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HappyEndings
Over 90 days ago
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I guess it's no surprise that I'm voting against the majority again... LOL
If I had to choose, I'd choose the second one (many partners no repeats) because I believe that variety is the spice of life and although I enjoy sex with one partner, I don't want to ever be limited to just one again.
I'm predicting at least 95 percent of the women and 70 percent of the men vote for only one.
To each his or her own I guess....
If I had to choose, I'd choose the second one (many partners no repeats) because I believe that variety is the spice of life and although I enjoy sex with one partner, I don't want to ever be limited to just one again.
I'm predicting at least 95 percent of the women and 70 percent of the men vote for only one.
To each his or her own I guess....
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Being a true switch I am probably unable to decide which I enjoy the most but I am almost always purely dominant because it seems that even women that claim to be dominant seem to prefer to be dominated when I'm with them.
I don't know if I bring that out in them or if they are more naturally submissive and if allowed to do what they naturally want to do they revert to submissive almost every time.
Not to say that there aren't truly dominant women out there and I've actually known a couple but submissive women has been my experience.
If I had to pick whether I prefer controlling or being controlled during sex I'd probably say being controlled but that's likely because I almost never get to be in that role and therefore I miss and crave it more due to the novelty of it.
I know... Long answer to a short question but then that's my style... LOL
I don't know if I bring that out in them or if they are more naturally submissive and if allowed to do what they naturally want to do they revert to submissive almost every time.
Not to say that there aren't truly dominant women out there and I've actually known a couple but submissive women has been my experience.
If I had to pick whether I prefer controlling or being controlled during sex I'd probably say being controlled but that's likely because I almost never get to be in that role and therefore I miss and crave it more due to the novelty of it.
I know... Long answer to a short question but then that's my style... LOL
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Many people only want what they can't have and as soon as they have it they no longer want it.
Or there is the conquest theory. Once you have accepted them then they've "conquered another woman" and they can move on to more conquests.
Some men only want to have sex with women and then claim that as a trophy much as a big game hunter hangs a head on his wall.
Some men chicken out in the face of anything more committing than a chase.
And then sometimes it just wasn't meant to be and the realization hits right after the excitement of the chase wanes.
There are too many possible reasons to list but I suggest shortening the chase and accept earlier to maybe sample more and run away less... Just a suggestion and it might not appeal to or work for you... You'll probably have more fun unless, of course, the chase is the main event for you.
Or there is the conquest theory. Once you have accepted them then they've "conquered another woman" and they can move on to more conquests.
Some men only want to have sex with women and then claim that as a trophy much as a big game hunter hangs a head on his wall.
Some men chicken out in the face of anything more committing than a chase.
And then sometimes it just wasn't meant to be and the realization hits right after the excitement of the chase wanes.
There are too many possible reasons to list but I suggest shortening the chase and accept earlier to maybe sample more and run away less... Just a suggestion and it might not appeal to or work for you... You'll probably have more fun unless, of course, the chase is the main event for you.
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Quote by BarefootAngela
I've never had it done for me, at least not that I'm aware of. I'm not sure if I would consider it creepy, or flattering. I think I'm leaning towards it being creepy, however I'm not sure if that's because I really think so, or because society has trained me to think so.
This is so incredibly true. "because society has trained me to think so"
If you doubt this watch the trends change in fashion, what type of men women like, type of cars they buy, etc....
Society and culture define us waaaaay more than we realize. I mean men and women not just women.
I am very good at guessing people's age and I do it by talking to them a few minutes and then figuring out their age by their responses to what I say. Each generation looks at things differently and it's very telling by their reactions to various things.
It's become more and more rare to find free thinkers that respond very little to societal and cultural pressures and instead form their own opinions independently.
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My interpretation of Karma was always... "You reap the harvest that you sow"...
I tried to read all the posts in this thread but don't remember anyone mentioning the Golden Rule. More good words to live by.
Life is it's own reward and life is a self fulfilling prophecy.
Lasty but not least... Walk softly and carry a big stick because there is evil in the world that doesn't respond to talk of Karma, The Golden Rule etc. To believe that all men are inherently good is to be naive and to leave oneself open to tremendous harm.
Nuff said....
I tried to read all the posts in this thread but don't remember anyone mentioning the Golden Rule. More good words to live by.
Life is it's own reward and life is a self fulfilling prophecy.
Lasty but not least... Walk softly and carry a big stick because there is evil in the world that doesn't respond to talk of Karma, The Golden Rule etc. To believe that all men are inherently good is to be naive and to leave oneself open to tremendous harm.
Nuff said....
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I consider myself very open minded and not prudish at all but the whole idea of group sex just turns me off. I don't like to read about it, wouldn't ever do it, and have no idea of ever even watching it.
A threesome might work but that's my limit.
A threesome might work but that's my limit.
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Already have, enjoyed it each time, and would again. It's wonderful to get to know someone mentally and emotionally online and then to exchange pics and then to meet and go out then retire to a private place to exchange bodily fluids.... LOL
Obviously, for women, it's a lot more dangerous and caution is strongly advised and exchanging bodily fluids isn't recommended but I have and probably will again if I feel comfortable doing so.
This IS after all Lush and what are all the stories about? Basket weaving? ;)
Obviously, for women, it's a lot more dangerous and caution is strongly advised and exchanging bodily fluids isn't recommended but I have and probably will again if I feel comfortable doing so.
This IS after all Lush and what are all the stories about? Basket weaving? ;)