My guess is its too painful for him. He's trying to get past it. I can't tell you if he is successful at that or not. I've had a few in the past were any contact or reminders was just to much pain.
Start out slow and sensual. build up to a steady head bobbing mouth fuck. When the semen flows take it deep or just the head and work that with the tongue and lips as the orgasm runs its course.
Probably nothing I'd not do ;)
Not the common CD situation, but last winter I met a married couple of 28 years, with grown children. The male had in the last ten years undergone a complete transgendering. The pair was still together, & looking hot at parties. Had a conversation with them about the change, while I did not pick up many details it was clear the two had a strong relationship.
Yes. At age 64 I can say you are experiencing normal life. Some times it just sucks. Fortunately i learned earlier rather than later ways to cope and feel good about my day anyway. There no one single coping trick, nothing will work consistently every time, & in fact is best to use more than one coping mechanism at a time.
As for sexual frustration. This is one of the nice things about NSA sex. One can hook up with someone else who needs to get off and lose that source of tension for a day or two or however long.
So, have fun and enjoy your life, it runs out fast enough without one obsessing over the bad days.
A few months ago my GF & I had lots of eye contact with each other while tossing some guys cock between our mouths.
Are you a afficiando of group sex? Whats your preference; threesomes, couples swaps, sell or large parties, clubs, nudist or naturist resorts?
Was introduced t bisexuality at age 21. Had considered myself'normal' until then. After witnessing ff & mm sex at some small parties or orgies, where the men & women clearly enjoyed same sex & were comfortable with it I was easily persuaded to try it.
Difficult to call a swinger party a intimate moment, but... a woman made a remark about military experience. I found that like me she was a lifer. Found us in deep conversation about promotion schedules, secondary MOS, the Veterans Administration, PCS orders, ect.. with a naked stranger I'd just had sex with.
I defined a sexual fetish as a body part, object, act, or anything that leads to intense arousal & usually orgasm. ie: Some couples invite me as a bi male to join them, because the female half of the team become aroused seeing two men engaging in sex acts. At some point they'll seek orgasm though penetration by one or both of us males, or mastrubate while watching us. Thats her fetish. The male half may have a fetish for oral or for anal sex.
Some women have a fetish for dark-skinned men with large penises. The BBC thing. Its a fetish.
Others are thrilled by and prefer to get their orgasm swapping spouses.
While I enjoy threesomes, my serious thrill is larger groups in a extended party/orgy session. Hours to chat between bouts of sex, or sessions on a massage table. Thats my fetish.
Condoms are a bit awkward before and after, but during they are not very noticeable to me. No problems with orgasm wearing a condom.
Lush stories is mostly for fantasies & my take is there are not a lot of truly active people on here.
Find a swinger web site aimed at male male sex, or at least has a large number of bi males on it. I use Swinger Zone Central. A local swinger club that includes bisexual sex is another good venue. Many clubs have web sites where you can contact and chat people up.
Point here is via hook up website you can communicate a bit with possible partners and screen out a few of the flakes & insincere.
Largest difference the other direction was at age 60. The lady was 28 & very experienced. A few weeks ago I enjoyed the favors of a 36 y/o woman, Im 64 now. Again her experience with a large number of partners made the difference near irrelevant.
Been nine years since the original post starting this thread. I hope that couple worked it out long ago.
Had some experience with ladies & strappies, but none with the feeldoe. A couple women I've met had them, but were uninterested in using them.
Sounds like when Ive place my aroused penis against another mans & we stroked them together. Deeply arousing and intimate.
Happened again at a party a few weeks ago. Sex with six different people.
This morning, mastrubation. Saturday night, a couples swap.
Kinda the point to nudism.
A few times. guess that puts me ahead from one perspective, but it never seems like enough.
First really large difference was with a 59 y/o woman, when I was 37. I learned that age meant little in terms of sexual appetite or skill & enthusiasm. Health & attitude is everything. She also had the greater line "I've had three husbands and more boyfriends than I can remember, I know what it takes to make a man holler."
The past few years I've had several partners 68-69-70 years old. They were great.
A pussy or mouth feels best. Other wise If my partner has some preference or fetish I'll try to accommodate it.
At a party early this month I saw a woman sitting away from the massage table mastrubate. The rest of us were preoccupied with a erotic massage on the person on the table, but several watched her. Later someone told me it was her first swinger party.
I mostly use Swinger Zone Central & a clubhouse web site. Neither is perfect, but I've fair successes with both.
Have enjoyed this occasionally, with ways. A couple weekends ago I saw at a party a woman ruling her clit with just the tip of her middle finger. Brought herself to orgasm with just a moderate paced rubbing, concentrated on that small point.
Would interest me to think you could do the same.
Just orgasmed mastrubating. Nice start to the day. Or maybe a nap.