Seconds. In the gay world, everything is about sex. Talk can come after the cum.

Yes. As my wife had her girlfriend, I was given freedom to play. She didn't know who I was with, but she knew I had a woman. One afternoon my wife went to her girlfriends for the evening for dinner and a grind. I called my lady friend, and she said I should come over awhile. I made the call, then the house call, and I was home all while my wife was out. I had showered and when she came home, she was horny, and we had sex without her suspecting anything.
A gay clothing optional campground opened nearby a few years ago. Within the first few weeks it was nearly shut down as the men staying there didn't realize they couldn't just have random sex on the picnic tables and other outdoor areas during daylight. There is a trail that goes through a heavily wooded area. Guests are told to use that area or go inside their RV. Otherwise, they will evict.
I know I've said this in other threads, but I have a married guy that sneaks over to my futon of fun, I know he's bi. Perhaps if he gets a divorce, he may decide to be gay. But one of his first visits, he felt like he needed to explain it to me. He said he wasn't gay at all. Then he got on his knees and after a proper lube job, I was balls deep in his ass. I stopped stroking and he was literally singing to me because I had him taking it like a whore. I ask how he was liking it. "Oh, it's so great!" I asked if he was still straight. He said, "Just keep fucking my ass..." That was maybe the second time I was in his ass after I had taken his anal cherry. Another time I went to his home and he had me laying across an ottoman and he rode my cock better than my wife. I told him that he had taken to being a bottom rather fast!
In a changing room at JC Penney. I was waiting for my wife to try on some clothes, and she slipped out nearly nude and waved for me to come help her. She was having problems with her panties. When she bent over to pull up a pair of pants, she had inadvertently rubbed the corner of the mirror and torn them almost in half. She asked me to go into the lingerie area and buy her a new pair and bring them to her. So, I did. And trust me, it was a bit awkward as this was a busy day in the store. When I brought them to her, I stepped in with her and she didn't seem to mind so I sat on the bench, and I began to lick her clit. I stayed on point until the orgasm. To which she returned the favor with a blow job.
When I met my wife, she was a lesbian. A couple years out of college, her time in school had been her awakening with women. She had been with girls before college, but she was on the women's basketball team, and they were all lesbians or bi. Then her roommate was also a lesbian, and they were an item in the dorm. Even then, she knew she wanted to be with a man. But she was willing to wait and enjoy the sex she was having. I would describe our early marriage years as her being a lesbian having a straight experience. After a year of marriage, she openly began having sex with women. At first, they were other bi women, and we had threesomes. I was working the night shift, and she had a coworker sleeping with her on nights I worked. During times she didn't have a lady lover, she wasn't as happy. She had one girlfriend for more than 3 years. We had another woman move in with us. She literally slept in our bed with us. But that became problematic as her lover started getting more intimate with me. A few hits and misses, she finally met a married woman outside of work and they began spending Wednesday nights together and it worked out.
Wife had a girlfriend that always came over in a g string. Never a thong. She had several and they all had a marble shaped bead that sat on her clit. This made her stay wet, and, in the grind, it would work both clits. She would come over and stay all day. Sometimes overnight. And the string never came off.
My wife had a strap on and a double dong she packed in her bag when going to sleep with her girlfriend. I never witnessed these toys being used. That was because if she had a woman when I was in the house, and any dong fucking came on the end of my cock. She used these toys when the man of the house wasn't home.
My wife is in her late 50s, and she still loves another woman. Her college basketball team from her junior season still meets annually for a weekend of love. They were in our pool a few weekends ago. But I realized early on that she needed lesbian sex. She shared some women with me, but I was always trying to step out so she could be alone with her lady lover. Early on, we were taking a stripper to a hotel and sharing her. But in the later morning, I would step out of the room for an hour.
For me, I've always had butt plugs, small to large. Lube and patience. I know that no matter how lose it may get, a break in action and it will tighten and need to be worked back loose. There have been times I let it slip, and I tighten. Then I get a call from a well-endowed man asking for a date. Immediately, I'm working my ass with my plugs because the pain is real. My favorite activity is to blow the plug out and put it back in. It goes back in much easier each time. Then I work a bigger plug in, and I begin to blow it out. One of my favorite things is to sit on a towel in my office chair. I lean forward onto my desk, and I push it out. It stays in my crack, yet out of my hole. When I sit up, my hole goes back over it. Ultimately, your lover's experience takes over from there. Sometimes it would seem you have the entire tube of lube in your hole and his cock it covered in it. But it can still be painful going in. He may have to pull out and apply more lube. I make sure to always have plenty of lube. And make sure it is anal lube.
My first time with a cute Latino man happened on a spring Saturday afternoon in his hotel room. He was traveling to my city for work. He said he was versatile, so I took a Viagra before going to meet him. We began having sex after a few minutes chatting on his sofa. I was being incredibly girlie as I put my hand in his shorts, and I took his big manly cock. He undressed me to reveal my mankini. He realized he had a very girlie slut sucking his cock. My cock sucking skills are customized to my needs. I wasn't interested in swallowing. I wanted fucked. I had him so turned on that he actually picked me up and carried me over to the bed. What ensued was the best dicking I've had in years. And he was so damn hard and manly. Growling at me and being very bossy. I was loving it. Then he fired his load deep into my man pussy. and when he opened his eyes, he was very different. Everything changed as he kissed me and he began sucking my cock. This man was a master of fucking. He could make any position happen. He had me lay on my back with my knees up. He then put his ass on my hard cock, and he slid down on it like a man whore. He started riding and moaning like a young woman getting her cherry taken. We only were able to meet three times. Each time was amazing. I was about to bring a third man into our girly parties and maybe have him make a video of us making a full swap. But his time working here ended and he never returned. Yet...
Not really bragging, but I've done most anything and everything at one time or another. I'm bi and I have a hot wife as well as a boyfriend and a girlfriend. Not quite as active as I once was. Viagra gives me the ability to maintain an erection long enough to invoke orgasms and at my age, that's fantasy in itself!
We never cared for anything too wild. We were not going to do bondage. Roleplaying only came up when she admitted she had a fantasy. But that was only because she always wanted it hard. She really didn't want to be . Just fucked like it. We did swing a little. I found a couple we could swap with whose husband had 8" and he was better than a jack rabbit dildo, to hear his wife tell it. So we paid them a Saturday evening visit at their home and by morning, she had her fill.
Yes. She had several women over the years. Her best was a coworker. Very beautiful woman. These two could have gone into a bar together and brought out several men. But they didn't. They usually went into the grind. They were both teachers and there were a couple summers they were inseparable. I would come home from work, and they would still be in the grind position, sleeping off the sex and a bit too much wine. Sometimes, they would lay in each other's arms and kiss for an hour. I always knew if they had met earlier, neither one of them would have married men.
We had a van on a wild week in Florida many moons ago. I wish it had been a conversion van, but if was a passenger van. We took the seats out except the back. In the floor we put an air mattress. To save cash, we ducked into rest areas and slept. Many time that week, she went to the restroom with cum running from her lower holes. On our way to Florida, we stopped in the Atlanta area and spent the night in a hotel with another couple in a full swap. The woman was an amazing booty queen, and I ended up having sex with her 3 times before we left. I was young and I had a cock that wouldn't stop. By the time we reached the next rest area, I had her down on the air mattress pumping into her ass. That turned out to be my end game as I laid asleep for several hours as she drove.
We began a vacation on the beach once and the first day there, it rained all day long. That morning, I looked at her body and I asked her if she wanted to go for the record? She knew exactly what I was talking about as one afternoon I had licked her to 7 orgasms. By nightfall, I had tongued her out to 11 orgasms. She was kind of exhausted, but next morning she was up and riding my cock! That set the tone for the most incredible week of sex we had together.
After my wife had her hysterectomy, it stopped us cold turkey. Though her condition slowed us down, I was always loyal to her. But she told me that it wasn't going to upset her to romp with another woman, just not women. But most women our age are older as we are older, and many women don't want sex. So younger is my only option. However, I have always been bisexual, and I've actually become gay. At least as far as sex in concerned. Younger women within a few years doesn't bother me. But I always liked older women. My wife is 2 years older than me.
I had a young man visiting me for a while as he was bi and very curious about receiving anal. I helped him begin this new journey in his life and he actually became addicted to taking my cock. The thing was, he was engaged to marry a woman. And the sex had ended in that relationship. But he was coming over twice per week and getting really horny with me. Once he told me that he was NOT gay. A few minutes later, I was balls deep in his ass. At one point, I stopped stroking his ass and I asked him to define a gay man. He actually said it was a man that had sex with other men. I told him to stop and think about that, and I started stroking his ass again. He figured it out. They married and they have great sex. He doesn't stop by nearly as often as he had been, but that's okay.
My wife was a lesbian during her college years. She'd been out of school a couple years when we met. She was breaking up from a lesbian relationship she had been in for nearly a year. I met her in a local LGBT bar before the label existed. So, upon meeting, without words, we both knew the other was at the very least, bi. She went to my apartment, and we had amazing sex all weekend. For over a year, she only had sex with me. Then she said she was ready to bring a woman back into her life. We had a few wild nights with a stripper, but she wanted a deeper relationship to go along with the sex. The following year, a new woman began working with her. I was working long night shifts, and it wasn't long before they found each other out and they were sleeping together on the nights I worked. The woman was very pretty. Eventually, she was invited to sleep with both of us. She ended up moving away after only a year, but then several other women were hired, and they were all bi and beauty queens. All in all, she liked sexual relationships with other pretty women vs the male "Butch" personalities she had been with in her college years. She said the pretty girls were sweet to one another, but Butch was always cursing her. I found that to be very interesting.