I get frustrated with some of my friends at times --- well the ones who know I am bisexual. I think they don't fully understand and I appreciate that they try. But they get this idea that if you are willing to be with a guy then you will just be with any guy who is bisexual.
We'll be out and they'll say you ought to get with so and so, we hear he is bisexual too. But the guy will do nothing for me at all.
I am sure it is probably the same way for bisexual women too.
Just wondering what kinds of things turn you on when looking for either a same sex partner or even the opposite sex partner. Do you prefer that they be bi too? Or can they be totally gay or str8?
Personally for me I do like them gay or str8. I do appreciate the bisexual partner just because they can understand where I am coming from better.
As far as what I like and don't like. I guess I am not the average bisexual man -- at least according to the ones I have met mostly in real life and on the Internet.
I like all types and have dated and had sex with many who don't fit my normal turn-on, but typically I like more feminine women and more masculine men. Just typically when I want a woman I want a woman and vice versa. I don't mind them being dominant or submissive in that role.
For instance I get more turned on my a woman in a hot pair of women's panties or a thong than I would in a pair of men's boxers. And the same for a man in a woman's panties. I would get more of a rise seeing him in his briefs or boxers.
I have found many others on the extreme to be very beautiful and even sexy. And even found the ones I have been with to be great lovers, but they are not generally what turns me on.
I also have one big turn-on in both men and women. That is being open minded and willing to experience new things. Not just in the bedroom but in life in general. New foods, new experiences, etc. I just find that hot when a person is willing to experience new things with me. At least willing to give something new a try.
Oh and edited to add -- individuality is a big turn on too. Someone who doesn't have to be cookie cutter like the rest. That is hot to me.
And I have to say I do love hair and I guess that is part of being an individual too. I don't want wild and bushy, but someone who keeps themselves well groomed esp. in their genital area. Esp. men these days who buck the norm and don some hair on their chest. That man really sticks out to me. I really love a wonderful landing strip on a female...neat and tidy. Or the same on a guy esp. if it has a nice happy trail that starts at his belly button and goes down.
So what about you?
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Carol Burnett
Wanda Sykes
Phyllis Diller
Lucille Ball
Joan Rivers
Janeane Garofalo
Lily Tomlin
Julia Louis Dreyfuss
Tina Fey
Mae West
Bea Arthur
Betty White
Gracie Allen
Gracie Allen to me is one of the most overlooked female comedians. She was brilliant and so many people have never even heard of her or long forgotten her.
It may not change the physicality of it. Yes without eye contact the physical job of getting off is going to happen. But you add eye contact to it and you just took that blowjob from great to amazing. You've added a whole extra level to it. It's become more than just a physical thing and you've added a extra connection with the person involved.
It's the same as the rest of sex. Yes if you are inside a person and you are thrusting, the physical aspect is there. You are going to get off even if the person just lays there. The guy is going to get off no matter what. But you let that person get into it or you look at that person's eyes and you see how turned how they are. Or you see that face they make when they really cum, you have just taken that from just a good fuck into something special.
I think of it the same way as watching gay for pay porn. I have seen some str8 guys take the money and get fucked, but the whole time they are as limp as a dish rag and putting on a good show but they aren't into it or turned on by what is happening. Yes the guy is still getting off fucking them, but it is not the same even for me as a viewer.
Guilty but it's been awhile
Have u ever had sex at work?
Cum
Someone sucking on your toes
I love to add ass play whether fingers or with a toy. I have used a flesh light a few times, but just prefer the good old fashion hand to cock combat.
As others have said with an individual in the room does make it even hotter sometimes too.
I have to disagree about a hand job too. Some of the hottest cums I have had have been hand jobs given while driving, under the table during dinner, in a bar under the table, etc.
The perfect one has the right amount of pressure...a firm but gentle touch....and a mixture of speeds, slow for the build and fast at the right moment.
I do know how to masturbate and I do enjoy it very much, but at times there is nothing like a different hand wrapped around ur cock at that moment when regular intercourse or a blow job just isn't an option.
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I look each and every time even when I get a friend request. I don't go by just their message alone even then.
I think so many factors can play a part. Many that have already been listed.
I would have probably been longer if circumstances didn't just fall into place one day (well with a little help from the guy). Due to the area we lived in, my shyness at the time, etc. I would have never made the effort on my own. I would have just sat back.
Later I got married. And I was raised that cheating was wrong. So for the five years we were married other than my fantasies I was faithful to her. Yes I was still curious about the other side, but if I was still married today I would have still just been curious about that part of my life.
It is weird when I think about it, because I was raised and taught that sex outside of marriage was wrong too. I never have followed that one. LOL But the part of fidelity and cheating in marriage stuck.
After reading all the responses, I can see both sides of it.
I think sometimes we focus on men as being the only culprits, and I'm sure they may be the major ones as men are more visually excited. But I get them from women too. In fact I got some for a woman last night who wasn't on my friend's list. The woman was hot and sent an accompanying message.
I would prefer to get them from someone on my friend's list, and think that is the best way to go if you are going to do it. Even then you should understand those on your friend's list and know who would appreciate that type of thing and who wouldn't. I try to at least find out or read their profiles. I think that is probably the biggest thing that many don't do. They don't even read the profiles of the people on their friend's list.
But at the same time I too have come to expect it as part of being here. I usually just delete them and go on. Or if it is a hot pic, I save it for later purposes. You know men and out spank banks.
Many men do have a preference on this or at least in their minds they do. And I am not talking about them being with a man sexually -- just for their own preference. Thus why you have so many men seeking to restore their foreskin after being circumcised as a child. Many who were not cut as a child have later as an adult. You have many cut men now advocating against it. There are even websites dedicated to that and to restoring your foreskin.
Personally I have never really given it a thought. My cut cock has served me well. I know some who are cut who say they have to definitely use lubricant to masturbate. I have enough skin left that it is not the case with me. I can choose to do either way.
So I have no complaints and satisfied with what I got.
She does, and she does it in front of me often. We don't live together and often do it over the phone together at night before we both go to sleep.
Even a finger is phallic -- like too.
Does that make it a gay act too if a man likes to have his ass fingered during a blow job or sex?
It is usually actors that get so outspoken or so full of themselves that I just can't get past certain things to watch them anymore. And sad a few of them I used to like at one time but at the tops of that list now are:
Alec Baldwin
Rosie O'Donnell
Tom Cruise
Whoopi Goldberg
Bill Maher
Kirstie Alley
And some of them I actually agree with what they say at times -- they are just so obnoxious in the way they say it. LOL
Not a partner but have with a friend
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