Well... I used to have a friend that never took no for an answer. He never let the conversation go that far without outright asking if the woman was "here" looking for sex, conversation or just drinks.
He was very good looking and charming and took more women home than any 20 men I ever knew. Some men are simply irrestible to most women and his innocent boyish looks and million dollar smile got him a LOT of pickups.
I honestly think it has very little to do with the conversation line if the woman is at the right time in her life for some good old raw sex with an attractive and sexy man and the right one comes along. I think it's more about chemistry rather looks or words.
Unfortunately, despite the fact that I have better than average looks, I've never possessed that kind of animal magnetism that some men have.
That made me give up on bars years ago. Plus alcohol is expensive and bad for one's health.
I live in a fairly small town where everyone knows everyone also so it's not advisable to pick up women in bars or you could have an angry husband or bf on your doorstep before you get her clothes off.... LOL
Treat a woman like a lady always except in bed and the right kind of women will beat a path to your door. Women talk and your reputation will get you more "hookups" than any cute pick up lines in medium to small towns. Also NEVER but EVER brag about your conquests. Word travels very fast.
In big cities I'd be lost and somewhat helpless in finding "dates" or "hookups".... I guess I'm just a dinosaur.... LOL
Also... Don't take what I say as good advice. I just know what's worked for me.
I almost never get the boyfriend line anyway. I look for a ring and if I don't see one I simply ask. Works for me Might not for you.....
Oh crap... This is an ask the gals section.... Sorry girls. If any of you suggest I delete this I gladly will....
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