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LadyX
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 35
0 miles · Dallas
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Artistic Tart
#1
The more time passes, the clearer my own reality gets. I have a fantastic ability to bullshit myself and others, and only after I'm removed from a situation can I see it for what it really is.
I got knocked up by a man that took it very seriously, which alone was a big deal to me. Full disclosure: I wasn't altogether sure it was his at first, either. He was a charming guy (in his own way...heh), and I kind of held him at arms length for a long time. But once we both knew it was his, things changed. We began to date seriously; he took care of me (in every meaningful way but financially), and I fell in love with him. We got married when our child was five months old; it was one of the happiest days of my life.
We separated in mid-December, just before Christmas, then slowly found our way again as the winter faded away. We did therapy. More importantly, I do therapy LOL. But seriously, both helped out enormously. And now, having gotten together due to an unplanned baby, gotten married, gotten separated, and now, rediscovered what we have, I realize that I'm incredibly blessed. We have our areas of tension. We bicker. Occasionally, we have to 'go cool off' for a while. But we love each other intensely.
I don't believe in a single soulmate either, for that matter, but if the question is: did I get the fairytale start-up romance? Not even close. But unlike the princess that gets rescued by her knight in shining armor, or swept away by her prince, we've worked hard to earn the relationship that we now share.
The more time passes, the clearer my own reality gets. I have a fantastic ability to bullshit myself and others, and only after I'm removed from a situation can I see it for what it really is.
I got knocked up by a man that took it very seriously, which alone was a big deal to me. Full disclosure: I wasn't altogether sure it was his at first, either. He was a charming guy (in his own way...heh), and I kind of held him at arms length for a long time. But once we both knew it was his, things changed. We began to date seriously; he took care of me (in every meaningful way but financially), and I fell in love with him. We got married when our child was five months old; it was one of the happiest days of my life.
We separated in mid-December, just before Christmas, then slowly found our way again as the winter faded away. We did therapy. More importantly, I do therapy LOL. But seriously, both helped out enormously. And now, having gotten together due to an unplanned baby, gotten married, gotten separated, and now, rediscovered what we have, I realize that I'm incredibly blessed. We have our areas of tension. We bicker. Occasionally, we have to 'go cool off' for a while. But we love each other intensely.
I don't believe in a single soulmate either, for that matter, but if the question is: did I get the fairytale start-up romance? Not even close. But unlike the princess that gets rescued by her knight in shining armor, or swept away by her prince, we've worked hard to earn the relationship that we now share.
Artistic Tart
Quote by Hornylittlegirl1992
Yeah I have.
I wanted him to leave my house.
It was my brother
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Artistic Tart
Quote by SereneProdigy
I like the exterior of this house ; I really don't like big houses that look greedy or houses that look too modern. Maybe this one could be a just bit bigger. I also love red brick as I think it looks warm and welcoming.
The only things missing are a few trees, plants and flowers.
well you're easy to please. This house looks like approximately 4 million houses within an hour of where I live.
Artistic Tart
Men that are always doing any particular facial expression are going to be annoying regardless. And if these were the images used in the study, then I think they did a poor job of removing contextual bias. I mean, come on...they use a collection of accomplished athletes for the 'pride' category and we're supposed to react only to the facial expression?
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Quote by ScottFord
Poor little old Oprah Winfrey. According to her she received some of her own medicine of being a racist and sexist. But the truth is one of three things:
1. She went in to buy a $38,000 purse (I don't think there is one person on here that doesn't think that is such a piss poor thing to do, as most people don't make that a year) and because they didn't know she was a Queen of Hollywood and kiss her big no talent ass and the Sales Lady tried to do her a favor that any other women in the world would say thank you for, but pointing out a purse less expensive, she felt she was being decimated against because of her race. What an ego.
2. Since she is too rich and snotty to usually do her own shopping, her shopper went in and when her shopper mentioned her name it didn't mean a thing to them. Actually only a few fooish women are paying hard money to watch her show. That is why her network is not making much money. So she had to come out and get her name in public again.
3. Or the truth is she lied and used this to push her movie. She is buying the Academy Award and is using race to cover for her poor work. She is greedy, selfish and has little if any real talent. So she has to push her movie and with the help of the excuse we have for a media, they give her all she wants without looking to find out the truth.
Now I am sure there are some people who see nothing wrong with anything she does and will defend her and since I could use a good laugh I would love to hear how you do it.
So, to sum it up:
1) look how expensive that bag is! She sucks! How dare she spend money on things she wants!
2) and she uses a personal shopper too? hmph!
3) here's my black-helicopter bullshit conspiracy story
It's funny to me that in your next post, you spent a full paragraph on your high horse, trotting out your man-of-the-people routine and saying you'd never use class warfare ploys. One problem: resenting people for choosing to make expensive purchases is class warfare. Oops.
Why do you care what somebody buys with their own money? I suspect you don't, unless it's somebody you dislike already. I'm pretty sure this is as much time as I've ever spent discussing or thinking about Oprah. But the fact remains that 38,000 to her is a far smaller fraction of her net worth than a movie ticket would be to me, and I suspect the same would be true for you. However, I'll let you answer that for yourself, when you're not busy as the arbiter of who's overpaid, and who's bag costs too much.
Artistic Tart
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
The woman isn't built to take anything more than 9 inches or so. Of course that's just the standard and I'm sure it can vary, but that's the average. And most vagina depth is average (hence the term 'average'). So, technically a woman can 'take' any length and pretty much any width/girth or what have you up the vagina, but if it's longer than the aforementioned 9 inches, then it's just gonna be pointless excess. I personally don't enjoy the idea of partially fucking a cock.
Other orifices such as the mouth and anus don't really have these limitations, so it just becomes a matter of willingness and ability. But I'm guessing that whatever size a woman is willing to take up the vagina will apply to the other holes, by default.
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well that sucks....
*throws trademarked Lexington Steele 13" dildo against the wall in frustration, stomps off*
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Quote by trinket
Im not trying to disrespect anyone with my statement, but somebody should really make up their minds about whether girls should be posting on Ask the Guys or Guys should be posting on Ask the Gals.
One minute it seems it's ok, then someone comes along and says it's not ok. Which is it?
It's okay. Occasionally people get frustrated by it, but they have the option to let off a little steam about it, and life goes on. As unsolved issues go around here, that one belongs way down the list.
Artistic Tart
I did bondage once. Or I should say, I applied it to somebody else, along with the guy that the State of Texas insists on referring to as my "accomplice". I don't know if the other guy enjoys the bondage. He sure didn't at the time, that's for sure. But I did make out with a couple thou$$, so that was cool.
