If your married or in a relationship loving your partner and if you decided to cheat with one for your first time cheating. Say the guy sweeps you off your feet sexually far more than your committed lover with you really having liked the first run with him, was friends before you cheated with him, would you keep going on with him in secret risking never to be caught for long term sex or would it have to be emotional connection to keep going with him? Or would you stop after the newness wore off of the sex? Last comment could you keep doing it long term and still love your partner/spouse?

Thank you ladies! Learn new things even when your older! I never had a clue there was much difference in thoughts with girls having oral or penetration sex. I always though that if my date blew me she was always in a state of mind she liked me very much. I always figured the dates I had if they never done oral they never liked me much. I see oral from a woman as being really emotionally connected. I asked my wife for the first time in all the years we been together....she said she loves blow jobs and sees it as non sex if she does it. Blew my mind!