This was my situation and it may apply to the guy you are TALKING ABOUT.
I was involved in a relationship with a girl for a total of almost 9 years. 5 of those years I was married to her. For 7 of those years I was completely faithful to her. Before her I was bisexual and practiced it. Before and after her I have only had sex with guys....never had a romantic connection.
The last 2 years of my marriage were pure hell. Mostly due to our trying to have a baby. We couldn't get pregnant. She was taking hormone pills and shots. We had sex on schedule. We did everything the doctors told us to do. The heavy hormones she took made her have tremendous mood swings. She was irritable all the time and a very unhappy person. She blamed me and the whole world for her inability to get pregnant. One day she packed my bags while I was at work and kicked me to the curb.
We divorced in 2009 and I have not wanted to enter into a relationship yet. The 2 girls that I have gotten involved with after my divorce have quickly become attached and I am not ready for that.
Even on here I have had girls that got way too attached in just a short amount of time. One of the girls on here back in November and December when I was working 2 jobs and couldn't get on here much even got mad at me and confronted me about it as if I was supposed to report in my comings and goings. And yes she knew my schedule had changed. One of the first girls I met and chatted with on here quickly had us meeting, one of us moving, us moving in together, getting married, and having kids.
I am not ready for that and I don't know when I will be. And I have been honest with all the girls. It is not like they didn't know that.
I have been more comfortable having sex with guys and being around guys even on here because for one I don't have those romantic feelings but the guys don't either. If they do they get the same honest story that I give the girls. But there has been a lot less of that than it has been with girls. And I am more comfortable around guys who are bi or who have other attachments.
Your friend may not be ready for any kind of commitment and it is easier to find guys who interested in a sexual relationship only. And it is easier and more comfortable being around them because they have that in common. It doesn't automatically mean they are gay. Sex with guys right now may just be what fits his needs better for awhile.
**Image removed by moderator. Too explicit for this section of the forum.**
There are some forms of "man on man" porn that I enjoy more than others. And some acts I enjoy more than others. And it may not always be the same. What turns me on today might not turn me on tomorrow. I like to be different I guess.
Like Dancing_Doll I do like the straight man seduced into man on man. That scenario always seems to be hot.
I like bisexual porn a lot more than just two men. Gives me both worlds in one.
Even though I love little short gifs of men or women masturbating and post them often on my page, I do not like porn just featuring someone masturbating whether man or woman. That little short gif is hot but to watch a full video of it just isn't my thing.
**Image removed by moderator. Too explicit for this section of the forum.**
**Image removed by moderator. Too explicit for this section of the forum.**
I hope this one is okay. Wasn't sure about genitals fully showing.
**Image removed by moderator. Too explicit for this section of the forum.**
The girl I currently date calls it Mikey...she always wants to know if Mikey can come out to play
There are 2 popular tags for true stories -- True and True Story. That is the easiest way.
I answered the one about how you compare or measure up to previous partners but only because I think it is the most common. Probably at some point all of them have been a part. It seems to vary with different partners.
With my ex-wife who was a virgin when we did it the first time, I didn't have that worry but I did worry about whether I would meet her expectations or her fantasies about when it would finally happen. Those can hard to live up to sometimes.
The too much erotic stimulation thing would be my biggest guess.
It is like a drug addict or even an alcoholic -- it takes them more and more each time to get the same effect.
Sometimes you can not be masturbating too much but it may be what you are using to get off too. You may have developed a tolerance to it and need something stronger. Back off awhile and the problem may go away.
A few others that I remembered I have watched a lot are: Deliverance, Dances with Wolves, Braveheart, The Untouchables, The Manchurian Candidate (original), the Porkys movies esp. #1, The Searchers, Phantom of the Opera, and maybe a few more.
I like to watch new movies too and check them out, but I tend to watch some that I really like often. I watch more movies than I do TV.
Yes I have. A few times in my past but the last few years quite a few times with my current roommate.
Only one of them wasn't pleasurable and that was in college when I walked in to find my roommate having sex with my current girlfriend. And not on his bed either....he had her bent over my bed.
I prefer to just cuddle. I always have to piss afterward but after that is cuddle and relax juices and all.
He is definitely hung. Great pictures and great taste in the lovely ladies on his friend's list.
The main reason I vote or comment is to encourage my fellow writers. I know how much time it takes to write a story and the aspects it takes to get one published on this site. So when I read a story I feel the best compliment I can pay that author is to at least score and leave some type of comment. First to thank them for taking the time to write and 2nd to encourage them to continue.
As to what I score, I know that some give their friends higher scores simply because they are friends. That does play into my voting as well as whether the author or friend supports other writers as well. But it is not the only thing.
It takes a lot for me to give a story or poem a 5. I am very discriminate about that. I do give a lot of 4s and only give below that when the story really warrants it.
I rate the story on how well it draws me in, how good the characters are, if they are explored, the build, and yes since it is an erotic story it must first excite me. And that can be done in many ways. A story that is unique will usually rate high with me too.
It is hard to narrow down to just one. Probably at the top of the list are the Christmas classics -- White Christmas, It's A Wonderful Life, Miracle on 34th Street and a few others that I watch several times around the holidays each year.
Regular movies it is a probably close tie between the Die Hard series, Stagecoach, Mr. Smith Goes To Washington, several of the Star Trek series esp. #2 The Wrath of Khan, Red River, True Grit, Phantom of the Opera, Some Like It Hot, The Shawshank REdemption, Caddyshack, Vertigo, Animal House, Deliverence, and maybe a few others that I watch a lot too.
Many of those are good old faithful movies that I know will entertain.
