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Heracles
2 weeks ago
Straight Male
0 miles · Slovenia
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Advanced Wordsmith
Hm. Sounds like a tough one. Really depends on what kind of person she is. Had an ex who I couldn't convince to do anything. Wouldn't even let me give her oral... Didn't want me looking at her while she tried giving me a BJ, etc. Let alone talk her into ass play or anything. But she was like that in all aspects of life, because of a shitload of insecurities she just wouldn't or couldn't get over. So if your wife sounds anything like that, you're probably in trouble.
On the other hand. My last GF was really shy, didn't really like experimenting with ass play or anything the like. But over time I respectfully persisted on talking to her, asking her why she thought about it a certain way, what she was afraid of, really assuring her that she'd have complete control over the situations, asking if she trusted me, etc. And that turned out great. It took me a while, but eventually went from her slapping my fingers away from her ass, to her literally pulling me balls deep into her ass after just a short warmup, having me fuck her pussy while she had a fairly large plug in her booty, or reversed.
So you should try talking to her respectfully. Try not making her feel forced, but at the same time letting her know that it is important to you and would at least want to know the reasons behind her decisions. Also asking her what she would be comfortable trying or changing. Maybe even having you wash each other (which can be extremely erotic) and thus making sure there was no worry of you fingering her, etc.
In any case, I wish you the best of luck!
Edit: You could try asking the gals as well.
On the other hand. My last GF was really shy, didn't really like experimenting with ass play or anything the like. But over time I respectfully persisted on talking to her, asking her why she thought about it a certain way, what she was afraid of, really assuring her that she'd have complete control over the situations, asking if she trusted me, etc. And that turned out great. It took me a while, but eventually went from her slapping my fingers away from her ass, to her literally pulling me balls deep into her ass after just a short warmup, having me fuck her pussy while she had a fairly large plug in her booty, or reversed.
So you should try talking to her respectfully. Try not making her feel forced, but at the same time letting her know that it is important to you and would at least want to know the reasons behind her decisions. Also asking her what she would be comfortable trying or changing. Maybe even having you wash each other (which can be extremely erotic) and thus making sure there was no worry of you fingering her, etc.
In any case, I wish you the best of luck!
Edit: You could try asking the gals as well.
Advanced Wordsmith
It really does depend on a number of factors. Normally it's several times per day. Sometimes it's during most of the day. Every so often comes a period when I just don't feel all that horny and get hard only once per day or maybe not even that.
That being said... I do get hard very easily. So if someone starts teasing me, it's out of my control.
That being said... I do get hard very easily. So if someone starts teasing me, it's out of my control.