot of fun about being in a group of friends with one or more guys I've blown.
So many guys do it and think they know all about "down there". They have no idea that they can send their girl into orbit with just very gentle licking and sucking on the labia and the clit. Guys - be gentle and creative and involved - how far you can stick your tongue in my vagina, while nice, is not what it takes for me to remember you as a maestro of my pussy. Maybe watch me masturbate once in a while, or watch a girl eat out another girl - its an art form of skill and finesse and subtle movement.
Absolutely yes. Big enjoyment. Sometimes I'll reach down and scoop some of his cum out or catch it in my had, and then swallow it, and invite him to help clean me out. Some guys love it, others want no part of it. In the FMF 3-somes I've had, its like bees to honey for the girls. The combined flavors are exquisite, and the sensation (giving or receiving) is delightful.
I don't really care about the size, and it certainly isn't something that the guy can help. I have known large and small cocks, and have enjoyed them all. A friend from college enjoyed saying "Its not the meat, its the motion". Turns out, when our friendship got a little closer, that he had a smaller cock - probably 4 inches erect - but it was thick, and he knew how to use it really well! I should say he "knows" how to use it - I still bump into him now and then and we "reminisce" our college days. Something else - cocks like his are a pleasure to suck! I'm not a large girl, and I don't like choking and gagging. But with him and guys like him, I can get him completely in my mouth and we can both enjoy a wonderful oral session.
I consider myself a feminist because I will not allow myself to be bullied or pigeon-holed into any subservient role. I believe it is the only real objective of feminism - the elimination of subjugation based on your sex.
With that being said, I think so many so-called "feminists" are completely ruining the movement by insisting on subjugating males, talking about "toxic masculinity" and feminizing our male population.
As true feminists, we should be celebrating the existence of men as equals, celebrating that there are some functions that only men can perform, some that only women can perform, celebrating true masculinity, celebrating the true nature of femininity, and not trying to replace men with hollowed-out wimpy versions.
We should NOT be allowing biological males to compete in women's sports. We should not be encouraging the myth that men and women are biologically interchangeable. Regardless of the popular but false mythos of the times, men cannot become women and cannot get pregnant, and women cannot "transition" to become men.
Sometimes, and thats a problem for me. They expect me to suck and swallow, but then go ballistic at even the hint of their own cum touching their lips? For those guys, its usually a one-and-done deal. No return performances.
Some guys go the opposite extreme and want me to shoot some of their cum back to them -- this is awesome and fun. And those guys always get a "big star" in my diary and will always get an encore.
I've done the range: on some, nothing happens, because I'm deciding about possible future dates. On some, its fun and easy to kiss, make out and allow some groping. On others, especially if the first date is with a guy I've known for a long time, a handjob or blowjob is not out of the question, and depending on the "context" of the date, maybe going all the way will happen too.
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I was giving my current bf a handjob on our second date, which, other than some really great kissing, was our first "sex act". He was taking forever. Applied lube twice, then again, and again - he just kept on being hard and erect, and I just kept on stroking. I sucked him for a while, then back to stroking. After what I would say was at least 20 minutes, I asked him if anything was wrong - I was wondering if he was going to cum at all. He laughed and said that he was really enjoying the sensations, and that he was just holding himself back. I gave him a little love tap on his balls and said I was getting ready to give up.... he said he'd cum right away if I wanted. He leaned back and came about 20 seconds later. I was amazed then, and remain amazed - he can control himself very very well, but I suspect that his cock is not as sensitive as it should be. I have wondered if this might be a problem for him in the future, and suggested that he see a doctor someday. But, in the meantime, he's the only guy who's able to be stroked, sucked and fuck me for as long as I want ....
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Displaying a total lack of empathy to jump at the chance to spin a tragedy into a political diatribe. And with all the inherent knowledge that a bostonian would have for the intricacies of California. Regurgitating made-up fox news soundbites only demonstrates that you know nothing and bring nothing. Shove your alt-right agenda.
Shove your leftism. There is nothing "alt-right" about my agenda - it is an inteligent, conservative agenda. Period. End of story. The victims of the disaster don't want "empathy" and "hand wringing" - they want and demand answers. I have some very liberal friends in the affected areas, and they're out for blood. They have been assured for years and years that they are safe, their property is safe and secure, that the firefighting plans and apparatus to contain fires were in place and adequate. Clearly, they were "misinformed". If you are looking at the disaster in California and NOT seeing that it is as much a disaster of political and environmental mismanagement as it is a financial disaster for those whose lives have been upended, I feel sorry for you. Years - decades - of political posturing and "kissing radical environmentalist ass" put them in a position of being unable to deal with a completely predictable natural phenomenon. Forest fires, floods, windstorms, etc have been a way of life for everyone since the beginning of time. We prepare for what we know is coming. To do anything else is criminal mismanagement, especially in an area so financially capable of being completely prepared.
Empty reservoirs? Rain and snow melt being sent to sea and not collected? Cultural and controlled burns of accumulating dead vegetation in areas prone to fire being banned? Hydrants with no water pressure? Fire department budgets cut to the bone? Equipment sitting unprepared and unmaintained? Dams being destroyed and dismantled? Blaming "climate change" and the "climate crisis"? Really?????? Is that the "responsible" liberal approach to addressing a problem that has always existed??
And calling me a "Bostonian" as if that, combined with your infantile "alt-right" attempt at insult is somehow going to make me back down - sorry.
I'm an outdoorsy person, and I hunt, fish, camp and hike all the time. I am quite aware of proper conservation techniques - we have significant forests here, and guess what? Our forest services actually do controlled burns every year. We practice proper forest management. Apparently, "California" should take some lessons. Oh - and as a chemist, I'm fully aware of the risks of stacked and accumulated dry fuel, high winds and low humidity and what they mean in an area where fires can spread with astounding speed. Are you? Or is your focus on empathy and "feeling good" and not being controversial?
At this point, empathy is a given, but accountability is on the front burner. My friends in LA - liberals that they are - have indicated their desire for serious consequences. One has told me that she wishes to see life imprisonment with no chance of parole for some of the "officials".
Are you one of those officials?
I hate to choose. Dick picks are fun, especially if I get them from friends.
Women's bodies are gorgeous - every now and then I could sit and watch women walk by for hours. All those curves and parts on some women all move in such fantastic ways when they walk. You don't have to be bi or lesbian to enjoy the show.
I'm in grad school for chemistry. Almost finished with most of the work.
Not much time for real dating but do have a nice social life.
I enjoy outdoor sports - I don't really like sports on tv. I like shooting sports, sailing, camping ( winter camping is fun with the right people), hunting, swimming ( SCUBA!!)
Currently here in Boston it is about 15 °F ( - 9 °C) and cloudy. Probably warming tomorrow with snow early in the coming week.
Been to Ireland a few times.