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HotBttmInBriefs
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 46
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I did one of my favorite things to do naked today --- just sit in the sun and sunbath. I have been needing sunshine so bad. It got nearly 70 degrees here today. I went home from work early -- with the intention of only sitting on my deck and taking the sun in. I have a good privacy fence on my deck. I got out there. It felt so good. I soon found myself naked sitting and bathing in the sun. I ended up on my stomach and fell asleep for awhile. I have my first light sunburn of the season. But it was worth it.
I have been going back and forth on doing the forced comments thing. I have not had it happen too often but I have had a few random votes here and there where the majority of the votes are 4 and 5 and then all of a sudden out of the blue you get a 3 but the person doesn't comment so you have no idea whatsoever why they voted a 3. And I am just not the type of person to send a PM and ask why.

I tend to be like some above when I vote. Even if I think for me the story is more a 4 but if everybody else has voted a 5 I will go ahead and give a 5 too just so that I am not that lone vote.

I don't do the friends thing either as I said above. I try to vote everyone fairly. I do try to support the stories of all my friends or people that have read my stories esp. those that have commented or scored my stories.

I know one thing I have wondered the most since I have been here is you get PM's from folks that tell you they absolutely love your stories. Yet they never score or comment on them. And you think well maybe they just don't do that. Then you check out their profile and they comment on or score other stories. Just another one of those mysteries.
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This is why we have a feature which allows authors to require a comment when a story is scored. If people are concerned about the reasons for the scores on their stories to that extent, they should really consider enabling this option.

I personally feel the pros outweigh the cons in this instance. As Milik said, it's nice to see when someone has read your work, even if they perhaps didn't have time to comment on it.


Liz, It has only happened one or 2 times for me with that. Most times the person does comment.

It hasn't happened enough that it bothers me or that I would want to go that route. I have debated doing that in the past. I just feel it turns more people off to do the forced commenting. So have just chosen not to.
I think the longest I have gone with no sex at all was maybe 5 or 6 months.

The longest I have gone with sex that wasn't satisfying was almost 2 years. It was during the last 2 years of my marriage. We had been trying to get pregnant and couldn't.

We went to a fertility doctor. Both of us were fine for the most part. My wife had some hormone problems. We were given things that might help. She started shots. I switched to boxers...no hot tubs...and so forth. We had sex dictated by her temperature. You had to get hard on command. And on and on. Every pregnancy test she took that came back negative...you got the looks of blame ... of disappointment. And on and on.

It was a whole different time. It was sex not for pleasure at all.
I've seen the same thing Trinket. I don't think I have been victim of it either.

I like having the info too and try to think each person that I now know just votes on my story too. But I have seen others who have gotten mad over a vote they got. I know of one who has just quit voting because they didn't like writers knowing and being able to figure out what they voted.

The only problem that I have is the same as it has always been when a person say votes a 3 when the majority of scores have been at least 4 or 5. Then you get this random 3 and the person doesn't comment to say why. It just leaves you wondering.
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Yes someone else reported that in the Help Desk forum ... its been put down as a blip I think since it all seems fine now. smile


I'm still having the same problem. Now even after logging out I have lost 2 more buttons at the top. The symbols for mail and friends has disappeared too.

All I have now are the words and numbers.
Love the new design.

But several of my icons are actually missing this morning. I can hover over them and a drop down menu appears but the actual icons are not showing up. Probably some kind of weird bug or glitch in the system.

Anyone else having that problem?
I like to do it various ways depending on my mood. The two most common are in the morning in the shower. Many times I lean against the shower wall with one arm, look down as a I stroke and shoot my cum on the wall or on to the floor and watch it go down the drain.

At night I like to lie in the bed. Sometimes I shoot on to my torso and clean it up later. Other times I shoot into a cum rag I keep near the bed. I think of various things from porn to reliving older fantasies.

The other most common way is at my desk either watching porn, reading stories here or sometimes during a chat although that one is the least common these days.
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I didn't mean for it to kick your butt. Sorry if you thought that.

I was just trying to add more perception to your thought on why so many who are bi-curious. There do seem a lot but many who list that aren't really just "curious" anymore. They have moved past it but can't quite own it yet. They need time before they can make that literal step.

I'm afraid to put it this way as some will try to say I am saying they have some kind of disease and I am not. If they did I would have the same disease. But it is kind of like an alcoholic. Many times an alcoholic can admit to themselves they are an alcoholic and even go to an AA meeting. But it takes months or weeks before they can stand up in a meeting and say it.

Everyone needs to work that out for themselves.
I agree about the acting of Harrelson and McConaughey......they are brilliant in this.
Watched all of the episodes but this past Sunday. Will watch it On Demand later today or tomorrow. I really love the show.
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I have no problem with bisexuality but why so many bi curious people. I was curious so I had sex with a few women and I prefered guys, at least I'm not curious any more. Just take the plunge.


Not for sure if you are talking in this thread or listing bi-curious as their status on their profile.

I have found you can't go by that. I have found that women are very honest with what they put as their orientation on here.

On the other hand, due to so many of the reasons we have talked about over and over in threads, men are not.

I have met men on here who list themselves as straight but they are either bi-curious or even bisexual as they have had sex with men or curious about it. Many of them go into the male chat room.

I have met many who say they are bi-curious when in actuality they are actively bisexual.

So in truth there are not as many who only bi-curious anymore. But it takes a lot for many men to admit that. And I can't blame them.

And before anyone says they should just admit it and move on or even try to out them as some in our society so want to do --- I fully believe that every man needs to work that out and do that for themselves.

Many in our society today feel it is their right to force people out before they are ready. And they make the whole situation stressful and hard to deal with for that person.

People have to do it on their own and only when they are comfortable.
Not to do it with just anyone, but a few times in my lifetime the desire was so strong that I was part of stuff that was a little dangerous as far as getting caught.

The day of my one and only marriage we left the church on the way to the honeymoon hotel but didn't make it. We ended up pulling off into a roadside park area and had sex in the back seat of my car.

The other time was with a male fuck buddy of mine. We got very turned on in a restaurant one time and had sex in the bathroom. It was one of those small bathrooms. Only 1 stall and 1 urinal. Not much room but we made it work. At least it was not as small as a airplane bathroom.

Another time was with a gf on a flight from Nashville to Miami. We didn't have sex but she jacked me off under a blanket and I fingered her. Not sure then what got us so turned on then, but we couldn't wait.
Sandrita is responsible for Bruce Willis and Demi Moore's divorce...her love for his movies led her to stalk him in real life leading Demi to get jealous
I agree about the one hole controlling the movement and the other along for the ride esp. when both cocks are in the same orifice....not so much if they are in different ones (i.e. one in the ass, the other in the mouth of pussy)

One of the best feelings in the world is to occupy the same orifice and having another cock sliding along yours. It's good whether you are the one holding ur cock in place or the one in charge of the action.

Slow Ride by Foghat is a killer too DPW.
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I've had great sex with women and men both. I've never felt an the emotional attachment with men that I have felt with some women.
Just because he is having fun with the guys doesn't mean he has changed who he is. He is still the same person. He has just found something new that he likes. If he says that he is bisexual , then that is what he is.
I consider myself bisexual only if to let others have a way to know that I like sex with both genders. Otherwise , I am still just a normal guy. Just the same as any other person that uses a label of any kind to relay a like or dislike or a label to describe who they are. But, one label doesn't make a person better or worse than any other.
People are people no matter what label. Don't think that a label will make them so different from or so like you. You would be limiting yourself if you were to think that way.


I agree with you there (the bold part).

I know for me after my divorce sex with guys has been almost new to me. For 7 years it was only something that I fantasized about and didn't act on. I didn't with other women too but I had my wife and even though sex was on a schedule and only aimed at getting her pregnant.

So sex with guys since I got divorced has been something new to me again.

So I think that could be part of it for this guy too.
A correction to my post above.

In the paragraph where it says "before and after I have only had sex with guys" does not mean that my only sex was with guys. It would be better stated that sex with guys was just that -- sex -- with no emotional attachment. I just worded it the wrong way.