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gypsy,
You have exerted a good amount of energy on this topic, and have made a good attempt at looking at things from my point of view. While I respect your input I would have to just point out that everyone is going to have their own point of view and opinion of things in life. I can only speak from my experiences, and what I have researched and witnessed.
IMO - Any relationship that you come across no matter who is in control and what type of relationship you have they all rely on a give and take foundation and we all have challenges that we have to meet. But, overcoming the challenges and having those 'make up' moments are what makes things count.
Krista, I have not made an attempt at looking at things from your point of view, I have replied based on a great deal of personal experience, none of which you know anything about. Yes, everyone has his or her own opinion in life, but you were making broad general statements that were reductive and to be honest, my feeling is that you are just not old enough to have a lot of experience. Of course I could be mistaken, but somehow, I don't think I am.
Of course we all have challenges in life, relationships, etc, but please. I have had a great deal of experience in my life with control and the various degrees to which it can either work or be nasty and abusive, right from the word 'go'. I have also dealt with, listened to and counselled people who do indeed live the D/s life-style. So I am not really sure what lesson you think I need to learn, when you say that overcoming challenges and having those 'make up' moments are what makes things count.