The party I was at this past weekend had a lady with a strap on. She indulged several men and women with her skills and suitcase full of different sized and shaped attachments. Most of the receivers positioned themselves in a swing, set exactly to her height.
A Teaching Assistant in a college Spanish class. Did not pursue it.
Have a FWB & neither of us needs permission from the other. We do communicate regularly and try to avoid being rude or insensitive to each other.
Been attending swinger parties for many years. Not quite 'public', but the sex is usually in the open in view of any other guest that cares to watch. Early on I was thrilled & hyper aware of being watched. Now I tend to focus on the partner & forget about the crowd.
Just this past weekend. Coitus with my FWB five times, three times wi another lady, & once each with two other women. Also sucked four or five men, none to ejaculation. And, helped give erotic massage to five or six people who were on a massage table. Was a really nice two day bisexual swinger party. One of the high points was a long conversation with a female career Army NCO. I also had a 20 year military service & we compared notes and war stories while sitting naked at a table.
Used to do it regularly, but lost interest in the past 6-7 years.
As a guy who occasionally indulges in this I'd recommend a enema before hand. Keeps things cleaner & pleasant. You might also invest in a appropriate sex toy and 'practice' to see how comfortable you can make yourself with actual penetration and stretching the sphincter muscle/anus.
A important point is it does not need to be painful. Last weekend I witnessed several men 'serviced' anally by a woman with a strap on. None of them were into pain & none felt any. Both they and the lady were experienced enough to avoid any pain.
Saturday morning. A leisurely moment of mastrubation. A friend likes pics & I shared a few wi her.
Been bi since age 21. Despite a several decades break from it there still too many encounters to list. Last party I went two included my lady FWB, another woman, and six males including myself. The other lady availed herself of five of the men, while my friend & I worked several of the men over on the massage table & sucked them together. Most of the other men were bi & 'fluffed' each other for their turn with the other woman. A number of other sex act were enjoyed, but I think the reader has the idea by now.
Early Sunday morning. Final round of a weekend of sex with a lady friend. Intend to take some time tonight to for some meditative tantric mastrubation.
Odd no one replied.
The only way to find out is to try. Am guessing from the narrative you & her are not using any other toys. You might try adding a regular vibrator to the mix. maybe several.
On the hood or truck of a car along a deserted road or parking lot. In a grassy lane through a cornfield. In a state park, on a open porch facing the back lawn, on a golf course, a cow pasture along a small creek. My current fantasy is to page the kayaks up th river and have a quickie along the bank of a island.
Big or small they are all hot. I'd take pleasure in fucking the small bum of the OP here.
Days ago. Saving up the energy for Friday. Lady & I are planning to attend a swinger Meet n Greet.
About to mastrubate. Probably won't meet my lady friend until Friday.
some women do get really excited to watch a man mastrubate. I can never predict which will, and am often surprised when I find out. Its best when they caress and pinch and squeeze a bit to help.
Oral, if I get a orgasm from it. I have had exactly two orgasms from a BJ since 1988. I love getting them, but only two people have got me there with their mouth in thirty years.
Some women I have discussed it with think it sexy hot, some think its degrading hot, some don't like it.
Not yet. Sent one or two to cyber partners.
HYE introduced someone to 'swinging' that is taken them to a sex club, a orgy, couples swap, ect...
Have been away for a week or more without thinking of it. A month would be ok. But, how much does the dare pay?
One sort of. A few years ago gave a 20 y/o his first BJ. He'd given his first a few months earlier.