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Krista
Over 90 days ago
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gypsy,
You have exerted a good amount of energy on this topic, and have made a good attempt at looking at things from my point of view. While I respect your input I would have to just point out that everyone is going to have their own point of view and opinion of things in life. I can only speak from my experiences, and what I have researched and witnessed.
IMO - Any relationship that you come across no matter who is in control and what type of relationship you have they all rely on a give and take foundation and we all have challenges that we have to meet. But, overcoming the challenges and having those 'make up' moments are what makes things count.


Krista, I have not made an attempt at looking at things from your point of view, I have replied based on a great deal of personal experience, none of which you know anything about. Yes, everyone has his or her own opinion in life, but you were making broad general statements that were reductive and to be honest, my feeling is that you are just not old enough to have a lot of experience. Of course I could be mistaken, but somehow, I don't think I am.

Of course we all have challenges in life, relationships, etc, but please. I have had a great deal of experience in my life with control and the various degrees to which it can either work or be nasty and abusive, right from the word 'go'. I have also dealt with, listened to and counselled people who do indeed live the D/s life-style. So I am not really sure what lesson you think I need to learn, when you say that overcoming challenges and having those 'make up' moments are what makes things count.


No need to be so emotional over this topic. You are right I do not know about your personal experience and I am not trying to put words in your mouth. As per my age, yes I would have to say that I am young, and truth is I have not been though a lot of relationships because I tend to make things work out with one partner because that is what satisfies me. Great job that you have been a relationship counselor, I am not by any means I was just being open on my view points. And the point I was trying to put out there was just that every couple comes across problems in their relationships or there are times when disagreements occur but working through those together are always rewarding and you can later reflect upon and learn from them.
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gypsy,
You have exerted a good amount of energy on this topic, and have made a good attempt at looking at things from my point of view. While I respect your input I would have to just point out that everyone is going to have their own point of view and opinion of things in life. I can only speak from my experiences, and what I have researched and witnessed.
IMO - Any relationship that you come across no matter who is in control and what type of relationship you have they all rely on a give and take foundation and we all have challenges that we have to meet. But, overcoming the challenges and having those 'make up' moments are what makes things count.
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It is what you make out it. Things are changing out in the world. Look at the work place is your boss a man or a woman? More bosses are becoming women because alot of them are very demanding, like to show off, and if you are a woman who looks good, men will bend over backwards for you too.

So imagine a female running the household. Alot of people dont think about it but many relationships are now turning that way. The husband gets laid off the wife is now the one who is paying most of the bills so she now has the chain of command. When someone is the sole provider the other person in the relationship has to respect that person more.

There are many ways to interpret this type of relationship base, this is just one example.
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