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Katje
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 41
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Buxom Enigma
I like things posted to my page that are unique ... Something that represents a conversation I had with someone, a funny joke, or maybe something to do with a story one of us has written.
Sexy, funny, elegant. I prefer something classy, versus straight hardcore sex. And if it's twisted funny, or some hunk in a suit, all the better. Just because we're on a site dedicated to erotica doesn't mean the pictures must my raunchy and blatant (IMHO). We're all here for the sexy; let's see what else you've got to offer!
Sexy, funny, elegant. I prefer something classy, versus straight hardcore sex. And if it's twisted funny, or some hunk in a suit, all the better. Just because we're on a site dedicated to erotica doesn't mean the pictures must my raunchy and blatant (IMHO). We're all here for the sexy; let's see what else you've got to offer!
Buxom Enigma
Quote by sprite
i'm still waiting for you to finish up - i've been keeping a tally - up to 32 (probably shouldn't let you drink beer while working, but oh well). soon as you get the railing up, mister, and not a moment before.
Hey ... Yeah, you. If you need help, hit me on the celly. I'm sure your jaw will need a break. LOL
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I'd have to say I don't really check out profiles unless someone has made some interesting comment in the chatrooms, or here on the forum. Then, it's their bio and if they've got stories.
Sure and we're all here for sex, but for goodness' sake, we're still people with other interests. (By God!) Seeing someone is real, is a great start for me.
Sure and we're all here for sex, but for goodness' sake, we're still people with other interests. (By God!) Seeing someone is real, is a great start for me.
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It's mental stimulus. Kind of, think along the lines of "the grass is always greener on the other side". We hear our own local dialect day in and day out, and suddenly ... an accent! Our brain (OK, I'll insert here that everything in this post is my own personal opinion, and not some source of study.) ... Our brain immediately responds to this foreign stimulus with interest.
The Irish lilt, the Scottish brogue, the Southern drawl, and that sexy Australian thing? The elegant Brits, and the naughty Greek... Those are my favorites. All equal panty-wetters. Why? They're strange, they're foreign, they're erotic in their newness. And I LOVE it.
Talk dirty to me ... especially if you've got an acent.
I'll be putty in your hands.
The Irish lilt, the Scottish brogue, the Southern drawl, and that sexy Australian thing? The elegant Brits, and the naughty Greek... Those are my favorites. All equal panty-wetters. Why? They're strange, they're foreign, they're erotic in their newness. And I LOVE it.
Talk dirty to me ... especially if you've got an acent.
I'll be putty in your hands. 
Buxom Enigma
Quote by Ravyn
Any man who thinks he is a Master should also check this out, it would sure keep the list short of those who 'call' themselves Master and aren't.
Precisely. Too many (even here) call themselves Master, and yet have no true understanding of the real responsibilities.
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I completely agree with what Ravyn says above. There are so many aspects to this type of relationship, and sex is merely one of the ingredients. One of the most important things you'll find is integral here (both in deep relationship and play) is TRUST. Since there is a degree of sadism/masochism in each relationship, there is always the potential for pain, both physically and emotionally.
Many women (myself included) start into this lifestyle with eyes wide open and some end up falling into a pit (as I did). Test the waters, explore them, search them out and familiarize yourself with as much as you can.
Be careful, and wary of the masses of "wanna-bes" and posers that are out there. Education is key. Learn as much as you can about the way a REAL Master conducts Himself. A real Master isn't boastful. In fact, I find the need to post this from another thread here:
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst31610_The-Man--The-Master.aspx
Words anyone will agree with.
Many women (myself included) start into this lifestyle with eyes wide open and some end up falling into a pit (as I did). Test the waters, explore them, search them out and familiarize yourself with as much as you can.
Be careful, and wary of the masses of "wanna-bes" and posers that are out there. Education is key. Learn as much as you can about the way a REAL Master conducts Himself. A real Master isn't boastful. In fact, I find the need to post this from another thread here:
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst31610_The-Man--The-Master.aspx
Words anyone will agree with.
Buxom Enigma
Another link is also: http:// daddy-denial.com/2.html
The relationship between a DD (Daddy Dom) and his lg/bg (little girl/baby girl) is varied and vast. The biggest stigma you'll find associated with this particular fetish and flavor of BDSM is that it involves . It doesn't, I'll assure you now. In fact, for most of us, is a shudder-inducing thing, as it's not a even remotely why we are who we are, and do what we do.
I'm proudly and happily a "little", as we call ourselves, and as our Daddies refer to us, btw.
If you have any more questions, or would like more links, or just want to chat and learn more, please feel free to PM me.
(lol, No, I don't own a binky. I just thought it was cute.)
As it stands, there's a lot of people out there that just think they can lay there and say "fuck me, Daddy!" ... NOT even the case. Being a little is just like being any type of submissive role: It takes hard work, understanding and an open mind. A little doesn't just "take what Daddy gives her", she is open and receptive to his teachings and his guidance, and in turn, she brightens up his day/night. We're just as vital to them as they are to us.
The relationship between a DD (Daddy Dom) and his lg/bg (little girl/baby girl) is varied and vast. The biggest stigma you'll find associated with this particular fetish and flavor of BDSM is that it involves . It doesn't, I'll assure you now. In fact, for most of us, is a shudder-inducing thing, as it's not a even remotely why we are who we are, and do what we do.
I'm proudly and happily a "little", as we call ourselves, and as our Daddies refer to us, btw.
If you have any more questions, or would like more links, or just want to chat and learn more, please feel free to PM me.
(lol, No, I don't own a binky. I just thought it was cute.)As it stands, there's a lot of people out there that just think they can lay there and say "fuck me, Daddy!" ... NOT even the case. Being a little is just like being any type of submissive role: It takes hard work, understanding and an open mind. A little doesn't just "take what Daddy gives her", she is open and receptive to his teachings and his guidance, and in turn, she brightens up his day/night. We're just as vital to them as they are to us.
Buxom Enigma
I have to say it's most likely a baser instinct, a Survival of the Fittest-type scenario: Yeah, Cavegirl Jane has legs for days, but does she know how to cook? Does she know how to solve a scheduling dilemma in the midst of utter chaos? Doubtful.
I personally think those of us that have a brain in our heads immediately search out another smart person, because we know that they've got skills and can solve problems. Smarter than the average bear, see.
Plus, like has been mentioned before ... Conversation when the lights go out, poking fun at psuedo-intellectuals that make up words to seem more important, bantering back and forth about old literatire, comics or some game issue. The sex drive comes and goes, but (barring dementia) conversation stays the course.
Plus, we geeks are hella hotter between the sheets, if I say so, myself!
I personally think those of us that have a brain in our heads immediately search out another smart person, because we know that they've got skills and can solve problems. Smarter than the average bear, see.
Plus, like has been mentioned before ... Conversation when the lights go out, poking fun at psuedo-intellectuals that make up words to seem more important, bantering back and forth about old literatire, comics or some game issue. The sex drive comes and goes, but (barring dementia) conversation stays the course.
Plus, we geeks are hella hotter between the sheets, if I say so, myself!
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I'm 30, and obviously female, but a friend of mine posted here and it piqued my curiosity.
When I was younger, I didn't much care for the thought of being with an older man; since then, I've come to my senses and will admit I prefer an older man.
What I've found is that many young women are vapid twats that get chased for their pussy, and not their brains. Other women, like myself, are highly sexual but intelligent, and I find that though I lack the svelte figure of some "sweet young thing" (Do people even say that anymore?) ... I have enough brains for the both of us.
The men I've been with are drawn to my mature, somewhat beatnik mindset, and stay because I've got the libido of a twenty-year-old on X. It's win-win.
Huzzah for you guys that like a younger woman.
When I was younger, I didn't much care for the thought of being with an older man; since then, I've come to my senses and will admit I prefer an older man.
What I've found is that many young women are vapid twats that get chased for their pussy, and not their brains. Other women, like myself, are highly sexual but intelligent, and I find that though I lack the svelte figure of some "sweet young thing" (Do people even say that anymore?) ... I have enough brains for the both of us.
The men I've been with are drawn to my mature, somewhat beatnik mindset, and stay because I've got the libido of a twenty-year-old on X. It's win-win.
Huzzah for you guys that like a younger woman.
Buxom Enigma
Quote by wilbert
A massive thank you to Syrianna. She gave me feedback and rather than just letting me struggle along she helped me edit my story. Not to mention her intellect and openness to teach ;) x
Aww, thanks so much! I really appreciate that.
I figure, I had a mod that helped me along much the same way, so I pay it forward. LOL And I'm glad you fond our chat so educational!
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I think that this is one of those scenarios where there's no real gray area: Either you're for it, or against it.
I have to say that I agree with a previous post by PersonalAssistant regarding the viability of an older man's sperm for a younger woman to conceive. I'm for it, so long as all parties go in with eyes wide open.
Is it really a great idea? Personally, I think not, not into the 60s anyway. It boils down to each their own. After all, because there are so many young people (say, teens, though I'm not picking on them) having babies and not really knowing WTF they're doing, and Mom and Dad have to raise them (aka Grandparents as Caregivers) at the other option of them going into state custody ... I don't see the difference in an older man taking on making babies. If they can do it, more power to 'em!
Again, I'm mixed about it. So, I guess there is a little gray area.
I have to say that I agree with a previous post by PersonalAssistant regarding the viability of an older man's sperm for a younger woman to conceive. I'm for it, so long as all parties go in with eyes wide open.
Is it really a great idea? Personally, I think not, not into the 60s anyway. It boils down to each their own. After all, because there are so many young people (say, teens, though I'm not picking on them) having babies and not really knowing WTF they're doing, and Mom and Dad have to raise them (aka Grandparents as Caregivers) at the other option of them going into state custody ... I don't see the difference in an older man taking on making babies. If they can do it, more power to 'em!
Again, I'm mixed about it. So, I guess there is a little gray area.
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I'm a bit of both ... plus, a nice little suck when we change positions. Nothing like the taste of me on his shaft! As many before have said, it depends on the mood, what I want, and what he's told me to do.
Every now and again there's nothing quite like him just looking at me, saying "knees" and sucking him until he cums.
At the same token, there's just something about the way he reacts when I tease him with my mouth, too! God, I love being a cocksucker!
Every now and again there's nothing quite like him just looking at me, saying "knees" and sucking him until he cums.
At the same token, there's just something about the way he reacts when I tease him with my mouth, too! God, I love being a cocksucker!
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I enjoy it a lot. Actually, with my most recent ex, I tried on numerous occasions to stick his dick in my ass, but he wasn't having it.
Every now and again, I get this crazy hunger for it, and nothing satisfies the urge until I get what I want. Sadly, it's been oh, five years since my last anal encounter, though the current beau intends on ending this streak as soon as possible!
Every now and again, I get this crazy hunger for it, and nothing satisfies the urge until I get what I want. Sadly, it's been oh, five years since my last anal encounter, though the current beau intends on ending this streak as soon as possible!
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This is one of those out-of-the-pan and into-the-fire type scenarios.
Sure and toys can be expensive, especially a collection of them. My opinion, if you two of you are splitting on mutual terms, by golly, let her pick a few of her favorites to take with her on the road. You DID buy them for HER, after all. Give her the option of keeping the ones she wants.
And, as previous women have said, full disclosure about Used Toys is imperative. I've never been put in a position to use something that another woman (that I've never met) has had inside her cooch. Color me bonkers (in light of all of the previous comments saying otherwise) but with glass, I don't think I'd be as "eww! no! get it away from me!" as if it were, say latex or silicone.
Sure and toys can be expensive, especially a collection of them. My opinion, if you two of you are splitting on mutual terms, by golly, let her pick a few of her favorites to take with her on the road. You DID buy them for HER, after all. Give her the option of keeping the ones she wants.
And, as previous women have said, full disclosure about Used Toys is imperative. I've never been put in a position to use something that another woman (that I've never met) has had inside her cooch. Color me bonkers (in light of all of the previous comments saying otherwise) but with glass, I don't think I'd be as "eww! no! get it away from me!" as if it were, say latex or silicone.
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I'm more natural. For the longest time, I didn't have anything other than what God gave me, a nice bush. But, I eventually I decided to change things up and started trimming closely.
Now, if I'm single, I trim it, but as I'm in a relationship, I keep my lips smooth, and have a trimmed bush on top. Sexy, and so far I haven't gotten complaints. I'm of the belief that a woman should look like a woman, not a little girl. So, I do my landscape accordingly.
Now, if I'm single, I trim it, but as I'm in a relationship, I keep my lips smooth, and have a trimmed bush on top. Sexy, and so far I haven't gotten complaints. I'm of the belief that a woman should look like a woman, not a little girl. So, I do my landscape accordingly.
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Oh, this was a neat read!
I've never been shaved by someone else before. To be honest, there was only a couple of exes that I'd have trusted with something sharp down there!
My current beau is chomping at the bit to shave it all from top to my bottom, though I like to keep a little patch on top. I have to admit, I've only briefly though of it before, but now ... well, he's got me convinced to give it the old college try!
BTW, I love the diversity of opinions on the shaved v natural take, too!
I've never been shaved by someone else before. To be honest, there was only a couple of exes that I'd have trusted with something sharp down there!
My current beau is chomping at the bit to shave it all from top to my bottom, though I like to keep a little patch on top. I have to admit, I've only briefly though of it before, but now ... well, he's got me convinced to give it the old college try!
BTW, I love the diversity of opinions on the shaved v natural take, too!
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I also got Fantasy Lover ...
But, I must say that, where some of the questions (read two) made me actually tip my head and think for a moment, it seemed superficial, and the questions weren't deep enough to really gauge one's seduction ability.
Almost made me think of the quizzes I did on Quizilla when I was in my late teens. Kind of disappointing, though I do mostly agree with the sentiments in my results.
But, I must say that, where some of the questions (read two) made me actually tip my head and think for a moment, it seemed superficial, and the questions weren't deep enough to really gauge one's seduction ability.
Almost made me think of the quizzes I did on Quizilla when I was in my late teens. Kind of disappointing, though I do mostly agree with the sentiments in my results.
