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Evie
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Female, 47
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I've found that a good bit of teasing to build up arousal before the gym helps me tremendously with stamina. If I'm distracted by my horniness, I tend to go longer on the treadmill. Just lately, I've not been allowed to come for... nearly two weeks. Sir said no. But the teasing is allowed. I've gotten used to the nearly constant arousal. It's a truly magnificent motivator.
I am usually just more "me". I laugh more, I flirt more, I want to be more mischievous. Lower inhibitions means more of me gets through.
Can we get a logout link somewhere other than the cog pull down menu and the forum? Maybe somewhere a bit more conspicuous and universally usable? As a thread in the help desk points out, the cog pull down menu doesn't work terribly well with Android tablets, and for some of us, logging out is a Big Deal.

Thanks!
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I also have an Android tablet. The only way I can log out on mine is to click on Forum in the red bar. To the far right is the 'log out' option. Click there.

Quite frankly I am very disappointed in my Android tablet. Actually it sucks!


You're a genius!!! :-)
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Can anyone tell me how to log off of Lush on an Android tablet?

Everytime I drop the menu down I can't press on the logout link.



Yes, it's kind of difficult. It's the biggest reason I don't Lush on our communal tablet.

In the past, it's taken me quite a bit of time to get this done. Try 'swiping' from the cog icon down. What you're trying to achieve is to keep the menu showing. It works sometimes.

Good luck.
For me, it depends on the story. I like writing third person POV in past tense. I like writing first and second person POV in present tense. I don't at all enjoy reading or writing third person POV in present tense.
Of course. :-) It's so fun to watch that piece of man candy walk by and go, "Hmm. I bet he's killer in the sack."

That's after dutifully undressing him with my eyes. Surreptitiously, of course.
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Glad to hear that. I assume you have told him your desires. I think I do the same thing we all do. Desire something but assume your partner would have already done it if they wanted to. Then, during an argument or discussion say, " you've never done that for me!" Their response is predictably, "you never told me!"


Yes, I've most definitely been there, in a younger incarnation of myself. So yes, I've mentioned it before. As I said, he is simply not very orally inclined in general. I accept it, even if it's hard for me to understand sometimes, since I draw so much pleasure from using my mouth in various ways.

It is what it is.
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Every person is unique. Each has something to offer. People in general have this critical need to mold someone into the image of their desires. We are always changing, physically, mentally, and socially. I believe relationships fail when partners don't learn to accept and participate with changes of their significant other. That creates a feeling of being suppressed and resentment blossoms.

So to answer your question. No. I need to love them for who they are, not for what I wish they were.


All very true. Even so, we all fantasise about things we want. I love my husband very much, but I wish he enjoyed going down on me more. I've tasted myself. I'm not super yummy delicious, but I consider myself edible. He just doesn't enjoy doing much with his mouth. I don't even get all that many tongue kisses. As I said, I love him dearly, and he loves me, but I really wish he enjoyed oral more. I have an ex from long ago who enjoyed it immensely.

I'm not leaving my husband over that, though. ;-)
A fantastic idea, indeed. Maybe instead of a motel it could be a big old house somewhere in the middle of nowhere. The idea has merit. :-)
Many times. It's always a sort of relief to fall out of love when you can't have what you want. Then there's the memory of what could never be, a dull ache in the chest where before it was a tempest. And you move on, an extra mark on your weathered heart.
These days, I go with necessary. There's no way I get through the day without at least one small cat nap.

For the record, day napping is not my favorite thing in the world. Grrr.
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Another problem is that when you're zoomed in the overflow (the cog, the magnifying glass and the stupid kennel) end up layered over the screen. Being white on white they're pretty much invisible but it means if you tap the screen while writing a forum post or message you might be taken to the home page.

UX isn't easy and the huge explosion in the use of various mobile devices presents more challenges. It would be great if Lush had an adaptive, fluid design that worked the same across all devices but I can imagine that could be a way off given the time involved.

I think for this time, just switch it back to how it was.


The white icon overlap thing happens to me if I reload a page while zoomed.

The issues seem to be occurring over multiple platforms, according to the various posts above. I'm sure it will be addressed by our capable Gav.
That story series is by a user names Goodhusband. He appears to have disappeared. :-( Makes me sad. He is a fantastic author, in my opinion.
So, I've been using my phone almost exclusively to browse Lush for a couple of months now (life prevents a laptopmost of the time) and this morning the red menu bar up top is behaving differently. In the past, when I zoomed in to a part of a page, the bar would also zoom, and when I panned around, it would pan around, too, letting me get to all parts of it. This morning, when I zoom in, the bar zooms and anchors to the left side, so that no matter how hard I try to pan right, I can't get to any of the right side icons (the important bits like timeline, profile and mail).

My question is, what changed? Is this permanent? It's going to make browsing on my phone uncomfortable and clumsy.

:-(
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It's definitely doable. I tend to favour facing the wall, rather than leaning with my back against it. I support myself better that way, and can avoid knee-buckling to the point of losing balance.

What I'd do is push my forearm (palm to elbow) against the tile, most times tucking my head into the bend at my elbow. Legs'd be apart, but with one foot in front of the other. The leg in front'd be bent at the knee, whereas the leg behind'd be straight and taut. The free hand, well... :P

Can you picture it? Or was that too complicated a description? Lol anyhow, that's how I do it occasionally and it feels amazing to have hot water splashing onto your back. x


This, almost exactly. Then, there's the vibrator and shower wand sessions in the shower, too. I've gotten really good at not falling down when I come.
Y'all make sure you're both women before you go meeting up with anyone. Psychos abound. Use common sense and be safe.

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I also know that it is not any fast and hard thumb rule to use the above as exact. Writers may adopt for their choice of style, but if anybody could please tell me whether the latter two styles are accepted on Lush stories. I would really appreciate it.


Our dialogue resource, provided by Dirty_D, is our rule for dialogue. As to your question, in bold above, the answer is no, we don't allow them. We try to maintain a standard dialogue style, and as such have put together a concise guide with the acceptable form. Please use this guide in your future writing when submitting to Lush.

Thank you.

--RavenStar (story moderator)
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Am I the only one who can read Base64 encoded strings? All right you, I'll convert back UTF-8.


So. Fucking. Sexy.

Seriously.
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Now that's friggin funny! Raven, would you please come to my office and be in charge of meeting minutes? This is funny shit!


SURE! Sounds fun. I enjoy taking meeting minutes. Especially the doodles. :-)

Oh. Those *are* my legs. :-D
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I mean sub drop as your Master drops you unexpectedly.....

It's the emotions you have left after that.

Like if you were very close and then suddenly dropped without much explanation.



That is not sub drop, though it can cause sub drop. That is called a broken relationship. It is much like the break up of regular relationships. Why does it happen? For any of the same reasons so called normal relationships fall apart. Incompatibility. Dissatisfaction. Irreparable differences.

Remember there are two sides to every relationship. Yours and his. I have no input as far as what went on in your relationship, but clearly something wasn't working. That he dropped you suddenly speaks to a level of immaturity on his part. An explanation of why he left would have been at the very least good closure for you.

My advice is to allow yourself to let this man go. Also, in future be more cautious who you elect to play with. Assholes abound, Margot. Be more selective. Get to know a potential Dominant before you dive into play. The resulting association, if you decide to proceed with one, will be much more fulfilling, and will have a better chance of standing the test of time.

Good luck.
Those of us who don't squirt (hi) find the entire thing rather fascinating and a bit unbelievable. Getting really really wet for me is a result of extreme arousal. On a regular basis, I don't get dripping wet. Vibrators get me that wet, and even then it's not anywhere near the descriptions of wetness in some stories, or the pictures and videos in visual porn. Other things get me that wet, but I'm not talking about those right now.

The prevalence of squirting orgasms in erotic stories and porn have served to create a sort of inadequacy in my own bodily reactions. If you pay attention to all of these fantasies, you would think that squirting is in fact the norm, and the preferred thing by most sexual beings, men and women alike. While wetness is certainly more pleasant than a dry vag, a little friction is also very nice.

I like to write very sexy scenes. That means the girls are significantly wet, because they are very aroused. Not all of them are described as dripping. I figure the use in stories is a function of personal experience, what makes the author horny and what is perceived as being sexy and arousing.
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Fuck You.

xx SF


Awww. It's alright, Steph. Maybe someday. (Yeah. Mhm.)

xo
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Does the term 'dildo' bring a specific concept to mind?

Is 'sex toys' much more broad in concept?

Amid a discussion I've had this debate came up - I play with glass toys that were never intended to be used as sex objects . . . and so are they dildos or sex toys. LOL


A dildo is a type of sex toy, while not all sex toys are dildos.

The dictionary says this:

Dildo: n. an object shaped like an erect penis used for sexual stimulation.

Dildos have been around for thousands of years. Archaeologists have uncovered dildos from several ancient civilizations.

The Wiki on Dildos:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dildo

Today, dildos come in all shapes and sizes. There are smooth dildos, penis like realistic dildos (more often referred to as dongs), vibrating dildos, jelly dildos, glass dildos, stone dildos... the list goes on.

I'd say that if what you are using for pleasure wasn't necessarily meant for that use, then it is more likely 'dildo-like' than an actual dildo. That's why things like cucumbers and carrots aren't dildos.

I'm partial to vibrating sex toys as well, though if you get a good rhythm and pressure going with a realistic dildo, it can provide some pretty nice orgasms. I'm more externally stimulated, though. Love my clit. :-)
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who wouldn't love to have these guys? drag teeth across inflamed skin, to nip, bit, and fuck? Yes Please!


Right? Though I'm partial to Eric. Something about that built, Nordic male...