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JamesMerton1960
11 hours ago
Straight Male, 65
0 miles · London

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A basque and stockings (knickers optional) always gets me going. In the summer or while on holiday, naked under a light cotton dress.
Before my marriage broke up I started spending time away from home because it was such a miserable place to come back to. One of the things I started doing was mentoring younger colleagues both male & female. One of the was only 2 years older than my Son. She was 27 I was 58. We became friends and socialized together. Nothing ever happened and I was respectful of the boundaries. She had a string of rubbish relationships with inadequate men and it began to sap her confidence. Often I would take tearful messages or phone calls from her. I was there for her. On a couple of occasions when things were really bad I brought her home to my place (my wife had left my then) She slept in my bed and I held her while she wept. Nothing ever happened. Until.

One morning she woke with me, we were both dressed, in T shirts and PJ's. She had been very bad the night before and I had gone up into London and brought her home to mine on the tube. I held her until she fell asleep in my arms. That morning she started kissing me, more than once I asked if she was OK. She said she was. We ended up making love, it was superb. I showed her everything I knew how to do and treated her with respect. Nobody had ever gone down on her properly. We made love for hours and she came multiple times. It has never happened since. We are still good friends. She says that she now knows what she wants from a man and has set the bar a lot higher. She seems happier. Her new relationship has lasted 6 months and is still going strong. I have met him and he seems nice. Obviously he has no idea I have slept with his girlfriend. We have a bond between us. True story.
It all depends on the circumstances, and making sure that your partner is comfortable. I have to say I'm not keen on facials, it seems (to me) disrespectful. Sometimes when I am fucking a woman from behind I do like to pull out and shoot it over her bum/back. That is just my thing.

I once had a partner who wanted me to photograph her with my cum leaking from her pussy. That turned us both on.
Bloody tricky question. I have base two of the characters in my stories on women I lust after at the gym. I have never done anything about it, I'm too reserved and a gentleman.
My friend Donna over in Ireland. We have done cyber and got pretty worked up. For real would (will) be amazing.
A couple of glasses of a very light Zinfandel from a Californian winery. Enjoyed with roast lamb done the English way.
A couple of glasses of a very light Zinfandel from a Californian winery. Enjoyed with roast lamb done the English way.
Many years ago, when we were happier this happened (once) We ended up in a threesome and I had sex with both women. If I'm totally honest I enjoyed the sex with the other woman much more. She was far more adventerous and she waxed her pussy.
I recently had a fling with a new partner, she is a lot more adventerous than my ex-wife. She likes me to watch her masturbate, sometimes I join in and just cum on her. I find it very exciting.
I suppose I start with a sex scene or fantasy. Onto that I graft some characters to give it substance. I find that once I have created the characters then I am able to develop them and that is when new scenarios are created. My characters are entirely fictional although some are loosely based on people i know (Or would like to know better). Generous feedback from Lush readers has also steered me into developing some situations.
Wife or partner - Yes frequently
Stranger - possibly (depending on circumstances)
Guy - Don't think so, unless there were lots of people doing the same.
Personally I love to have sex first thing in the morning. There is nothing better than a nice slow start with someone you wake up next to. No need to hurry. Enjoy it and enjoy each other.
When I was submitting an early version of one of my stories the Lush moderators bounced it back more than once because I wrote out the text messages. They insisted they be treated the same as dialogue and punctuated. I still think it makes it clumsy writing.
I tried using a generic version of one of them when things were bad and my marriage was in collapse. They worked fine. After I split I had a few flings. I found that in most cases I didn't need it. My newer partners were all a lot more fun. Visual excitment really helps.
Pretty good at it, although I admit that I have not had enough practice recently. Need to get back into the first team. I did have an interesting experience recently, I was enjoying some cyber sex with a friend and was telling her what I wanted to do to her. She told be she was soaking wet.
My wife completly lost interest in sex and in herself, she just went downhill and gave up on everything. I happened to mention this to a neighbour and she told me that her husband was the same. This led to some very horny sessions together. We were friends who fucked. It worked for both of us.
I love to watch a lady masturbate I think it is a real turn on. Ideally starting with her hand in her knickers before stripping off and spreading her legs. Hopefully the next phase is using a toy. I like glass dildo's but that is a personal preference. I like to masturbate at the same time. Sometimes I cum on my partner. Once I couldn't because I was tied to a chair while my partner had a long slow wank. She did come over and finish me with a nice blow job.
Hopefully the contributions on this thread answer your question? Sex in older age is all about being confident about what you do. If you are someone who has succumbed to the life is nearly over mentality then nothing will work for you. As I have got older, I have become more confident, stronger and happier. My wife went the other way and we split.

I enjoy sex with women my age, I have had some very adventurous & loving sessions. Honesty really helps and I don't shy away from asking to try something new. I masturbate regularly, I enjoy cyber sex with a friend.

I like Lush because of the range of writing, the contributors and the support that is there. It is a forum for those who enjoy sex in all its varieties.