I'd turn right around and smack his dick. Then leer and make kissy noises at him. Call him a slut.
Some men are pigs. They should be shown how it feels.
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Evie
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Blackbird Supernova
I've discovered over the last year (admittedly a very short amount of time to use as reference) that I'm a switch. I've done all of my exploration in this field online, but it's still a pretty real experience.
Yes, it is hard, especially when both your Dominant and your submissive are seeking your attention at the same time.
I was a submissive first. My first Dominant was a very good man. I was very lucky in that respect. He was patient, even though we both wanted to just fall into a frenzy and exhaust ourselves. He held the reigns, though. Taught me about subspace, submission, what it meant to be good, rewards, the enjoyment of pain along with the pleasure, to heighten the pleasure. Then there was the coming down, the aftercare, why it's all so very important. In retrospect, it was a very short association, but it helped me understand something about myself I'd been leaning towards for years.
I learned I love, absolutely adore, pleasing my Dominant. Being a good girl is my only goal when I'm subbing. I love the praise, the delight in Him when I do what he wants. It fills me up with such amazing, unmatched pleasure.
Then, earlier this year, I discovered that there was more to it for me than just being a submissive. It was a surprise to find that I wanted to exert Dominance over another. I have a strong preference for women as submissives, just as I have a strong preference for men as Dominants. My pretty girl is so very eager. I enjoy her thoroughly, adore making her feel good, holding that control while she gives in entirely to her need. It's a lovely thing. I've also learned about the occasional necessity for punishment, when needs must.
My submissive side had taken a bit of a break, until I found someone who wanted to indulge it. While we don't have a formal relationship, he's the closest thing I have right now to a Dominant. I'm grateful for him, because it fills a void that would otherwise gnaw at me relentlessly.
It's not easy to balance the two sides. It takes some serious discipline, and is not without some serious challenges. I've suffered a bit, mostly by my own doing. I've also learned so much about myself. I don't regret the way things are, though. Both sides give me a great measure of satisfaction in different ways.
I sincerely wish you luck in your journey. Remember, just because you are of a submissive nature doesn't mean you are a door mat for every Dom that comes your way. Be selective, be smart about it and ask lots of questions before you decide to begin a relationship. Be aware of your limits, hard and soft. Many of those you won't discover until you experiment a little, but know that you always have the capacity to say 'No'. You don't give that up just because you're submitting to someone. Don't ever play without safe words. Your safety is very important, as is that of the person you eventually choose to be your Dominant. Don't blindly trust.
*hugs* You'll get there. Keep asking the good questions.
Yes, it is hard, especially when both your Dominant and your submissive are seeking your attention at the same time.
I was a submissive first. My first Dominant was a very good man. I was very lucky in that respect. He was patient, even though we both wanted to just fall into a frenzy and exhaust ourselves. He held the reigns, though. Taught me about subspace, submission, what it meant to be good, rewards, the enjoyment of pain along with the pleasure, to heighten the pleasure. Then there was the coming down, the aftercare, why it's all so very important. In retrospect, it was a very short association, but it helped me understand something about myself I'd been leaning towards for years.
I learned I love, absolutely adore, pleasing my Dominant. Being a good girl is my only goal when I'm subbing. I love the praise, the delight in Him when I do what he wants. It fills me up with such amazing, unmatched pleasure.
Then, earlier this year, I discovered that there was more to it for me than just being a submissive. It was a surprise to find that I wanted to exert Dominance over another. I have a strong preference for women as submissives, just as I have a strong preference for men as Dominants. My pretty girl is so very eager. I enjoy her thoroughly, adore making her feel good, holding that control while she gives in entirely to her need. It's a lovely thing. I've also learned about the occasional necessity for punishment, when needs must.
My submissive side had taken a bit of a break, until I found someone who wanted to indulge it. While we don't have a formal relationship, he's the closest thing I have right now to a Dominant. I'm grateful for him, because it fills a void that would otherwise gnaw at me relentlessly.
It's not easy to balance the two sides. It takes some serious discipline, and is not without some serious challenges. I've suffered a bit, mostly by my own doing. I've also learned so much about myself. I don't regret the way things are, though. Both sides give me a great measure of satisfaction in different ways.
I sincerely wish you luck in your journey. Remember, just because you are of a submissive nature doesn't mean you are a door mat for every Dom that comes your way. Be selective, be smart about it and ask lots of questions before you decide to begin a relationship. Be aware of your limits, hard and soft. Many of those you won't discover until you experiment a little, but know that you always have the capacity to say 'No'. You don't give that up just because you're submitting to someone. Don't ever play without safe words. Your safety is very important, as is that of the person you eventually choose to be your Dominant. Don't blindly trust.
*hugs* You'll get there. Keep asking the good questions.
Blackbird Supernova
For those of you who prefer a bit of the darker side, check out this new author:
Rock and Water - Chapter 1 by justahole
Rock and Water - Chapter 1 by justahole
Blackbird Supernova
Be careful, hon. People are bold, even in public. It may just be that the pervs and scaries came out this week. You can probably take care of yourself, but still, it's prudent to be safe.
Change up your running route. This may sound extreme, but I usually carry a small spray can of mace attached to a bracelet when I run outside. In an emergency situation, you don't want to be caught without options.
Just my
Change up your running route. This may sound extreme, but I usually carry a small spray can of mace attached to a bracelet when I run outside. In an emergency situation, you don't want to be caught without options.
Just my
Blackbird Supernova
I've actually been considering a name change myself, mostly because I want something more name-like attached to my stories. Raven_Star works for a screen name, but I'm writing more and more. I'd like something a little more representative of me. Since my first name is taken *grumbles* that leaves nicknames and some variation there of.
I don't blame you for wanting to change your name if you're trying to differentiate your brand. We all want to be recognized at a glance so our readers know us easily. I'd say go with what you think would best represent you and your stories. Something you'll never be ashamed of seeing attached to your work.
Good luck, sweetie.
I don't blame you for wanting to change your name if you're trying to differentiate your brand. We all want to be recognized at a glance so our readers know us easily. I'd say go with what you think would best represent you and your stories. Something you'll never be ashamed of seeing attached to your work.
Good luck, sweetie.
Blackbird Supernova
Theoretically, they're not meant for immediate gratification, or even moderate to slow gratification. They're at best a form of foreplay. They tease the muscles in the vagina to respond to the gentle, vibratory, and very random stimulus of the balls rolling around inside the larger balls. Some women feel it, some don't. Some love it, others are like "meh".
I'd consider them more for exercise purposes than sexual arousal purposes. I wouldn't put anything inside me for an extended period of time that wasn't made of some non-porous material, like medical grade stainless steel or medical grade silicone.
As a soon to be mom, I'm considering using them after birth to work out and restrengthen the muscles of my pelvic floor. If there are sexual side benefits, I'll take them. ;-)
I'd consider them more for exercise purposes than sexual arousal purposes. I wouldn't put anything inside me for an extended period of time that wasn't made of some non-porous material, like medical grade stainless steel or medical grade silicone.
As a soon to be mom, I'm considering using them after birth to work out and restrengthen the muscles of my pelvic floor. If there are sexual side benefits, I'll take them. ;-)
Blackbird Supernova
Quote by dpw
Which is correct, or are they both?
Please take into account the uses in both the the imperfect or continuous past, and the past historic or passive.
I think both are correct, depending on the use.
I'm interested in the views around the world.
If you're talking about someone being placed somewhere by someone else, then you say:
"He was stood by the usher in the appropriate area to await processing."
If no one placed him there and it's happening in the present, then you say:
"He was standing in the appropriate area awaiting processing."
If no one placed him there and it happened in the past, you say:
"He stood in the appropriate area and awaited processing."
You can only "be stood" by someone else. A beer can be stood. A plant can be stood. A person can be stood, by someone else.
I'll grant you, the use of "was stood" in the manner in which you indicate is a regionalism, a.k.a. slang, in the UK. Since we like for our stories here to be as universally appealing as possible, we don't often allow slang regardless of where it comes from. The one caveat is if a speaker in the story is speaking in slang. Say he or she was telling a story and the author wanted to imply a specific locational accent or colloquialism. That's when often the slang is allowed.
"Picture this, lads. I was stood at this tiny, crowded pub, waiting for the barkeep to pull me a pint, when this gorgeous Geordie walks by..."
That's my best shot at British colloquialism. No, it's terrible, I know. You get the picture, though.
Blackbird Supernova
Hey all. I'm very close to having my first child and have been researching ways to exercise my pelvic floor. A Kegel routine is the most easily accessible, but I was wondering if any of the ladies out there have suggestions about using a particular exercising system. There are a few out there ranging from exercise balls to 'smart' eggs and beyond.
I'd love to get some feedback from anyone who has tried one. I request that the community please keep the jokes to a minimum. I'm looking for genuine information and opinions.
Thanks!
I'd love to get some feedback from anyone who has tried one. I request that the community please keep the jokes to a minimum. I'm looking for genuine information and opinions.
Thanks!
Blackbird Supernova
Quote by naughtynurse
I tend to wear a blend of essential oils, but I couldnt really tell you which ones are in them. They are custom made for me by a friend.
My ex used to wear a blend also made for him by her, I know it had sandlewood in it. It was about the sexiest smell I've ever known. Drove me crazy like a cat in heat.
Yes, sandalwood. My husband uses a shave soap that has sandalwood in it. I practically snuffle him to death after he's shaved in the morning.
Blackbird Supernova
I've never thought about doing this, though I am a fan of essential oils.
Here's a website with information on what oils may have aphrodisiac qualities to them:
http://www.ingredientstodiefor.com/item/Natural_Oils_with_known_Aphrodisiac_Properties/1216?category=79#
Personally, I would make a list of these and take a trip to your local essential oil merchant in order to smell these in person before you invest too much money in them, just to make sure they are pleasing to you.
Good luck with it. Let us know if you try it out!
Here's a website with information on what oils may have aphrodisiac qualities to them:
http://www.ingredientstodiefor.com/item/Natural_Oils_with_known_Aphrodisiac_Properties/1216?category=79#
Personally, I would make a list of these and take a trip to your local essential oil merchant in order to smell these in person before you invest too much money in them, just to make sure they are pleasing to you.
Good luck with it. Let us know if you try it out!
Blackbird Supernova
Difficult situation, for all parties involved. My opinion:
Even as his sub, you have a voice. It most definitely is your place to tell him how you feel and what you want out of the relationship. If it doesn't mesh with what he wants, get out. Prolonging the inevitable will only hurt both of you.
If it does mesh with what he wants, then you both need to make some hard decisions concerning your future together. If his fiance does not approve and he wants his current lifestyle with you to continue, he needs to man up. It's not fair to either you or her to string you both along.
One of the things I insist on from my sub is honest communication. Emotions can cloud that sometimes, but honesty and truth are firm.
Ask yourself this:
Are you willing to be the other woman for this man for the rest of your life? To live in the shadow of his marriage? Because under the current situation, that's where you're heading.
Best of luck to you.
Even as his sub, you have a voice. It most definitely is your place to tell him how you feel and what you want out of the relationship. If it doesn't mesh with what he wants, get out. Prolonging the inevitable will only hurt both of you.
If it does mesh with what he wants, then you both need to make some hard decisions concerning your future together. If his fiance does not approve and he wants his current lifestyle with you to continue, he needs to man up. It's not fair to either you or her to string you both along.
One of the things I insist on from my sub is honest communication. Emotions can cloud that sometimes, but honesty and truth are firm.
Ask yourself this:
Are you willing to be the other woman for this man for the rest of your life? To live in the shadow of his marriage? Because under the current situation, that's where you're heading.
Best of luck to you.
Blackbird Supernova
Blackbird Supernova
Quote by todream65
I'm not happy with the removal of my 4 stories, but what must be is what must be...I can understand if there were an advance warning, there will be a great hue and cry, like there is now from fellow story lovers. But I will abide by their decision. I am aware a number of other sites has also stopped accepting such stories and some, like Lush, have also removed/deleted them too. There is one site that is completely closed down in recent weeks, due to political and social motivations.
I do understand this category has a very thin line between legal and illegal activities, and many are taking steps to ensure they will not be caught up in the witch hunt of the illegalities. But in time we will become used to it, as with other social norms and activities of recent years.
Your stories have not been deleted. They are still available under your My Stories link. They are just hidden. Access them by clicking the 'Edit' link. If you wish to rework these to fit in another category, please note they must be submitted as New Submissions.
Hope that helped clear up any confusion regarding the status of your stories.
Blackbird Supernova
Quote by MrSoftee
I don't mind stories being banned at all, but to find out by having a story removed, with a terse note about the new policy, I found rather disrespectful.
I would have thought a friendly memo explaining the change, with time to make edits, would have been the way to go about it.
You can make edits to your stories. They are still there, just hidden. Edit from your My Stories list. Please note, all stories that were previously stories and have been reworked to fit in other categories must be submitted as New Submissions.
Hope that helped clear up any confusion.
Blackbird Supernova
Quote by CliffhangingTom
Evidently, I can't express my opinions either unless it's in the form of stories. I didn't intend for so much hate in this thread which is why I asked (not commanded) this to be deleted.
Tom,
Your opinions are not the problem. You made this into a public matter when you posted into this forum. Your original post called us out as overzealous nazi grammarians (not your words, but the meaning is close enough). We work very hard to keep the stories on this site of a quality that you will rarely find elsewhere. We take pride in that work. We try to help you by suggesting changes that will make your story better. We go out of our way to indulge your tantrums (yes, that's what they are, don't kid yourself) over things that we are trying to help you with.
Your opinion is noted. You don't want to write grammatically correct stories. You think we're too rigid with our coherence checks and tense change requests. You think you should be able to write whatever you want in whatever manner you want and just have us post it without changes.
That's not how it works here. If you want that sort of laissez faire attitude from the moderators at the site you post your stories, we are happy to have you post them somewhere else.
If, however, you would like to continue posting your work here, we will be more than happy to work with you in getting your stories to the standard at which we prefer stories to be at. Most of us are amateur writers and need the help. Most of us welcome it. Please let us work with you.
Regards,
--Raven_Star
Blackbird Supernova
Tom,
I'm a story moderator. I'm not a professional writer. I don't have a degree in English. I volunteer here.
I've taken a look at your story list. You've had one story returned for grammar, punctuation and dialogue and one returned for tense shifts. The rest have passed on the first go. I will tell you that all of your stories that have passed have been edited by the verifying moderator for small things like commas and typos.
We have a quality standard here. We like for our stories to be as grammatically correct as possible. We return stories every day for tense shifts and request that the author repair the mistake. Unless the tense shift works into the plot as a flashback or reference to a past event, the tense shift is wrong.
We urge slow, careful proofreading. We like for the stories that are posted here to reflect the best of what Lush has to offer. Our authors are our ambassadors. It would be exceedingly embarrassing to have an ambassador write in poor English when we're in the business of writing. As such, we do reserve the right to return work that doesn't meet our quality standards, and to suggest ways in which the author may make changes to allow the story to post.
We strive for our authors to improve in their writing skill. It's the only way we can ensure that we'll continue to get quality writing that will represent the site in its best light. When we return your work, we aren't trying to make fun of you or criticize unjustly. We are simply trying to do what will benefit both you and us. A better story for you will increase your readership and get you better scores. It will also add one more great story to our site. When our authors work with us, it's a win win situation.
Please consider all of this when writing, proofreading and submitting a story to our site.
Thank you.
Regards,
--Raven_Star
I'm a story moderator. I'm not a professional writer. I don't have a degree in English. I volunteer here.
I've taken a look at your story list. You've had one story returned for grammar, punctuation and dialogue and one returned for tense shifts. The rest have passed on the first go. I will tell you that all of your stories that have passed have been edited by the verifying moderator for small things like commas and typos.
We have a quality standard here. We like for our stories to be as grammatically correct as possible. We return stories every day for tense shifts and request that the author repair the mistake. Unless the tense shift works into the plot as a flashback or reference to a past event, the tense shift is wrong.
We urge slow, careful proofreading. We like for the stories that are posted here to reflect the best of what Lush has to offer. Our authors are our ambassadors. It would be exceedingly embarrassing to have an ambassador write in poor English when we're in the business of writing. As such, we do reserve the right to return work that doesn't meet our quality standards, and to suggest ways in which the author may make changes to allow the story to post.
We strive for our authors to improve in their writing skill. It's the only way we can ensure that we'll continue to get quality writing that will represent the site in its best light. When we return your work, we aren't trying to make fun of you or criticize unjustly. We are simply trying to do what will benefit both you and us. A better story for you will increase your readership and get you better scores. It will also add one more great story to our site. When our authors work with us, it's a win win situation.
Please consider all of this when writing, proofreading and submitting a story to our site.
Thank you.
Regards,
--Raven_Star
Blackbird Supernova
My mind is my own. What happens within its walls is entirely mine to enjoy. Even writing and sharing fantasies is fine. Problems arise when fantasy and reality cross. Always be damned sure that you really want that to happen before you let it. There are no take backs in the real world.