Quote by shadowcat
I am a wife who has lost their libido.
Let me give you an insight into how i think.
OK SO. i get up, shit i look awful, got so much to do today, don't have 2 minutes to myself, wish i had time to shower, what shall i cook for dinner, need to do some housework,
Then it reaches 8am. I barely have time to think everyday let alone make sure i am freshly shaved, and ready at all times for sex.
I used to do kinky things for my husband as well but it got old. I got fed up with doing the same thing in the same order everytime.
My husband brought it up a while back and i HATED having my failings highlighted to me when i was already painfully aware of them
We have since made an effort to try and improve our relationship by going out once a month just for a pub lunch or cinema.
Instead of blaming her maybe look at yourself and see how you can help her.
I just got to thinking about this response as I was doing some house cleaning which I have done throughout my adult life as a husband and father. I got a little angry at first but then realized you are probably a selfish and unhappy person to begin with. I read some of your replies to form questions and I can see your not happy.
I am not blaming anyone for this issue I just wanted to know if anyone else has had this issue and could tell me how they handled the situation. I love my wife and want our relationship to flourish as it once did. I got some good advice from those that care and some bad advice from some assholes. Might I suggest you take care of your business before giving other your opinion.
