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Grace
Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Cis Female, 76
United States

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Quote by etairay

Hello everybody ..love love to you all

I have been thinking, I know, E and thinking do not mix Anyhoo, members and Christmas have been on my mind a lot. Just a thought, could we create/open a Semi Colon room for Christmas day only. Have it open all day or a couple of hours, make it private, members interested can obtain password from someone. A safe room, you can visit and sit, no need to talk, members can share whatever they want from their day, post their gifts/feast/day That was my silly thought, I shall leave it out there. My second thought was secret santa but I'm still working that one out.

Bring it in group hug Have a smiley and huggles day with love Keep pushing forward ?


Oh crap. If you've been thinking then inevitably it will fall on me to think too. Nobody wants that.

A Semi Colon Christmas room sounds like a wonderful idea. Technically it should be open 48 hours so everyone gets a full day of access if that's not too excessive. Two hours won't work for most of us. I would suggest at least 6AM to 6PM GMT.

Talk, sit and silently absorb the wonderful vibe, cry on someone's shoulder, hugs, whatever you beautiful people want / need.

Oh, if anyone wants to be groped I'll be there.
True. Sadly very true. But he is never dull.

You will pass out in front of the tv after Thanksgiving dinner.
People get killed shopping on Black Friday.

Surprise me please. Something non-alcoholic.
I proposed to my present husband every week for five weeks.
HA!!!! I can't cook, so neither.

Would you rather watch football or porn.
False

You have no idea yet what's for Thanksgiving dinner.
I have the same knickers on tonight that I had on in September. I've not taken them off.
I did, twice, many years ago. Not sure whether I would if the opportunity presented itself now. Probably depend who was asking.
What's on the menu? Or rather who. Her? Me? Both? A most emphatic yes.
Quote by TheShrew
It is the most disgraceful example of the injustice of the law. How the hell can what underwear we are wearing be a defence for .


Quote by Fluttered
Your anger is righteous and should always be allowed to flow


Quote by seeker4
You're entitled. That story made the news in Canada, too, and it's some serious f-ed up s--t. We've had some similar crap here in the recent past, with a judge getting booted for remarks he made about a victim at trial. So it's not just the Irish.QNrC634gbk3qaOAQ


Quote by curvygalore
Infinitely depressing the same old vicious crap of blaming and shaming is being carted out in this day and age. However, the widespread outraged reactions, like yours, are really heartening and a force for positive change.


Quote by Ping
To not take the edge off that ridiculous observation and ruling, but it is beyond offensive. However...

You’re a real corker when you get upset.

Fret not. It’s bullshit. I hope that woman has the support network she needs, and I hope the moronic system gets a real corker of a kick in the ass. If there is an appeal mechanism, I hope it’s used.


Quote by Verbal
This is ABSOLUTELY the right place for an explosion. You are in a bar, and with friends. Sounds like a perfect place to explode. And that is deeply fucked up behavior. I swear the whole world is turning into A Handmaid's Tale. Sorry, Grace.


Thank you all for your wonderful support. it is good to know I'm not alone.

My ire is not aimed at the . I understand that is a hard crime to convict, and that rapists are acquitted with monotonous regularity. I'm sure karma will catch him up sooner or later and I'm willing to donate my umbrella stand, with contents, to the cause. For the barrister to offer as, so far as I'm aware, sole or main defense the victim's knickers, parading them in front of the court, and for the judge to move the goalpost by allowing this behaviour, is utterly unbefuckinglievable.

I am wondering if I should follow my psychologist's advice?
I am absolutely livid. Last week a barrister in Cork, Ireland got his client acquitted by showing the court the "lace fronted thong" the 17 year old victim was wearing. A pair of knickers the perpetrator could not have seen prior to the attack was evidence of consent? For that matter, had the thong been her only garment it would not show consent.
Do the ignorant men who whisper to me or send friend or chat requests without so much as a hello by way of introduction count?
I may calm down eventually. I'm half Irish. My mother was from Cork, and I have a lot of relatives in Cork County. To think that any of them should have to worry about what knickers she is wearing!

Please may I have a very large brandy in my mother's honour?

PS: This is almost certainly not the right place for my explosion. but I needed it and you folks were handy. I now return you to your familiar, quiet watering hole.
is NEVER the victims fault.
Not if she was drunk.
Not if she’d taken drugs.
Not if she was naked.
Not if she was wearing a miniskirt or a veil.
Not if the authorities didn’t believe her.
Not if she was your partner.
#ThisIsNotConsent
Twitter: Last week, a trial involving a 17-year-old in Cork saw a defence barrister make reference to her "lace front" thong. The jury later acquitted the man accused of her. Many women have since been sharing photos of their underwear as a form of protest over sexual consent.

Twitter: “You have to look at the way she was dressed. She was wearing a thong”. Unfortunately these kinds of statements are not unusual in trials or judicial decisions. Sexual violence survivors are often questioned about what they wear #ThisIsNotConsent

Me: She could have been wearing bandaids and a jockstrap and it would not imply consent. Nonetheless, how did a fucking thong imply consent? The , and acquitted or not her was a , COULD NOT SEE THE GARMENT IN QUESTION!!!
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Hot chocolate with a truck load of marshmallows pretty please


Mmm, hot chocolate sounds good, but only a couple dozen marshmallows if they can be spared. Thank you very much Mr Foreskin.

How do you peel a banana, according to Groucho?

One skin
Two skin
Three skin

Five skin
Quote by kiera
I have piercings and tattoos. I only regret one tattoo, and I got that on a girls weekend in Blackpool with hardly a moment of sobriety between us. I hate the bloody thing. I was 18 and pissed though. Then pissed off the next morning when I saw it because I don't like it. I keep meaning to get it covered.

I think tats and piercings are a bit like marmite. You either like them, or you don't. I think my piercings are pretty and I think all but one of my tats are awesome, they also have meaning to me.

So, with the exception of one, which I plan to get covered. I am very happy with mine.


What was that about awesome tits, sweetiepie? You know I'm longing to get my hands and lips on yours.

I hate marmite, and vegemite if any Antipodeans are wondering, but I don't mind the taste of piercings and tattoos. Just not on me. My only piercings, my earlobes, have long since grown over.

Quote by calx86
Hell yeah. Nothing like being pantyless in a theater ;).


Mmmmm, theatres, fingers, way to get through the boring bits.