Rookie Scribe
Thanks! That's great advice. The main reason its so nerve racking for me is because up until this point monogamy has been very important to both of us. I find that I'm starting to move beyond that in a lot of ways. I'm secure enough in our relationship that I'm no longer threatened by the idea of us pursuing pleasure/gratification with other people. In fact I feel that if you love someone it would make sense for you to want them to pursue and experience that. And it hadn't really occurred to me that he might be excited by that.Who knows maybe it's something we could even do together... I guess all I can do is buck up and tell him how I feel and hope he understands. Thanks again
