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Icarus32
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 35
Canada
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Quote by naughtyannie
Maybe if he did it in the restaurant over coffee, I'd be tempted lol.
I'm guessing it didn't work on that tv show...
It actually has mixed success on the show. They hear a story about a guy who uses it as his main move because its funny and a good ice breaker after you have managed to get back to the apartment, so they try it and if I remember correctly it works for one of them and the other gets tossed out of the apartment sans his clothes >_<
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Quote by Emerys
3) Library!sex. I find the idea of fucking behind the stacks in a secluded area to be so, so arousing.
To name a few.
I work in the central library in my city, a few years before I started there they did a complete redesign of the building, apparently part of the new design was to eliminate a lot of the hideaway type areas because people would use the relative privacy to get intimate on a fairly regular basis lol
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Quote by lafayettemister
Being honest doesn't absolve anyone of any consequences of their honesty.
If a man cheats on his wife and she asks him about it, and he is honest and admits it's true, chances are she's going to dump him.
If a devoutly religious man meets a wonderful woman and she honestly tells him that she's been with 200 men, he may move on to find another woman more suited to his needs in a woman.
If a woman asks a man who she's just recently started dating, "have you ever hit a woman?" and he answers "yes", she'll get out of the relationship immediately.
Honesty is a good thing, but it doesn't just wipe the slate clean or exempt the asker from having feelings/emotions about what's answered.
Really good points.
I just want to add that honesty is still the best path, because if you leave it out, or particularly if you lie about it chances are it will come out eventually,either intentionally or otherwise, and then it will be a much bigger deal.
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Like many have said above me I think this applies to both sexes, I also think the doesn't apply to everyone. Lots of people wouldn't do something like that.
Also the OP left this pretty broad and didn't give any context, so we don't really have a concept of if he/they are holding it against you. The way this is worded it could be anything from you telling him you once ate fifteen cheeseburgers in one sitting and him teasing you about it jokingly, to you telling him you cheated on him and him being upset about it for a while, or even you saying you once experimented with girls and him trying to use that to pressure/manipulate you into doing it again.
A lot of this is perspective, something you may feel is him holding it over your head may not even register on his radar, which is one of the many reasons why communication, particularly honest communication is king in keeping relationships going.
I do believe that to an extent history can suggest a pattern, if a girl told me that every relationship she had ever been in ended with her cheating I would be pretty skeptical when she told me that it wasn't going to happen with me. At least for the first while.
Now that all of that is out of the way, I'll leave with one last comment; if he is actually holding something over your head to make you feel bad or manipulate you etc. it's not because he's a man it's because he's a dick. Regardless of how he comes across the rest of the time.
Also the OP left this pretty broad and didn't give any context, so we don't really have a concept of if he/they are holding it against you. The way this is worded it could be anything from you telling him you once ate fifteen cheeseburgers in one sitting and him teasing you about it jokingly, to you telling him you cheated on him and him being upset about it for a while, or even you saying you once experimented with girls and him trying to use that to pressure/manipulate you into doing it again.
A lot of this is perspective, something you may feel is him holding it over your head may not even register on his radar, which is one of the many reasons why communication, particularly honest communication is king in keeping relationships going.
I do believe that to an extent history can suggest a pattern, if a girl told me that every relationship she had ever been in ended with her cheating I would be pretty skeptical when she told me that it wasn't going to happen with me. At least for the first while.
Now that all of that is out of the way, I'll leave with one last comment; if he is actually holding something over your head to make you feel bad or manipulate you etc. it's not because he's a man it's because he's a dick. Regardless of how he comes across the rest of the time.
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I'm not sure you can, the way I see it is this:
A) for some reason, your look, the fact that your dating their daughter/son, the way you talk, etc etc, something intrinsic about you has set them off and its unlikely that you will ever be able to change it satisfactorily to the point where they will like you.
B) something you did just offended them one day and unless you can figure out what it was and level with them they will either get over it eventually or hold a grudge and dislike you forever.
C) They don't like you because their new and they don't trust the new ones. Over time eventually they may warm up to you or may decide they don't like you.
Short of sucking up and really going way above and beyond I'm not sure you can ever make someone who doesn't like you change their mind.
I'm actually pretty curious as to what kind of response this thread will get. Think I'll watch this one.
A) for some reason, your look, the fact that your dating their daughter/son, the way you talk, etc etc, something intrinsic about you has set them off and its unlikely that you will ever be able to change it satisfactorily to the point where they will like you.
B) something you did just offended them one day and unless you can figure out what it was and level with them they will either get over it eventually or hold a grudge and dislike you forever.
C) They don't like you because their new and they don't trust the new ones. Over time eventually they may warm up to you or may decide they don't like you.
Short of sucking up and really going way above and beyond I'm not sure you can ever make someone who doesn't like you change their mind.
I'm actually pretty curious as to what kind of response this thread will get. Think I'll watch this one.
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I don't know, call me old fashioned or close minded or whatever, but when a girl is going home with a different person every few nights I think that falls under the term. Also anyone who doesn't respect themselves, or boundaries of relationships, or will simply sleep with pretty much anyone. I'm sure there's more but I cant think of it right now.
Oh, and of course these definitions can be given to men as well, there's always a point where one has gone too far.
Oh, and of course these definitions can be given to men as well, there's always a point where one has gone too far.
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I'm twenty three, and personally I don't want children for at least a few years yet, though if it happens so be it.
I'm curious as to when this whole "you shouldn't be having kids in your twenties" thing came to be, for the vast majority of our history if a person didn't have children by their late twenties it was cause for concern. Now its the opposite, now don't get me wrong I'm not saying one or the other is right, I'm just confused as to why people talk about it as if its the way its always been.
I'm curious as to when this whole "you shouldn't be having kids in your twenties" thing came to be, for the vast majority of our history if a person didn't have children by their late twenties it was cause for concern. Now its the opposite, now don't get me wrong I'm not saying one or the other is right, I'm just confused as to why people talk about it as if its the way its always been.
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It depends on a few things:
- the character, is that character sexualized? If not then its probably not hot, it can be cool, but not hot.
- the person, do they have a similar body type to the character their emulating, or failing that, do they have a body type I find attractive.
- the quality, in my opinion a good cosplay is all about the quality of materials and the work put in, a costume that looks like it really could be Powergirl or Wonder Woman's costume is going to garner a lot more interest from me than something that looks like a Halloween costume bought off the shelf.
- the character, is that character sexualized? If not then its probably not hot, it can be cool, but not hot.
- the person, do they have a similar body type to the character their emulating, or failing that, do they have a body type I find attractive.
- the quality, in my opinion a good cosplay is all about the quality of materials and the work put in, a costume that looks like it really could be Powergirl or Wonder Woman's costume is going to garner a lot more interest from me than something that looks like a Halloween costume bought off the shelf.