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Do you think you're still Bi if you love anal & women?

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Elder1
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I love intimacy with my hot lil wife. Even though she's past menopause, I still try...sometimes brokenheartedly. It can get that way as you age together...that other half of your heart you really care for deeply. That said, I loved it when I " came out" to her, & she got off on it. She used a 8" long, 2" wide natural dildo on me. She thought it was cute the way I moaned & fucked it back. So much so, she got the 12" double-headed one & we both moaned & came together. It felt so natural to suck another man's dick too. Waiting for real anal, but I see nothing saying I'm gay. Still love girls/wife as much as ever...maybe more. To us, it was like something like to share. It's all about togetherness folks. Doing it together is far more rewarding if you can. What say you?
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To my eye, if you enjoy being with a woman, even if she is doing you with a strap-on, I'd say you're bi. Gay would mean you're only into men and that does not seem to be the case. I've actually sucked a couple dicks (and been sucked off by a guy) but haven't done anal and I'm still pretty sure that's enough to make me bi (though I list as straight on my profile right now for various reasons) since I also still love the ladies.
Plushbunny
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That's the essence of being bisexual...your main preference is the opposite sex but you enjoy same sex play as well. My partner is bi and does everything with guys, which I enjoy watching or participating in. Great for MMF threesomes when both guys are bi. Such a turn on.
" I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer"
Woody Allen
latecomer91364
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Enjoying sexuality with both sexes is the textbook definition of bisexuality. If you agree with the sliding scale theory, where "1" would be completely straight, and "10" would be completely gay, then obviously you fall in there somewhere - it could be 2 or 9, but you're still bi, specifically since you mentioned that you HAVE sucked a real cock. If it was only ever anal with the wife and a strapon, it would be different - I don't think that would qualify you as bisexual.

When I'm with a bi couple, I feel that I'm having bi sex, but when I'm with a man or men, with no women present, I feel I'm having gay sex. That doesn't mean I've switched to a strictly gay self-definition, even in that moment, it just means that gay was the behavior of the occasion. I am still and will always be bisexual in spite of the details of the encounter.

I wish you all the best in your adventures.
SammiTS
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I think if you get aroused by doing even something like making out and touching each other with both men and women makes you bi....and I fall into that category which is why I call myself bi.
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I consider myself compleyely bisexual now. I am much more comforysble with that. I would fuck Tom Brady, my football hero anyday! With his wofe and her equally hot sisters, lol.
Imabadboi66
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I always liked to lick my wife's pussy, we did some anal which I found hotter than vaginal. When I masturbate it's always about guys. If I were looking for sex it would be a guy.
So I am bi, but have a preference for guys.
I would add that I love my wife, sex isn't everything.
Samantha32
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I'm a lesbian .. i still find some men attractive , i'm lesbian bi curious ?
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So you love women and taking it up the ass? How's that not bi? Sounds like me!
HappyEndings
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What if we just like sex and the gender of the partner is inconsequential as long as they're willing and interested? Would that fit the definition of bi?

What if you enjoy giving orgasms to people regardless of their sex. Does that make you bi or just someone that likes to make others feel good and be happy?

What if you're a man and anyone that offers to suck your cock is welcome to if they're disease free and if they didn't fall out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down?

What if you have almost always have sex with people of the opposite sex but when you tried sex with same sex partners you didn't enjoy it. Would that be bi?

I think this labeling is kind of hard to nail down and the level of commitment and how often or how many times you have same gender sex might be a defining factor but frankly all of that is just talk to me and I'd much rather get naked and have fun than sit around talking on the computer or in person about sex or one's sexual orientation.

Oops... I guess I'm doing just that right now... LOL
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
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in my opinion the answer is yes.
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I am married to a beautiful woman and we have a lot of sex together. I also have a male friend that I enjoy having sex with. I am definitely bisexual. I love anal & women.
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Well im Bi and married to a woman and I love anal.My wife doesnt enjoy Anal but she enjoys giving me anal
tomcat13
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I think whatever a man a woman do together is straight sex and that includes men receiving anal from their partner. If the man is dreaming of another man penetrating him during anal from a woman, he might have some bi/gay undertones or has fantasies that he might or wouldn't want to live out. That is a grey area in this topic, but I will just go back to my first statement, whatever a man/woman do together and they are attracted to each is plain old straight sex.
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We slowed down after her menopause. It woke my sleeping bi side that had been asleep for some time. I think that is nature for bi men. I'm usually only getting turned on when I see a cute guy I like. Perhaps I'm gay now, just living with a woman. I'm just happy to be sexually loved still!
Jody
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I had a young man visiting me for a while as he was bi and very curious about receiving anal. I helped him begin this new journey in his life and he actually became addicted to taking my cock. The thing was, he was engaged to marry a woman. And the sex had ended in that relationship. But he was coming over twice per week and getting really horny with me. Once he told me that he was NOT gay. A few minutes later, I was balls deep in his ass. At one point, I stopped stroking his ass and I asked him to define a gay man. He actually said it was a man that had sex with other men. I told him to stop and think about that, and I started stroking his ass again. He figured it out. They married and they have great sex. He doesn't stop by nearly as often as he had been, but that's okay.

joe71
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Good for you for ... uh, straightening your friend out.

To the OP: I fantasize a lot about gay sex (I mean, just look at my stories), but I'm still attracted to women. I love the taste of pussy, the feel of a soft boob in my mouth, the feminine curves. All the gay guys I know are turned off by those things. So yeah, you sound Bisexual like me.
joe71
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Quote by HappyEndings
What if we just like sex and the gender of the partner is inconsequential as long as they're willing and interested? Would that fit the definition of bi?

What if you enjoy giving orgasms to people regardless of their sex. Does that make you bi or just someone that likes to make others feel good and be happy?

You could still call yourself Bisexual if you want - how you identify is up to you, not for someone else to define you - but what you're describing is usually called Pansexual.

Personally, while I am highly attracted to both men and women, my attraction doesn't work the same for both (something that's stated explicitly in the Bisexual Manifesto and describes my feelings remarkably accurately). A partner's sex and gender is highly consequential in how I am attracted to them - and certainly in what I want to do with their bodies to pleasure them or have them pleasure me. I have the utmost respect for Pan folks, but in some ways it is almost the opposite of Bisexuality as I experience it.