Our favorite porn film is . We’ve watched it hundreds of times. Now we are into amateur porn. The more normal the participants the better.

Was much younger (2x5 to be exact). Spent the summer at my sister and brother-in-law's house in Florida. There was a huge selection (at least 100) of Playboy magazines in the bedroom closet of the room I was sleeping in. I started to just look at the pictures, especially the centerfolds. Then I actually started reading the articles. Most were over my head, bu some were interesting. Of course I started getting erections looking at the pictures, and it felt good with my hand caressing my cock. About half way through the summer I masturbated for the first time. I did orgasm, but there was no ejaculate. It felt great though. Went through the whole stack several times that summer. Would stay up all night looking at them. My sister wondered why I was so tired.
A few years into our marriage, Carla and I were on our bed kissing, caressing and watching a porno before having sex. In the movie a girl was fingering her ass. Carla asked me if I had ever done that to myself. I replied that I hadn't. My fingers had touched my asshole many times in the shower while I cleaned myself but I never stuck one inside. Carla asked to to do it and tell her what it felt like. I had slid my finger into her ass a few times and she said it was ok, but she really enjoyed it when she came with my finger inside. I reached into the night table drawer and put a few drops of lube on my middle finger and she put a few drops on my ass. I turned away from Carla and she spread my ass cheek as I slipped my middle finger along my asshole then slowly pushed it in. At first is was a very odd feeling. I slowly slid my finger in and out and found it very enjoyable. My middle finger is just shy of 4" long and I slid it in all the way. The more I finger fucked my ass the harder my cock got. Sex that night was outrageous as it still felt like my finger was inside me.
A few weeks later Carla put a condom on one of her slim vibrators and lubed it up. She had me kneel on the bed with my ass spread. She fucked my with the vibrator. Made me cum without any other stimulation. From that point on I was hooked on ass play.
Going at it doggie style in my future in-law's den. Didn't hear them come in the front door. I pull out and start spraying cum all over my girlfriend's ass. Look up to see my future mother-in-law watching from the doorway. Was in the midst of a huge ejaculation and couldn't stop. She just smiled, kind of licked her lips and walked away. Girlfriend didn't even know he mother was at the door watching. After we cleaned up and got dressed I told her. She freaked.
My girlfriend related to me that the next morning the only thing her mother said to her was that we should use condoms going forward. My MIL never said a word to me, but every once in a while she would lick her lips just like she did that night. Unnerved me for years.
Carla and I both had a fantasy about having sex with the couple in the apartment below us when we lived in Germany. Maria was an Italian beauty with a body to die for and Hans was a tall blue eyed blond. While having sex one night the topic we were shared fantasies and realized we had a common one, the couple downstairs. Carla and I invited them to dinner the next Friday night. After several bottles of wine our conversation got a bit risqué. To our delight they were agreeable to having fun together. We moved to the bedroom and enjoyed each other until Saturday afternoon. It was our first introduction to double vaginal insertion.
As stated above, they can be good or bad. All depends on your expectations are, who is participating, and the general vibe of the group. Don’t expect porn stars. 99.99% of the participants will be normal, everyday people like you and I. Don’t expect wild, outrageous sex. Make sure you stay within bounds with the person you are having sex with. Go in with an open mind. If you are a couple lose the jealousy of your wife with another guy.
Wife and I have participated in many. I can rate them all 7s and better. Many have been with the same persons so there is familiarity.
We love mutual masturbation. Just a different method of having sex.
Love to watch wife enjoying her 9” purple vibrator while I stroke myself. She lets me cum wherever I want on her body. I like to have her kneeling, ass spread, purple vibrator buried inside of her pussy while I cum on her ass hole. Of course, I do use my tongue to clean it all up.
Big difference between nude beaches in US and Europe. US is pretty hung up on nudity so everyone is watching and leering. In Europe nudity is accepted as normalcy so nude beaches are just beaches.
Cap d’Adge in France is the exception. It is a voyeurs paradise. Couples have casual sex that attracts groups of watchers, male and female. Have been there twice. First time took an hour before wife and I felt comfortable being nude. Second time we were naked immediately. Manually masturbated each other.