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HappyEndings
Over 90 days ago
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There's a lot of great advice here on this thread. Every man has his favorite things and many men cum very quickly and are easy to please.
Men that have had a lot of sex with different partners tend to take longer and some a LOT longer to bring to orgasm.
If he think's you are tired of it and about to give up it might very well spoil it for him and he will likely have a hard time cumming.
My favorite is lots of foreplay and then she starts just playing with my cock and balls for awhile. When it becomes obvious that I'm really turned on and about to explode, that's the time to go for it with a good rhythm and a firm grip or hard suck.
If you stop during that time it might be harder to bring me to orgasm the next time(s).
Some women don't seem to understand the male's orgasm progression and some seem to have it down to a science. Experience is probably the best teacher. If you really want to learn to be very good at it ask a prostitute to teach you.
I've heard that gay men are the best but I have very limited experience in that category so really couldn't say.
I am hoping to meet with a Lush woman this week and she seems to be pretty experienced but I won't know until we get naked and start working on each other.
Enthusiasm is probably the single best attribute a blow job giver can have and if you truly enjoy it I think that men will pick up on that and it will be great for them as a result of that.
Life is good. Sex is better. Sex with an experienced partner that is focused on making you happy is the ultimate.
Just one man's opinion.
Men that have had a lot of sex with different partners tend to take longer and some a LOT longer to bring to orgasm.
If he think's you are tired of it and about to give up it might very well spoil it for him and he will likely have a hard time cumming.
My favorite is lots of foreplay and then she starts just playing with my cock and balls for awhile. When it becomes obvious that I'm really turned on and about to explode, that's the time to go for it with a good rhythm and a firm grip or hard suck.
If you stop during that time it might be harder to bring me to orgasm the next time(s).
Some women don't seem to understand the male's orgasm progression and some seem to have it down to a science. Experience is probably the best teacher. If you really want to learn to be very good at it ask a prostitute to teach you.
I've heard that gay men are the best but I have very limited experience in that category so really couldn't say.
I am hoping to meet with a Lush woman this week and she seems to be pretty experienced but I won't know until we get naked and start working on each other.
Enthusiasm is probably the single best attribute a blow job giver can have and if you truly enjoy it I think that men will pick up on that and it will be great for them as a result of that.
Life is good. Sex is better. Sex with an experienced partner that is focused on making you happy is the ultimate.
Just one man's opinion.
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I don't have an older limit but the younger one is usually at around 30. I'll make exceptions if the maturity level is OK... Here 18 is the legal age so 18 is ALWAYS my lower limit.
I have found that older women tend to know what they're looking for and aren't so full of DRAMA! LOL
My favorite age bracket is 40-55 but really age is just a number and age certainly isn't anywere near my most important consideration.
I have found that older women tend to know what they're looking for and aren't so full of DRAMA! LOL
My favorite age bracket is 40-55 but really age is just a number and age certainly isn't anywere near my most important consideration.
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I have always concentrated on my ladies' pleasure first knowing that almost always they will reciprocate. Most women want to feel me cum in them before it's all over but I wait until they ask for it or initiate the act.
I have found that if I am tuned to what they want I almost always get signals indicating what they want next and if not, cunnilingus is almost always the first and best choice plus that's wonderful to me and my favorite.
Of course there are certain times and certain women that a good hard fucking is in order but I try to make sure that's what's wanted first.
There are a LOT of stories on Lush that involve involuntary sex and all kinds of weird behavior but in the real world I think it is best that these things are asked for by the female or at least she should be asked first.
Just one man's opinion.
I have found that if I am tuned to what they want I almost always get signals indicating what they want next and if not, cunnilingus is almost always the first and best choice plus that's wonderful to me and my favorite.
Of course there are certain times and certain women that a good hard fucking is in order but I try to make sure that's what's wanted first.
There are a LOT of stories on Lush that involve involuntary sex and all kinds of weird behavior but in the real world I think it is best that these things are asked for by the female or at least she should be asked first.
Just one man's opinion.
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Yes... A few times and sometimes it actually worked out. Most of the women looking to meet men on the net are scammers so sorting through them can be very frustrating.
From what I understand it can be very dangerous, especially for women.
The internet can be a very dangerous place for a naive person.
You need to keep your guard up and never let your hormones rule your activities when it comes to meeting people.
All that being said... The women I've met from this site were largely sincere and although very cautious, seemed to be fairly honest and not scammers.
Craigslist is the sewer of the internet and probably the number one place to stay away from when it comes to meeting sexual partners or even selling or buying stuff.
Plenty of Fish is supposedly pretty good. A lot of the "dating" websites now require verification of who you really are so theoretically they're reasonably safe but I'd advise proceeding with caution. I have several male friends that met their spouses on the net and have had good experiences though.
I'm primarily looking for sex partners because my life is way too complicated for a significant other at this time in my life and very few women want sex and sex only. I work most of my waking hours so I don't have time for a lot of casual dating. I'm very up front with what I want (sex) and pictures I send and my avatar are really me.
Around here where I live the bar scene seems to be where most people meet for sex and casual relationships but I'm not a drinker and too well known to be seen out picking up sluts in bars.... LOL
Meeting people on the net is somewhat frustrating but my expectations aren't too high either so I just keep my guard up and proceed with caution.
Please people, especially women, be very careful but don't give up. The success stories aren't the ones that make the news. Sometimes it works out and you can filter out the people that aren't what you're looking for pretty well.
I'm rambling but this is a very tough and dangerous subject that requires a lot of thought and discretion.
I do have one question... Why do most people on Lush hide where they are and only divulge the country? What not at least the state? If someone is looking to meet someone it can be very helpful to at least know the state (in the US) you're in? Is it because most people here are interested in stories and fantasy? If so I get it but not disclosing the state you're in seems a bit over the top.
From what I understand it can be very dangerous, especially for women.
The internet can be a very dangerous place for a naive person.
You need to keep your guard up and never let your hormones rule your activities when it comes to meeting people.
All that being said... The women I've met from this site were largely sincere and although very cautious, seemed to be fairly honest and not scammers.
Craigslist is the sewer of the internet and probably the number one place to stay away from when it comes to meeting sexual partners or even selling or buying stuff.
Plenty of Fish is supposedly pretty good. A lot of the "dating" websites now require verification of who you really are so theoretically they're reasonably safe but I'd advise proceeding with caution. I have several male friends that met their spouses on the net and have had good experiences though.
I'm primarily looking for sex partners because my life is way too complicated for a significant other at this time in my life and very few women want sex and sex only. I work most of my waking hours so I don't have time for a lot of casual dating. I'm very up front with what I want (sex) and pictures I send and my avatar are really me.
Around here where I live the bar scene seems to be where most people meet for sex and casual relationships but I'm not a drinker and too well known to be seen out picking up sluts in bars.... LOL
Meeting people on the net is somewhat frustrating but my expectations aren't too high either so I just keep my guard up and proceed with caution.
Please people, especially women, be very careful but don't give up. The success stories aren't the ones that make the news. Sometimes it works out and you can filter out the people that aren't what you're looking for pretty well.
I'm rambling but this is a very tough and dangerous subject that requires a lot of thought and discretion.
I do have one question... Why do most people on Lush hide where they are and only divulge the country? What not at least the state? If someone is looking to meet someone it can be very helpful to at least know the state (in the US) you're in? Is it because most people here are interested in stories and fantasy? If so I get it but not disclosing the state you're in seems a bit over the top.
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IMO when a man eats a woman's pussy he is performing the most intimate act on her that is possible to perform. Men may enjoy the act but I believe it's all about the woman and our appreciation of what she is and what she stands for.
Many men are like me and are very serious about paying tribute to women and what better way than to eat their pussy as much as they want it eaten and to expect NOTHING in return. If they choose to give us head or have intercourse or other sexual acts with us after we've pleased them, then that's a bonus but should not be expected.
I know I probably sound like I'm full of baloney here but I'm serious about this. The pussy is the ultimate expression of womanliness and paying tribute to it with our mouth for as long as the woman wants and as often as she wants is our most profound expression of our gratitude for her sharing her wonderful body with us.
I enjoy almost all forms of sex as much as anybody but I love to eat pussy first and foremost and am not the least embarrassed about it. Of course the woman should practice good hygiene and eat a fairly healthy diet but it's been quite a few years since I've declined to eat a pussy that was offered to me.
I especially like it when a woman demands to be eaten...
Many men are like me and are very serious about paying tribute to women and what better way than to eat their pussy as much as they want it eaten and to expect NOTHING in return. If they choose to give us head or have intercourse or other sexual acts with us after we've pleased them, then that's a bonus but should not be expected.
I know I probably sound like I'm full of baloney here but I'm serious about this. The pussy is the ultimate expression of womanliness and paying tribute to it with our mouth for as long as the woman wants and as often as she wants is our most profound expression of our gratitude for her sharing her wonderful body with us.
I enjoy almost all forms of sex as much as anybody but I love to eat pussy first and foremost and am not the least embarrassed about it. Of course the woman should practice good hygiene and eat a fairly healthy diet but it's been quite a few years since I've declined to eat a pussy that was offered to me.
I especially like it when a woman demands to be eaten...
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Guys I am confused. If only a few of the men in the world paid for sex, how its it that some Escorts do so well financially. But then I am Blonde!
Most men won't admit it. They think it's admitting that they're somehow undesirable. Faced with the opportunity, very few men I know would turn it down if they could afford to pay for sex and if they felt they wouldn't get caught by the law or the wife/GF/SO.
I certainly would LOVE to have sex with a woman/women that demanded all the money they would ever get from me just for a sexual encounter.
Sex is a wonderful thing and except for a few magical men that almost all women seem to want, most of us go around wishing we had a lot more sex and to have it a lot more often than we do.
Prostitution is forbidden in almost all of the US and public humiliation and even jail time are the client and professional sex worker's fear. This is ridiculous. Those laws are archaic and uneducated but it will likely never change here because women don't want to release their sexual stranglehold on men.
I know I sound bitter and I'm really not. Just disappointed and frustrated like the average American male.
Prostitution should be regulated, taxed, and treated like any other profession. After all.... It's really the oldest profession in the world. ;)
As to the original question. No... I never have but wish I could without the fear of criminal prosecution or disease. The lack of prostitution is undoubtedly one of the major reasons for a lot of the perversion running rampant in this country.
In most of the world it is quite common for a man to have a wife and a mistress (prostitute) that he pays for sex by "keeping her" in the things she needs. It's sometimes illegal but largely ignored.
Now I'm reading that a lot of young college girls are turning to "sugar daddies" to help them with college expenses. Of course this is thinly veiled prostitution. I see nothing wrong with this but the law frowns heavily on it and from what I understand is doing it's level best to stop it.
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I dated a woman that was only 4'11" and thin for awhile and it was amazing what we could do in bed. She was quite flexible too and we had lots of fun with interesting positions. Our only issue was that her little mouth couldn't stretch enough to comfortably fit my cock but her willing hands, pussy and ass easily made up for that. ;)
I don't think many men would be unwilling to date a small woman but you might be surprized how many women would rather not date a little man. It seems that most women prefer a man at least average size or larger and some only date tall men.
I don't think many men would be unwilling to date a small woman but you might be surprized how many women would rather not date a little man. It seems that most women prefer a man at least average size or larger and some only date tall men.
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Well.... It's prostate not prostrate and yes it can cause an immediate ejaculation with little or no pleasure attached.
If a doctor wants a sperm sample from a man all he has to do is put on the rubber glove and just a few seconds of prostate massage and he'll have ejactulate to get the sample from. There is almost no pleasure associated with this.
If the prostate is massaged by a sex partner during a blow or hand job it can intensify the orgasm but if done too early it might be rather anticlimactic.
Anyway.... After having said all that... yes.... Most men, if they don't have hangups, love a finger up the butt during or even without the accompanying blow or hand job and it can certainly intensify the feeling.
If you have him bend over you can easily find the prostrate gland. It's about half a finger length inside the anus and toward the front of the body. Just insert your finger and if you're patient you will find it. It's not all that large. If his isn't swollen it feels about the size of an almond and he may need to give you feedback to find it. Just rubbing it can be fun and once you're familiar with where it is and what it feels like you can intensify his orgasm if you do direct stimulation of the prostate just before he cums.
Not all men's prostates are easy to find or in exactly in the same place. It's been compared to the female's g spot but I'm not so sure the comparison is good.
Anyway. I hope that helps.... ;)
If a doctor wants a sperm sample from a man all he has to do is put on the rubber glove and just a few seconds of prostate massage and he'll have ejactulate to get the sample from. There is almost no pleasure associated with this.
If the prostate is massaged by a sex partner during a blow or hand job it can intensify the orgasm but if done too early it might be rather anticlimactic.
Anyway.... After having said all that... yes.... Most men, if they don't have hangups, love a finger up the butt during or even without the accompanying blow or hand job and it can certainly intensify the feeling.
If you have him bend over you can easily find the prostrate gland. It's about half a finger length inside the anus and toward the front of the body. Just insert your finger and if you're patient you will find it. It's not all that large. If his isn't swollen it feels about the size of an almond and he may need to give you feedback to find it. Just rubbing it can be fun and once you're familiar with where it is and what it feels like you can intensify his orgasm if you do direct stimulation of the prostate just before he cums.
Not all men's prostates are easy to find or in exactly in the same place. It's been compared to the female's g spot but I'm not so sure the comparison is good.
Anyway. I hope that helps.... ;)
