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HotBttmInBriefs
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 46
United States

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Even with fantasy you still have to be physically attracted to that person. But even those friends that you are physically attracted to and fantasize about many times there is a line that you would draw. A really good friend I would be afraid to risk the friendship for just a roll in the hay. But have a wank over it is a different story.
My current gf/girl I date really loves ass play -- both giving and getting. She is wonderful at rimming and loves to be rimmed as well. We do toys too and she has two different strap-ons that she loves to use.
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That's not a threesome though.
You'd have no problem with any M/F + MF but have or would you do MMM or FFF with your partners approval?


I have personally run the whole gamit as far as 3somes for me -- MMM, MFM, FMF, and my current gf has done FFF. It was before we got together.
Well I am single but I guess because I am more cautious by nature it would depend on how well I knew the area we were in.

Most likely I would give you money for a cab or call the cab myself. And give your keys to the bartender to keep til he got there.
I have a few times:

backseat of car at a drive-in theater --- multiple times
abandoned parking lot -- even in the daytime hours
in a bathroom at my office building
in the bathroom at a bar
in the store room at a bar
in the bathroom at a restaurant
in the shower stall at a campground
in the woods behind a waterfall
beside an isolated lake
in the lake
in a tent in the campground

I think that is all of them. I too have never done it in a place that I saw children near or anything. I have always tried to be careful of things like that.
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Ah the Sweater Girl!
Everyone seems to have forgotten the Girl with Oomph! Anne Sheridan, a huge pin up star.


Betty Grable was another big pinup girl and I don't think she has been mentioned.



It was said at one time she was in more soldiers lockers than any other star in her day.
I will never figure out why people want to make generalizations about bisexual men and then wonder why men have trouble admitting they are bisexual or gay. The way things were worded above was as if the person was trying to shame men for their feelings or attraction toward men.

As to the cross dressing issue as others said it is more of a fetish. It is not one that I am personally into but I have worn women's panties and lingerie for both men and even women I have been involved with. It did nothing for me. But I did it for them. I have even dressed fully as a woman once or twice for a guy. Again it did nothing for me. But it did for them.

Personally I don't even get turned on by a guy in women's things or really even if a guy tells me in a chat room he is wearing panties. But I don't really care for women dressed in men's things either.

I am truly sexually attracted to both men and women and enjoy sex with them. But when I want a man I want him to be a man and if with a woman I like her to be a woman. Just the way I am.

But I don't have anything against those that are into it either. I applaud them for knowing what they want. And going for it.

To me as long as no one underage is being harmed or anyone is being hurt, forced or abused in any way, then no one should be made to feel bad for what turns them on or gets them off.
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I cannot go commando, it feels weird. Boxers for me.


I don't mind commando during the day with clothes, but I'm weird in that I'm not crazy about commando in bed when I am alone. I like it when someone is in bed with me, but if I am alone for some reason I like something supporting my boys. LOL
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I have gotten extremely messy from precum, almost as much goo as if I had cum in my pants, but I don't believe I've ever had a full on orgasm in my pants.

It is very typical for me to make a hell of a mess in my underwear while going down on my wife! And if I don't wear them while licking her, I'll leave a puddle on the bed or the floor! Good times.


I have done both of those too at times. I have been in public and gotten so horny at times that unless I am in jeans or dark pants I have had to cover my crotch because of wet spots due to just pre-cum.


Susan Peters was another of the actresses from the 30s and 40s who was beautiful. Her career was tragically cut short from a gun shot wound that left her paralyzed. They tried to revive it in the 50's with a short lived daytime soap opera, but it didn't work.



Gene Tierney was another classic movie actress who often gets overlooked in the beauty department.

As someone else said I guess we could debate this forever as everyone has their ideas about beauty. But truthfully we could easily make a list of at least 50 from each decade
Of the 7 I chose Elizabeth Taylor

I also agree with some of the choices listed esp. Dorothy Dandridge, Halle Berry, Lana Turner, Diahnn Carroll, Jean Harlow, Natalie Wood, Kim Basinger and several others.

Some other choices I would throw in are:


Jaclyn Smith


Susan Hayward


Vivien Leigh


Farrah Fawcett


Lynda Carter


Olivia Newton John

And even though these last two are not legends or well known I will throw them in:


Tamara Tunie


Debbi Morgan
Usually at least once a day...sometimes not out of being horny but as others have said it is a great way to cure insomnia and a great stress reliever.
85 to 90% of the time it is briefs.

The other time a mixture of boxers, boxer briefs, jockstraps or commando.
I once did it dry humping but not rubbing.

And then another time in a bar a date rubbed my crotch under the table until I came in my pants.
Some of these have already been mentioned, some not.

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The first time ever was with a lady and sadly it was very short...sadly for her maybe 5 or 6 thrusts. But I made it up to her later. The first time with a guy was much longer.
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Well to be honest if a guy came up to me and felt my balls or grabbed my ass I probably would punch him and I'm gay!


Wow....I worked 6 years as a waiter in a truck stop. If I punched a person every time they grabbed my balls or my ass my knuckles would have been bleeding. And no not just by truckers and no not just by men. Most of them were drunk but not always even then.

You came to expect it as part of the job.

And I have never once been in a gay bar but I have been in many str8 bars and there are many women when drunk who will do the same thing.
I only bareback with one man and he and I enjoy it very much. He is a total top so I have never of course barebacked him in that way. He and I are tested very often.

I have often had bareback anal with lady friends.

As far as the cleanliness issue, yes that is that issue, but there is that issue with any type of sex. I mean you are exchanging bodily fluids with another person. And all bodily fluids come with lots of germs. With anal you know where u are going and sometimes things happen.

As I have said with pubic hair and body hair, etc. sometimes you are going to get a hair in your mouth. To me it is the same as enjoying a beautiful rose, sometimes you are going to get stuck by a thorn....but I sure as hell am not going to quit smelling the roses.
The taste of cum at first didn't bother me as much as the texture. But yes as someone else said it is an acquired taste. I love it now. And someone else mentioned asparagus making your cum sour. There are several foods that will do that. I know one is a lot of celery. I can't remember the others. I also know that foods like pineapple will make it much sweeter.
I love them esp. certain kinds. I love anything celtic esp. on a man's upper arm.

I love tramp stamps as long as they are not too big.

I love tattoos on the hip esp. on a guy.

I like them on a guys chest too or on a girls boob as long as they don't cover the whole boob. A small tasteful one.
This may have already been suggested but I was thinking the other day that in addition to being able to follow an author I wish we could follow a category or categories and be notified when a new story has been added to that category.

There are several categories that I try to follow in particular the bisexual category and I try to catch all the stories added there to add to my queue, but if I get busy I have to go through the pages and add them.
I have known some women --- not because of my cock but of their lovers -- who have complained about girth but the biggest complaint I remember hearing was a friend I used to work with had a problem with her boyfriend being too long. She said he kept hitting her cervix and it would send excrutiating pain every time he did. She loved him but dreaded sex. She could only bear it a short time and have to either suck him off or let him have her butt. I had seen him at the gym and never hard. So could only go by her word on how long he actually was. Soft he looked average.