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GabrielSweet
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Well I can't answer the origional question and really have nothing to add, except, I ready the post and then the comments and I just figured, what the hell. I have to check out a forum where very lovely sexy ladies tell me how their pussies feel when they are aroused .... THANK YOU OP.



Bethany and Jessica, I truly thank you for the wonderful visions and explanations of how it feels, I have seen the reactions to what is done to please, but have never been told what happens and how it felt ... Thank you both for being so open

=d>


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In a booth at a club, two other couples in the booth, it was a dare and a bet, she could cum but she had to not show it .... She won. I had a van at the time and we never even got the engine started before she decided to finish the fun.....
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Forward cowgirl definitely! Remember Slim Pickens riding the hydrogen bomb down to its target in Dr. Strangelove? Picture me riding my guys the same way. I even have a cowboy hat! :-)



Let me hear ya say .... YEEEE HAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!
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I believe it is more about the mood ... cowgirl is more intimate, a chance to show loving care and pleasure to each other, it is usually slower, (at first) more exploration, more teasing and grinding.
Then builds to a fever.

Reverse is more down and dirty, humping, just pure lust and need. Caution there may be snorting ..


I agree with Becky, I would rather look at, play with, kiss and squeeze my partner's front, but sometimes you just want raw, dirty, hot sex. That is why we have reverse and doggie .... LoL
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I look at this as I look at rl, I am really the same person I am everyday so, to me it would depend on the conversation. I don't plan or expect every conversation to by sexual. Just like I wouldn't if I was somewhere and started to chat with someone. If the conversation is about sex and not necessarilly playing together then I would have to say how explicit the conversation got. If it is rp or cyber or just really getting into fantasies with someone I have some attraction for then HELL Yes I am hard and slowly stroking.

That said, There have been those friends that could say hello and my mind took over and I would "swell with pride". I do like to think I have a little control over my desires, but .... well hell he sometimes has a mind of his own and decides to introduce himself LOL

Everyday chat - No
talk about sex - maybe
playtime - YES



Quote by Deenuh


i've wondered the same thing <warning...spoiler alert> i think i'm able to be a multitasker, but really, in my wildest imagination i have yet to figure out how to both finger myself and play with my titties...giggle ..and type at the same time.

just saying


I have a good suggestion and it works great for me .... try Dragon NaturallySpeaking Software .... hands free cyber ....... makes it more like phone sex with only one voice ..



georgiagirl ...... I did notice that you didn't tell us about you .... are you "diddling" when you chat? [-o&lt;

Ciao
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I would be so thrilled ... YES YES YES

I agree with Amy, 4 up would be very nice *S*
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Quote by sprite
sitting in a tub full of cash.


Quote by HeraTeleia
Sitting in a bathtub filled to the brim with $100 bills, whilst sipping a good Champagne and reading erotica.

Seriously, there's no "secret" that will do it for every woman, every time, under any circumstance. Sorry to be the one to break it to you, OP.



I suggest that you use old soft bills as those paper cuts can be a bitch at that level ...
and to the OP the only secret is "communication", to learn what the woman likes and give her what makes her happiest. Give her the pleasures she enjoys the most. Everyone is different and everyone has there own "buttons" to push. Then experiment and explore together..
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First off, that is not my decision, I do enjoy a nice swallow and watching as she enjoys my essence. But to see her sloppy and covered is also nice, playing with my cum. it is a mood thing I guess. I let her decide because it is also their pleasure and if I have just cum then I have had my pleasures, where does she want me?

Now in a BDSM context of course I do not wait for her to decide, but again it is a mood thing, what do I want her to experience. So each time is as different as possible.
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well, when I first started having sex, a car was really the only option. Yes there were cars then. In the summer you had the park, but the police liked to patrol those too much. In the backseat or front, on the hood and truck, as well as standing beside ... the car was our apartment. Mine was an MGB so I had an efficency apartment.



Twice I was caught in the car, once by a father in his driveway, in HIS car, and in his daughter **LoL** . But just to show you that the girls are just as pervy as the boys, after he left, she wanted to finish, which of course we did.

The other time was a local boy in blue, that laughed as we scurried to get dressed and just followed us home. Luckily he didn't even tell out parents, he said, "I was young once". The experience of getting caught is one of the most exciting I have ever had. I came like a fountain when those red and blue lights clicked on behind us as we parked.

I still like playing in the car, especially getting a nice hand job or lovely tonguing while driving. Today I pull over before the big finish as I do not want to end up in a ditch ....

Sometimes I just like to relive that excitement over again ... but I want a van now, LoL
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wow, young girls, and as Paman says, to some of us all that is left is younger girls. I mean the obvious is the young tight tender flesh, but to me there is so much more.

I am a Daddy, I love to teach and nurture, in most of my experiences young girls love to be guided, this is a big turn on for me. I always like to show friends the lifestyle and to show them the pleasures they can receive. Now that does not mean I am an ageist, I love all ladies, and have had partners even older than me.

Maybe young is also more of an ego boost to us grandpas but they certainly are so sweet and willing to learn and please.
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Quote by hayley


lots of ladies want their girls to be at least 27 ... even on Lush..


Is that so they don't get carded for cigarettes and drinks..?


( sorry couldn't resist )

I know most of us "older" men say this but I do believe it. Age is a number, it really depends on the people. I have seen maturity at 18 and not at 50, so it isn't the number. If it is just a sex partner then what does a number mean? As long as everything works then the only thing that matters is the desire of the partners. If both (or all if you are that lucky) are satisfied then the age means nothing. If it is a relationship, then as long as you can handle the gap in knowledge (current events and such) and you can keep the non-sexual parts interesting then it is just a learning situation, are you willing to learn about each other? I see the profiles that say, no one over XX or no one that is too old, well you never know what you miss by adding those constraints. That person (male or female, young or old) who's age concerns you, may have turned out to be the most amazing thing that ever happened to you and you will never know because of a number. It is nice to both learn about younger people and reminisce about the things you share with someone older. It is a win-win no matter which way you choose as long as you are open to the other person.

ciao
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Quote by Samantha28
It's a very intimate thing to do together and let them watch ... just watch if its all she wants you to do .. look but don't touch



I so agree, it is her play and I want it to be what she wants. She will let me know if she wants me to touch her and whether I should just watch or join in for her to watch as well ..... always her play. I also get to learn what she does to give herself pleasure and I can take from that to make our time together better for her and in turn me. But is is hard to take notes left handed ..... **LoL**
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Of course that depends on the partner and the situation. Sometimes they just want to tease, sometimes they want a show as well ... you get to know what is wanted. I have no problem watching or being part of the show. Sometimes she just might want to see where it goes and I get to decide where I take it. There is no one answer as it changes with the situation ....
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I would have to say that I would be a 9 .. from the comments I have received and because I do not believe I am perfect. I love to learn and am more than willing to listen and learn what my partner wants and needs ....
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I did not keep secrets about anything that happened during my marriage, but I did not tell her that I was a Dom in college for several years. She found some of my writings and asked questions. We tried to incorporate it into our lives but if it isn't inside you, it is hard to live it. So we stopped. Maybe I should have told her sooner and it would have been a different outcome ....
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Ribs on the grill, corn on the cob roasted, baked potato, green beans/portabella/shallots sauteed in a white wine garlic butter sauce. salad from the garden and a southern banana pudding ....
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Ok, to start with I prefer some connection with my partners and believe that her decision to refrain from sex wouldn't, in the beginning, be a concern. You didn't say whether it was by choice or not. Could be medical and that is no longer an issue. Could be emotional and she is now in a place where she can move on. You also didn't say whether she was now willing to change her decision. I do not believe the length of time she has been celibate would matter because, if the time was right for her to begin again then I am sure together, we could ease her back into it. If you are saying that she has not changed her mind then I believe it would have to depend on the connection we could establish. If the ultimate question is can you see yourself in a relationship without sex then I would just say, being with someone that makes you feel special and not having sex is still 10 times better than being alone at night and not having sex.
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While receiving is always so very nice, I am a giver. At the very least I like to go first in giving. There is an ulterior motive, I believe if I go first, she will be in a much more aroused state and will return the favor with more enthusiasm. That in turn will make my response to her after the foreplay also more enthusiastic. Always a win-win for all.
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The riskiest was on the back of the bus when the HS band was returning from an away football game. I was the drum major and I was the masterbator and a little majorette the recipient. She was very grateful after we got home and paid back my efforts.

Also when I was an on-air Dj at a local radio station. It was late and between songs, I was on the phone with my ex-wife. It had been a long shift LoL. What made it risky was at the time we were still spinning records so I had to keep playing long songs, and talking while I was panting, LoL, and that the Dj both had a picture window to the street, a block from the center of town ....

Hey the only rules were no drinking or smoking 'erb on the air. I was sober ....


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Well, to be honest I saw the topic and thought it would be a good place to get new friends lol ......



Ok ... I thought it was funny

I do know that I love giving oral to a lady for the same reasons given by so many. I don't really think of it as control, more of like a guide that is taking her to pleasure. I like that I can change the pace or just the location and get different reactions, driving her to the edge, letting her slowly calm then take her right back ... I can only assume that it is the same for some women. I do not expect a woman to suck me or show me the same pleasure but when she is moved to do so it is ALWAYS wonderful .... It is easy to tell who enjoys it and who is just doing it to please the man. I read an earlier post where the lady said that she liked it as long as he lets her decide how deep to go and does not force into her. I agree, the pleasure is letting her show you how turned on she is getting, not just another hole to fuck. Trust me, if you let her do as she pleases without force, it will not be long until she wants you in as deep as you can go .... it just needs to be her desire ....... The only thing left to say is to all the ladies that said yes and they love it ...... thank you for making the world a better place .... [-o&lt;

Also to Delphi, if he is unwilling he does not deserve what you have to give ...

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I have years ago .... just a no strings, open thing with no connection just for the moment. I loved those days but do believe now I would like a little more of a connection with the two I am with. I of course would prefer a FFM but if it is her desire and we have that connection then I would be happy to give her what she wishes if it is another male. Just no sword crossing lol, I want her happy and her fantasy filled but I have no interest in another male. It would all be for her pleasure.


Reading all the comments makes me want to start a list to check out LoL
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Lasagna, Waldorf Salad, and Mozzarella stuffed bread bombs and a banana pudding ......
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