Quote by Dani


I'm not a guy but I thought I'd butt in anyway. Just wanted to make a few points.

Yes, physical attraction is important. It's the first thing anyone has to go on. How important it is varies among women (and people in general). The point is, it has to be there. However, unappealing people are entering relationships as well as getting laid every single day. So your lack of luck with the ladies may involve more than just your looks.

You say that women don't put in any effort to talk to you. Well, do you have anything interesting to say apart from the usual mundane small talk? And how are you in your approach? Do you impose yourself? Or do you keep going despite social cues that a woman isn't interested in talking to you? Body language is important. If she tenses up, that should be enough to know not to even attempt a conversation.

Yes, it can be rude and off putting, but sometimes being short and sweet is better than engaging only to later be accused of leading a guy on. Most women know when a guy is interested, and if the feeling isn't mutual, we try to get out of it before the inevitable happens.

Side Question: The women that you're attempting to talk to, are they attractive? And if so, why haven't you attempted to talk to unattractive or slightly less attractive women?