After a month of self abuse last night I enjoyed the favors of another man, two women, and the transgendered wife of one of the women. Really a delightful evening talking about home improvements, music, interspersed with rounds of debauchery. Blindfolds were a thing for much of it.
Will have the opportunity for choosing from that list Saturday. Probablly will be doing only one cum squirt for the evening.
Encountered a old school bush recently. The novelty was a turn on. Kind of raw & unrefined... She was unshaved all over, tho a finer & silkier hair & not coarse like some many men & women. Again it was a refreshing & novel erotic turn.
Every opportunity. Love it when a woman's legs shake and she chums on my face.
Nancy Pelosi. She could probably use the stress relief. Be fun to lick her sitting in her office chair, or maybe at 2:00 am on the House Chambers floor. & if she needed it a stiff fuck on her desk I be there for her...
Seven may be my oral limit for length. Managed easily a incredibly thick one, but it was only six inches long. The owners gf though it "awesome" I could swallow the entire cock. She could just manage the head.
(Just had to channel my inner girl here)
Oddly the idea is not been a big turn on for me. Possibly because I've not spent any time with any. The CD who always approach me on the net come off as weird, needy, and have a submissive vibe that turns me off.
No, never had one. Had anal play but no orgasms from it.
Had a few poly quasi relationships. Generally a FWB had several other FWB, and we met. Some cases the several men were close, others we seldom saw each other. In most but not all the men were bi. & In every case the lady was bi & had a GF or two as well.
There a lot of discussion around the web on Polyamory. fmm & mff or mmff. Most of it revolves around the pros and cons of inequality among the partners. For some being a tertiary partner is just fine. Others want closer more involved relationships. Bisexuality in the relationship is a significant factor.
Damm. Tried to put a cute on topic pic here, & failed.
I agree, young fit guys are soo cute. Had a 20 t/o college student a few years ago...
Intermittently dabbled in meditative sex. Once with a partner for a couple months. I'd already learned to use meditation to focus and find clarity in thinking, or to improve discipline in task quality ect... so it was not a large step to se what it could do for me sexually. Surprise! Was more focused, got to know my body a bit better, had better sex, and was more confident an at ease. A female partner & I did try some entry level tantric sex for a few months. There seems to be possibilities with that, but she got a job far away & I never continued.
Bottom line is improving your ability to focus or concentrate, knowing your body better, and a relaxed slow systematic approach to sex at least part of the time, improves your sexuality. Nothing earth shaking here unless the person has some sort of problem and leaving it behind is a large step.
I tell them I'm a Quaker. They depart at a near run.
A couple months ago I went to a party where a lady intended to enjoy as many men as would accommodate her. Six were there, and another woman. The lady at the center enjoyed one way or another all six men. What struck me was it was not what you'd think of as a gang bang. The woman used the men, she was engaged & in control, there was a dialogue between them, suggestions, feed back, advice, appreciation, cheers and congrats when orgasms occurred. Perhaps it was that most of the men were bi and not focused completely on her for their satisfaction. We also started with a massage table, which always seems to add a more relaxed vibe to party.
Male orgasm is such a final thing. Usually one and done. Then a hour or often more before another hardon. Experienced men learn to delay and savor the sex before release. Some guys... well never mind.
But, when very much younger I had a faster refractory period. Two erections and cums in he hour were possible when my partner & I put out minds to it. Under rare circumstance three in a hour or two were possible. But other than horny youths with acne how often is the multiple cum man encountered by the ladies? Have ever had a male able to go to full orgasm the become erect for a second or third time within the hour or minutes? Was he consistent with this, or a one time thing? & was the extra ability a enhancement to the sex?
I do, been practicing since adolecense. I use it to focus and reduce stress. Also I have internalized it to the point where I often automatically or subconsciously slip into a shallow or deeper level of meditation when needed & without thinking about it.
Past six months I have been in the gym a couple times a week to strengthen my legs (had surgery a couple years ago). The past couple months I started working better breath control, focus, ect... into the workout.
Have also been looking for a partner for exploring Tantric sex or incorporating sex and meditative session. No takers yet, but it has made mastrubation more interesting.
Very seldom think about my xs sexually. Most parted amicably, even if there were problems. A few I am still friends with. We do some business together, belong to some of the same organizations, and socialize a little bit. A couple were angry & bitter.
Mastrubated yesterday morning. Going through another dirty old man phase.
Some times its sexier to fuck dressed. Last winter in a sex club my friend & I opened our clothes just enough she could bend over a bench & take me from behind. Not a bit of butt or thigh skin showing to the others in he room.
If she has large breasts dangling them in my face works. If she has a fine ass then reverse cowgirl works. If she has a full labia and is very wet then leaving my cock out and sliding back and forth on it works, especially if I can feel her clit rubbing along it. If I am blind folded then rubbing as much as she can against me works.
But the best is when I look up and her face is showing the depths and breadth of her pleasure in orgasm as she uses me the way she likes at the moment.