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GMOFLEISURE
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 72
0 miles · West Lafayette

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Sunday morning at dawn with Cindy. Previous evening she & I had joined five other men & another lady for a evening of debauchery.
Mastrubated yesterday morning. Now saving it for tomorrow evening with my sweetie & possible guests.
Quote by chattycathy1975
... I might let it dribble back over him, and then suck it off again, or at least let him see some dripping down my chin. I've gotten a lot of compliments on this, lol.


You too huh ;)
Unless you have someone specific you are meeting then your first visit should be just to check it out. These places vary & they can also vary by night/event. The club I frequent every few months has BSDM nights, couples mingle & date nights, bisexual nights, them party nights.... Pick the wrong night & it gets awkward, or maybe really interesting...

Also understand there are a lot of others at these clubs who are just checking it out, or who are voyeurs & exibitionists. These couples, or singles are not there to actually have sex with others. Others are shy or slow to warm up. Point being here the building is not filled with a mass of hedonists pawing at each others naked bodies. Relax, smile, chat people up if you like, and enjoy the atmosphere.
Friday. A couple hours late morning at my friends apt, then late evening at a club. We were supposed to meet another couple, were stood up, and failed to find any playmates there. There was a BSDM demo & about everyone in the building was engrossed in that. So my friend & I had a couple hours of hot passionate sex with frequent intense orgasms between just the two of us. Darn...
Slow down, more foreplay, think about how your are pleasuring your partner & not yourself.

Those are stock answers & they have utility. I've been meditating since adolescence & thats helped to increase control. In that context I learned to edge and back off from orgasm, mostly while mastrubating but also for a time with a partner in Tantric sex.

The last is taking self control and systematic sex to another level. It requires time, and some attention. Tho I've only dabbled in it for several decades it has been rewarding. Still have to admit tho there are times I get lost in the moment & orgasm way fast.
Quote by Beffer
I ... and masturbate with both. Does that make me ambisexterous?


Me too!. More variety and interesting.
Mastrubating now. It will be another five days before I visit my FWB again. Perhaps we'll a few others for a small orgy then.
Quote by Verena
... Eating me out with his cum inside me is something I've never experienced.


As a gentleman I would stand ready to assist a Lady is satisfying this need.
More than I can clearly remember. Been doing group sex since shortly after my 21st birthday. Past few years mostly mmf. Bi couples hit on me as a bi male who will have sex with both of them, and single women who like multiple men give me invitations. Currently have FWB who enjoys multiple bi males, & we search out one o two each month for sex.
Technically dress left, but for a variety of reasons its usually irrelevant.
Brienne of Tarth. A tall strong powerful woman. Folks get all excited over fem she males with a penis, which I do too, but the reverse is attractive as well. Someone with masculine traits & a vagina I find equally exciting.
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... I also had an orgasm while giving my first blow job when he shot into my mouth. This still happens to this day and like the first time, ...


Am so jealous. While someone cuming from my giving them head is arousing, I've never orgasmsed from a man or woman squirting their load in my mouth. Even when I was getting head for fucking it did not happen.
Rode around naked in a passenger car or truck once and driven or road wi pants off. Usually one of the others in the car was half or full nakked as well. Worst that happened was missing a exit on I70 west of Dayton Ohio.

Back when party vans were the rage in the 1960s-80s nakked driving was probably a lot more common. Driving around with friends fucking in back was fairly common in those days.
Quote by RikkiSue
One night stands, especially surprise ones, are like cream on the top -- you'd get sick of them if that is all that is on your diet


This

I've had many. Some good, some bad, some fantastic. The best are with people who are interested in making the most of the moment. One of the very best was three years ago. A woman had invited me to join her and another man for a threesome. The other man never showed up. I opened the door naked. She had some skimpy lingere under her coat that left her crotch exposed. We had a fantastic three hours of sex and cuddled for a few hours nap. That was on a business trip & we met a number of other times when I worked in that city again.

I recent years most of the my one nighters have been threesomes with couples. Sometimes those extend into repeats.
A bit before dawn with my friend. Let her use me to three orgasms for her. Loved every moment. Previous evening we used a new bench I had built. She bent over it so I could stand and enter her from behind. My orgasm was long and intense.
Have been reviving my interest in this. Noticed there was a larger interest from the women in it & decided to post some topics in the Relationships section & see what the opinions were.

So, the actual question is; do you have any interest in this practice, knowledge of it, actually studied or practiced it, or otherwise incorporated meditation or Yoga into your sexuality?
Mastrubated this morning, actually a continuation of a extended session from the earlier midnight hour. I'd practiced edging for over a hour, then taken a five your nap. After waking a sexy conversation in a chat room led to orgasm.
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I don't know how often its mixed signals or just me being completely and utterly clueless to the point where really, really obvious signals go right over my head. But I've had times, most notably right now with someone on my floor in college where I can't for the life of me tell if she's flirting with intent to get into bed or just being friendly.


I default to 'She wants to get to know me better'. Which is the trigger to do the conversation thing. At some point you determine if she will meet you again & go from there. If she really does want to fuck it will emerge during the conversation. Of course all this requires some experience, which can only be acquired by, experience. So start talking to them ;)
Never been actually married, but when in 'swinger' mode I've enjoyed sharing my girlfriends. Even when in my monogamous phase that fact that my gas had been previously sexual with others was never a turn off. Knowing details always helped me understand them better.
Theres the tingly sensation, & a feeling of warmth as the blood fills & swells the penis. & the urge to touch, rub, or thrust pops into the guys mind. As the penis moves from filling out and stretching it also is felt and invites movement of the hips to help position it fully erect.
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I am 38 and want a baby because my daughter is marrying here best friend Amy. Been off the pill a few months just hoping to find mister right


Not sure I follow... Please feel free to elaborate. A bit dense here.
Had a fairly long and intense one a few weeks ago. But I have been edging again & dabbling in Tantric sex. Im getting back to a place where the orgasm is a minor part of the overall sexual pleasure. I've had many times in the past three years where the first moments of my lover taking me into their vagina or mouth was so intense, both physically & in our minds that it seems to surpass orgasm in satisfaction. There been a lot of other moments like that where some sort of interlude occurred where I held back ejaculation to extend the physically raw pleasure of enjoying my lover.
Have done it and enjoyed. Briefly had a gf who could rogasm pegging men. We'd take turns fucking each other. Other women have Used toys on me anally. One of the thrills of anal penetration of myself is the understanding of how it feels when I penetrate another man or woman ass. Its the same as getting a BJ, giving them makes for greater appreciation.
Was in a club Sat nite. In one of the public rooms she started with a BJ on me, then she bent over some furniture & had be from behind. Sorted couples wandered in & out, some stopping to watch. As we finished another couple was getting started
Early this morning, circa six am. A wind up to a weekend of debauchery with a FWB & a guest or two.